{"id":24180,"date":"2025-04-16T07:37:12","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T07:37:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/24180\/"},"modified":"2025-04-16T07:37:12","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T07:37:12","slug":"can-a-chatbot-be-your-therapist-experts-say-proceed-with-caution","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/24180\/","title":{"rendered":"Can a chatbot be your therapist? Experts say proceed with caution"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With therapy waitlists stretching for months and the cost of mental health support inaccessible to many, more and more people are turning to Artificial Intelligence (AI) platforms for emotional support.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>On social media, users are openly sharing their experiences using chatbots like ChatGPT to cope with mental health struggles.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ruehalloway\/video\/7488073912635444523\" data-video-id=\"7488073912635444523\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\"><p>  <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@ruehalloway\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ruehalloway?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@ruehalloway<\/a> i use it everyday <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"chatgpt\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chatgpt?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#chatgpt<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Classic classical gymnopedie solo piano(1034554) - Lyrebirds music\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Classic-classical-gymnopedie-solo-piano-1034554-6974451099088455681?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c Classic classical gymnopedie solo piano(1034554) \u2013 Lyrebirds music<\/a>  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cSo we all using ChatGPT as a therapist now? I thought it was just me,\u201d a TikTok user said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy therapist actually said there\u2019s a lot of studies where they\u2019re testing real doctors &amp; therapists vs AI and AI gets way better reviews bc they actually listen to the patients &amp; their feelings,\u201d another user on TikTok commented.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Yet, there are also some users who are weary about using AI as a substitute for a human therapist.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@user927611973\/video\/7451212856336370986\" data-video-id=\"7451212856336370986\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\"><p>  <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@user927611973\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@user927611973?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@user927611973<\/a> What do you guys think about using ChatGPT or AI as a therapist? I understand especially in countries where mental health care systems are extremely expensive, this may feel like the better option. Sometimes it may even be the only option, so I can empathize with that. But there is something so sinister about society being so individualistic that people are now opting to open up to a robot instead of lean on their loved ones! It&#8217;s not the fault of those seeking any bit of help they can (what I say in the video is just me being humorous!), but it does showcase something ugly about the world at large. <a title=\"mentalhealth\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mentalhealth?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mentalhealth<\/a> <a title=\"therapy\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/therapy?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#therapy<\/a> <a title=\"chatgpt\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chatgpt?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#chatgpt<\/a> <a title=\"ai\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/ai?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#ai<\/a> <a title=\"society\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/society?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#society<\/a> <a title=\"opinion\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/opinion?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#opinion<\/a> <a title=\"robots\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/robots?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#robots<\/a> <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#fyp<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - \u2606 B Talks | for the girls  \u2606\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7451212754813258538?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound \u2013 \u2606 B Talks | for the girls  \u2606<\/a>  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@parisbeyk\/video\/7470261777712827681\" data-video-id=\"7470261777712827681\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\"><p>  <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@parisbeyk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@parisbeyk?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@parisbeyk<\/a> Be careful if you like to use ChatGPT as a therapist \u2013 if you\u2019re getting sucked into a validation loop, set boundaries &amp; step away <a title=\"chatgpt\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chatgpt?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#chatgpt<\/a> <a title=\"ai\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/ai?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#ai<\/a> <a title=\"emotionalsupport\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/emotionalsupport?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#emotionalsupport<\/a> <a title=\"validation\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/validation?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#validation<\/a> <a title=\"psa\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/psa?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#psa<\/a> <a title=\"selfawareness\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/selfawareness?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#selfawareness<\/a> <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"mentalhealth\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mentalhealth?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mentalhealth<\/a> <a title=\"mindsetshift\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mindsetshift?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mindsetshift<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - PARIS\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7470261824110349088?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound \u2013 PARIS<\/a>  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cTalking to AI is honestly sad, plus they always agree with you, it feels weird and forced. I don\u2019t want something to glaze my opinions, I need people to be honest,\u201d a user said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But can a bot trained on internet text truly replace the human experience of therapy?<\/p>\n<p>Rob Pintwala is the founder and CEO of First Session, a Canadian platform that helps people find the right therapist. While he doesn\u2019t believe AI can replace human therapy, he understands why so many are turning to it for support.