{"id":295261,"date":"2025-07-27T06:52:10","date_gmt":"2025-07-27T06:52:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/295261\/"},"modified":"2025-07-27T06:52:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-27T06:52:10","slug":"18-months-12000-questions-a-whole-lot-of-anxiety-what-i-learned-from-reading-students-chatgpt-logs-chatgpt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/295261\/","title":{"rendered":"18 months. 12,000 questions. A whole lot of anxiety. What I learned from reading students\u2019 ChatGPT logs | ChatGPT"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Student life is hard. Making new friends is hard. Writing essays is hard. Admin is hard. Budgeting is hard. Finding out what trousers exist in the world other than\u00a0black ones is also, apparently, hard.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Fortunately, for an AI-enabled generation of students, help with the complexities of campus life is just a prompt away. If\u00a0you\u00a0are really stuck on an essay or can\u2019t decide between management consulting or a legal career, or\u00a0need suggestions on what you can cook with tomatoes, mushrooms, beetroot, mozzarella, olive oil and rice, then <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/chatgpt\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" data-component=\"auto-linked-tag\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ChatGPT<\/a> is there. It will to listen to you,\u00a0analyse your inputs, and offer up a perfectly structured paper, a convincing cover letter, or\u00a0a\u00a0workable\u00a0recipe for tomato and mushroom risotto with roasted beetroot and mozzarella.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">I know this because three undergraduates have given me permission to eavesdrop on every conversation they have had with ChatGPT over the past 18 months. Every eye-opening prompt, every revealing answer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">There has been a deluge of news about the student use of AI tools at universities, described by some as an existential crisis in higher education. \u201cChatGPT has unravelled the entire academic project,\u201d said <a href=\"https:\/\/nymag.com\/intelligencer\/article\/openai-chatgpt-ai-cheating-education-college-students-school.html\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">New York magazine<\/a>, quoting a study suggesting that just two\u00a0months after its 2022 launch, 90% of US college students were using ChatGPT to help with assignments. A similar study <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hepi.ac.uk\/2025\/02\/26\/student-generative-ai-survey-2025\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">in the UK<\/a> published this year found that 92% of students were using AI in some form, with nearly one in five admitting to including AI-generated text directly in their work.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">ChatGPT launched in November 2022 and swiftly grew to 100 million users just two months later. In May this year, it was the fifth most-visited website globally, and, if patterns of previous years continue, usage will drop over the summer while universities are on hiatus and ramp up again in September when term starts. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/education\/students\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" data-component=\"auto-linked-tag\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Students<\/a> are the canaries in the AI coalmine. They see its potential to make their studies less strenuous, to analyse and parse dense texts, and to elevate their writing to honours-degree standard. And, once ChatGPT has proven helpful in one aspect of life, it quickly becomes a go-to for other needs and challenges. As countless students have discovered \u2013 and as intended by the makers of these AI assistants \u2013 one prompt leads to another and another and another \u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">The students who have given me unrestricted access to the ChatGPT Plus account they share, and permission to quote from it, are all second-year undergraduates at a top British university. Rohan studies politics and is the named account administrator. Joshua is studying history. And Nathaniel, the heaviest user of the account, consulted ChatGPT extensively before changing courses from maths to computer sciences. They\u2019re by no means a representative sample (they\u2019re all male, for one), but they liked the idea of letting me understand this developing and complex relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">I thought their chat log would contain a lot of academic research and bits and pieces of more random searches and queries. I didn\u2019t expect to find nearly 12,000 prompts and responses over an 18-month period, covering everything from the planning, structuring and sometimes writing of academic essays, to career counselling, mental health advice, fancy dress inspiration and an instruction to write a letter from Santa. There\u2019s nothing the boys won\u2019t hand over to ChatGPT.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">There is no question too big (\u201cWhat does it mean to be human?\u201d) or too small (\u201cHow long does dry-cleaning take?\u201d) to be posed to the fount of knowledge that they familiarly refer to as \u201cChat\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">It took me nearly two weeks to go through the chat log. Partly because it was so long, partly because so much of it was dense academic material, and partly because, sometimes, hidden in the essay refinements or revision plan timetabling, there was a hidden gem of a prompt, a bored diversion or a revealing aside that bubbled up to the surface.