{"id":263809,"date":"2025-07-14T08:59:12","date_gmt":"2025-07-14T08:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/263809\/"},"modified":"2025-07-14T08:59:12","modified_gmt":"2025-07-14T08:59:12","slug":"princess-kate-meghan-markles-disagreements-that-drove-prince-william-and-prince-harry-further-apart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/263809\/","title":{"rendered":"Princess Kate, Meghan Markle\u2019s disagreements that drove Prince William and Prince Harry further apart"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Tensions between Princess Kate and Meghan Markle were apparent from their very first meeting. But as their husbands clashed, the inevitable rift deepened into a full-blown feud.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">A palace insider has recounted stories of the unravelling of the relationship between the so-called \u2018Fab Four\u2019, which began with statements made in the press by Meghan about Princess Kate\u2019s behaviour behind closed doors, and her lack of familiarity on social occasions between the couples.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Royal biographer Tina Brown claims the media comparisons between the two women after Prince Harry introduced Meghan to Prince William and Princess Kate became a sticking point for the two women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3mk41m-StyledText eze0guv9\">Sign up to The Nightly&#8217;s newsletters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-1r9pdr5-StyledSubText eze0guv8\">Get the first look at the digital newspaper, curated daily stories and breaking headlines delivered to your inbox.<\/p>\n<p>By continuing you agree to our <a href=\"https:\/\/thenightly.com.au\/subscription-terms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Terms<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sevenwestmedia.com.au\/privacy-policies\/privacy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Privacy Policy<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cNow that Meghan was a feminist hero, tensions with the more senior royal beauty, the (former) Duchess of Cambridge, offered an irresistible story to the tabloids, who always love to stoke a rivalry between women,\u201d Ms Brown wrote in the Palace Papers..<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">The initial meeting was reported in the press to have gone well; however, in the Sussexes\u2019 Netflix documentary series, Meghan recalled that she felt uncomfortable about the level of formality that remained between the two.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cEven when Will and Kate came over and I was meeting her for the first time, I remember I was in ripped jeans, I was barefoot. Like I was a hugger, I have always been a hugger. I didn\u2019t realise that is really jarring for a lot of Brits,\u201d Meghan said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cI started to understand that the formality on the outside carried through on the inside, that there is a forward-facing way of being and then you close the door and think, \u2018okay, we can relax now\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cBut that formality carries over on both sides, and that was surprising to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Ms Brown said Meghan became concerned that she had an immediate personality clash with Princess Kate and that she found her to be \u2018cool\u2019 towards Prince Harry\u2019s partner.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cMeghan later said she found Kate to be cool of temperament, but that\u2019s likely because Meghan is a \u2018gusher\u2019, who hugged even the guards outside Kensington Palace,\u201d Ms Brown said via reports in the <a class=\"css-hwy1qg-StyledTextLink ezegcyi0\" data-link-type=\"article-inline\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/royals\/article-14832199\/Kate-Middleton-Meghan-Markle-disagreement-destroyed-Fab-Four.html\">Daily Mail.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cKate is not a woman given to spontaneous rapport. She\u2019d avoided recruiting new girlfriends to her inner circle\/slumber party list since Marlborough and St Andrew\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cPreoccupied with two young children and public duty, Kate had no serious reason to see the latest and most glamorous of Harry\u2019s string of girlfriends as a potential threat\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Just as in the days when Princess Diana\u2019s new updo upstaged the Queen at the opening of Parliament, the increasing media comparisons of Meghan and Kate &#8211; invariably casting Kate as dull and dutiful &#8211; began to inject tension.<\/p>\n<p>The bridesmaid dress scandal<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Soon after Prince Harry and Meghan announced their engagement in 2017, the former actress spoke glowingly about her relationship with Princess Kate and her efforts to welcome her into the family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">\u201cCatherine has been absolutely amazing, as has William as well, you know, fantastic support,\u201d Meghan said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">But as the wedding day approached, the pair were to clash over royal protocol, and the length of the bridesmaid dresses to be worn on the big day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">Reports filtered out that the two had a heated exchange, and Meghan made Kate cry during the argument over the outfits in 2018.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">In his book, Revenge, Tom Bower claimed unnamed sources told him Princess Kate and Meghan disagreed over the length of Princess Charlotte\u2019s hemline and the fit of her dress.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9czhig-StyledParagraph e4e0a020\">The Duchess of Sussex played down the disagreement during her tell-all interview with Oprah Winfrey, saying \u201cshe (Kate) was upset about something, but she owned it, and she apologised. 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