<\/p>\n<p>His journey began when his wife\u2019s frustrating experience with a local therapist prompted him to create a better matchmaking process for clients.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe built up all this courage only to be disappointed by bad conversations,\u201d Pintwala said. \u201cShe didn\u2019t try again for some time, and that experience motivated me to start the [First Session] platform.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Launched in 2019, First Session focuses on what Pintwala calls the \u201ctherapeutic alliance\u201d \u2014 the trust and rapport between client and therapist that is often the key to a successful outcome.<\/p>\n<p>With over 150 therapists and more than 10,000 clients served, the platform allows users to browse through therapist videos and bios to get a sense of a fit.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>WHERE DOES AI FIT INTO THE MENTAL HEALTH SPACE?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI definitely think [AI systems] can provide a lot of value. It is so well programmed in terms of the support and tone that it responds to the user, and it just provides the sort of gentle, compassionate, optimistic tone,\u201d Pintwala expressed.<\/p>\n<p>For people struggling to normalize their experiences or simply feel heard, AI systems like ChatGPT can offer low-barrier reassurance.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Still, Pintwala says the risks are real.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA lot of folks now are self-diagnosing themselves, and I think if they come to ChatGPT with a perceived diagnosis, I don\u2019t think it is programmed to validate that diagnosis,\u201d Pintwala cautions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Another risk, he adds, is isolation.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s one of the biggest issues, particularly with young people. And it\u2019s like the double-edged sword of social media is isolation and lack of true community, empathy and compassion online,\u201d he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven though ChatGPT can provide that empathy and compassion as a machine, it\u2019s not like humans. Humans need meaningful human connections to thrive, and if it\u2019s giving you just enough, and it\u2019s your companion, you know that might be better than nothing, for sure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pintwala also flags concerns about commodified therapy platforms that underpay therapists, leading to burnout.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s happening is these therapists on these therapy platforms, they are being overworked, burnt out, and so sometimes they\u2019re not able to fully show up as they wish to for clients and provide them that kind of really present, grounded, judgment-free zone,\u201d Pintwala explains.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat could create more negative experiences that people have with these kinds of commoditized therapy platforms, the more mistrust for the industry in general. And no, chat GPT doesn\u2019t have judgment. It\u2019s not human.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>THE AI PERSPECTIVE\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dr. Ozgur Turetken, an AI expert and associate dean and business professor at Toronto Metropolitan University (TMU), agrees that AI has potential but warns it must be approached with caution.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He likens generative AI to a \u201cvery smart baby\u201d who is brilliant, but is only as good as what it\u2019s taught.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI would be very careful using a tool that is trained with that kind of heterogeneous data to give sensitive kind of advice, such as what might happen in a therapy session. My guess is, just like everything else, 95 per cent of what may have gone in that kind of a discourse between the tool and the individual might be benign and most likely useful, but there might be things that also might be kind of ill advised or in some cases even dangerous,\u201d Turetken said.<\/p>\n<p>Turetken emphasizes that AI doesn\u2019t understand suffering or emotions; it just mimics empathy based on patterns it has seen in data.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is all about pattern recognition. They [AI] will be more empathetic if the training data comes from sources that are empathetic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Turetken noted that while humans develop empathy through a mix of nature and nurture, AI has no \u201cnature\u201d of its own. It is entirely shaped by the data it\u2019s trained on. This fundamental difference, he says, makes AI inherently unlike humans, even though it can mimic human emotion so convincingly that many people may not be able to tell the difference.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor everyone, it may be different, whereas there\u2019s no nature for AI, everything is what you nurture it with. So, in that sense, it is different. It\u2019s always going to be different. But again, it can come very, very close that for most people, it may be impossible to differentiate whether you\u2019re actually interacting with a super intelligent but artificial agent or a person,\u201d Turetken explained.<\/p>\n<p>It also raises the stakes in high-risk mental health scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor less risky situations, AI would do the job for the most part, it would even probably pass as a decent therapist. But if somebody is high risk, let\u2019s say they\u2019re suicidal or severely depressed or hallucinating, it may lead to very severe results. So, that might not be a good idea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>A DIGITAL STARTING POINT, NOT A DESTINATION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As both Pintwala and Turetken suggest, AI tools like ChatGPT may have a role to play, particularly as a first step for those unable or unwilling to access therapy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>AI can offer comfort, normalize emotions, and even nudge individuals toward healthier habits, but they are no substitute for trained professionals or real human relationships.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe see AI coming, therapists are using AI, but a lot of them are concerned about it. I\u2019m doubling down on human connection, meaningful human connection is the answer,\u201d Pintwala said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>                <script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"With therapy waitlists stretching for months and the cost of mental health support inaccessible to many, more and&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":24181,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4317],"tags":[323,105,218,1408,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-24180","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-mental-health","8":"tag-ai","9":"tag-health","10":"tag-mental-health","11":"tag-therapy","12":"tag-uk","13":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114346501411305887","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24180","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24180"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24180\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24180"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}