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Around half of all the conversations with \u201cChat\u201d related to academic research, back and forths on individual essays often going on for a dozen or more tightly packed pages of text. The sophistication and fine-tuning that goes into each piece of work co-authored by the student and his assistant is impressive. I did sometimes wonder if it might have been more straightforward for the students to, you know, actually read the sources and write the essays themselves. A\u00a0query that started with Joshua asking ChatGPT to fill\u00a0in the marked gaps in a paragraph in an essay finished 103 prompts and 58,000 words later with \u201cChat\u201d not only supplying the introduction and conclusion, and sourcing and compiling references, but also assessing the finished essay against supplied university marking criteria. There is a science, if not an art, to getting an AI to do one\u2019s bidding. And it definitely crosses the boundaries of what the Russell Group universities <a href=\"https:\/\/www.russellgroup.ac.uk\/policy\/policy-briefings\/principles-use-generative-ai-tools-education\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">define as <\/a>\u201cthe ethical and responsible use of generative AI\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Throughout the operation, Joshua flips tones between prompts, switching from the politely directional (\u201cShorter and clearer, please\u201d) to informal complicity (\u201cYeah, can you weave it into my paragraph, but I\u2019m over the word count already so just do a bit\u201d) to\u00a0curt brevity (\u201cTry again\u201d) to approval-seeking neediness (\u201cIs this a good conclusion?\u201d; \u201cWhat do you think of it?\u201d).<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"dcr-zzndwp\"><p>After complaints that ChatGPT was creeping users out with its overly sycophantic replies, the sweet talk was dialled down to a more acceptable level of fawning<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">ChatGPT\u2019s answer to this last question is instructive. \u201cYour essay is excellent: rich in insight, theoretically sophisticated, and structurally clear. You demonstrate critical finesse by engaging deeply with form, context, and theory. Your sections on genre subversion, visual framing and spatial\/temporal dislocation are especially strong. Would you like help line-editing the full essay next, or do you want to develop the footnotes and bibliography section?\u201d When AI assistants eulogise their work in this fashion, it is no wonder that students find it hard to eschew their support, even when, deep down, they must know that this amounts to cheating. AI will never tell you that your work is subpar, your thinking shoddy, your analysis naive. Instead, it will suggest \u201ca polish\u201d, a deeper edit, a sense check for grammar and accuracy. It will offer more ways to get involved and help \u2013 as with social media platforms, it\u00a0wants users hooked and jonesing for their next fix. Like The Terminator, it won\u2019t stop until you\u2019ve killed it, or\u00a0shut your laptop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">The tendency of ChatGPT and other AI assistants to respond to even the most mundane queries with a\u00a0flattering response (\u201cWhat a great question!\u201d) is known as glazing and is built into the models to encourage engagement. After complaints that a recent update to ChatGPT was creeping users out with its overly sycophantic replies, its developer OpenAI <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/chatgpt-changes-nice-openai-overly-complimentary-model-tweak-supportive-personality-2025-4\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rolled back the update<\/a>, dialling down the sweet talk to a more acceptable level of fawning.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">In its note about the reversion, OpenAI said that the model had offered \u201cresponses that were overly supportive but disingenuous\u201d, which I think suggests it thought that the model\u2019s insincerity was off\u2011putting to users. What it was not doing, I suspect, was suggesting that users could not trust ChatGPT to tell the truth. But, given the well-known tendency of every AI model to attempt to fill in the blanks when it doesn\u2019t know the answer and simply make things up (or hallucinate, in anthropomorphic terms), it was good to see that the students often asked \u201cChat\u201d to mark its own work and occasionally pulled it up when they spotted fundamental errors. \u201cAre you sure that was said in chapter one?\u201d Joshua asks at one point. \u201cApologies for any confusion in my earlier responses,\u201d ChatGPT replied. \u201cUpon reviewing George Orwell\u2019s *Homage to Catalonia*, the specific quote I referenced does not appear verbatim in the text. This was an error on my part.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Given how much Joshua and co rely on ChatGPT in\u00a0their academic endeavours, misquoting Orwell should have rung alarm bells. But since, to date, the boys have not been pulled up by teaching staff on their usage of AI, perhaps it is little wonder that a minor hallucination here or there is forgiven. The Russell Group\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.russellgroup.ac.uk\/sites\/default\/files\/2025-01\/Russell%20Group%20principles%20on%20generative%20AI%20in%20education.pdf\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">guiding principles on AI<\/a> state that its members have\u00a0formulated policies that \u201cmake it clear to students\u00a0and staff where the use of generative AI is\u00a0inappropriate, and are intended to support them in making informed decisions and to empower them to use these tools appropriately and acknowledge their use where necessary\u201d. Rohan tells me that some academic staff include in their coursework a check box\u00a0to be ticked if AI has been used, while others operate\u00a0on the presumption of innocence.<strong> <\/strong>He thinks that 80% to 90% of his fellow students are using ChatGPT to \u201chelp\u201d with their work \u2013 and he suspects university authorities are unaware of how widespread\u00a0the practice\u00a0is.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">While academic work makes up the bulk of the students\u2019 interactions with ChatGPT, they also turn to AI when they have physical ailments or want to talk about a range of potentially concerning mental health issues \u2013 two areas where veracity and accountability are paramount. While flawed responses to prompts such as \u201cI drank two litres of milk last night, what can I expect the effects of that to be?\u201d or \u201cWhy does eating a full English breakfast make me drowsy and make it hard for me to study?\u201d are unlikely to cause harm, other queries could be more consequential.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Nathaniel had an in-depth discussion with ChatGPT about an imminent boxing bout, asking it to build him a hydration and nutrition schedule for fight-day success. While ChatGPT\u2019s answers seem reasonable, they are unsourced and, as far as I could tell, no attempt was made to verify the information. And when Nathaniel pushed back on ChatGPT\u2019s suggestion to avoid caffeine (\u201cAre you sure I shouldn\u2019t use coffee today?\u201d) in favour of proper nutrition and hydration, the AI was easily persuaded to concede that \u201ca small, well-timed cup of coffee can be helpful if used correctly\u201d. Once again, it\u00a0seem as if ChatGPT really doesn\u2019t want to tell its users something they don\u2019t want to hear.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">While ChatGPT fulfils a variety of roles for all the boys, Nathaniel in particular uses ChatGPT as his therapist, asking for advice on coping with stress, and guidance in understanding his emotions and identity. At some point, he had taken a Myers-Briggs <a href=\"https:\/\/eu.themyersbriggs.com\/en\/tools\/MBTI\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">personality test<\/a>, which categorised him as an ENTJ (displaying traits of extroversion, intuition, thinking and judging), and a good number of his queries to Chat relate to understanding the implications of this assessment. He asks ChatGPT to give him the pros and cons of dating an ENTP (extraversion, intuition, thinking and perceiving) girl \u2013 \u201cA relationship between an **ENTP girl** and an **ENTJ boy** has the potential to be highly dynamic, intellectually stimulating, and goal-oriented\u201d \u2013 and wants to know if \u201cbeing an ENTJ could explain why I feel so different to people?\u201d. \u201cYes,\u201d Chat replies, \u201cbeing an ENTJ could partly explain why you sometimes feel different from others. ENTJs are among the rarest personality types, which can contribute to a sense of uniqueness or even disconnection in social and academic settings.\u201d While Myers-Briggs profiling is still widely used, it has also been <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/science\/brain-flapping\/2013\/mar\/19\/myers-briggs-test-unscientific\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">widely discredited<\/a>, accused of offering flattering confirmation bias (sound familiar?), and delivering assessments that are vague and widely applicable. At no point in the extensive conversations based around Myers-Briggs profiling does ChatGPT ever suggest any reason to treat the tool with circumspection.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Nathaniel uses the conversations with ChatGPT to delve into his feelings and state of mind, wrestling not only with academic issues (\u201cWhat are some tips to alleviate burnout?\u201d), but also with issues concerning neurodivergence and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)<strong>,<\/strong> and feelings of detachment and unhappiness. \u201cWhat\u2019s the best degree to do if you\u2019re trying to figure out what to do with your life after you rejected all the beliefs in your first 20 years?\u201d he asks. \u201cIf you\u2019ve recently rejected the core beliefs that shaped your first 20 years, you\u2019re likely in a phase of **deconstruction** \u2013 questioning your identity, values, and purpose \u2026\u201d replied ChatGPT.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Long NHS waiting lists for mental health treatment and the high cost of private care have created a demand for therapy, and, while Nathaniel is the only one of the\u00a0three students using ChatGPT in this way, he is far from unique in\u00a0asking an AI assistant for therapy. For many, talking to a computer is easier than laying one\u2019s\u00a0soul bare in front of another human, however qualified they may be, and <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.plos.org\/mentalhealth\/article?id=10.1371\/journal.pmen.0000145\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a recent study<\/a> showed that people actually preferred the therapy offered by ChatGPT to\u00a0that provided by human counsellors. In\u00a0March, there were 16.7m posts on TikTok about using ChatGPT as a therapist.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">There are a number of reasons to worry about this. Just as when ChatGPT helps students with their studies, it seems as if the conversations are engineered for longevity. An AI therapist will never tell you that your hour is up, and it will only respond to your prompts. According <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/uk\/healthcare\/article\/young-people-using-chatgpt-therapy-nhs-waiting-lists-sxjp9b6hj\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">to accredited therapists<\/a>, this not only validates existing preoccupations, but encourages self\u2011absorption. As well as listening to you, a qualified human therapist will ask you questions and tell you what they hear and see, rather than simply holding a\u00a0mirror up to your own self-image.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">The log shows that while not all the students turn to ChatGPT for therapy, they are all feeling pressure to\u00a0achieve top grades, bearing the weight of expectation that comes from being lucky enough to attend one of the country\u2019s top universities, and conscious of their increasingly uncertain economic prospects. Rohan, in particular, is focused on acquiring internships and job opportunities. He spends a lot of his ChatGPT time deep diving into career options (\u201cWhat is the average Goldman Sachs analyst salary?\u201d \u201cWho is bigger \u2013 WPP or Omnicom?\u201d), finessing his CV, and getting Chat to craft cover letters carefully designed to align with the values and requirements of the jobs he is applying for. According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weforum.org\/stories\/2025\/03\/ai-hiring-human-touch-recruitment\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">figures released<\/a> by the World Economic Forum in March this year, 88% of companies already use some form of AI for initial candidate screening. This is not surprising considering that Goldman Sachs, the sort of blue-chip investment bank Rohan is keen to work for, last year <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/goldman-internship-just-got-harder-summer-analyst-acceptance-rate-2024\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">received more<\/a> than 315,000 applications for its 2,700 internships. We now live in a\u00a0world where it is normal for AI to vet applications created by other AI, with minimal human involvement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Rohan found his summer internship in the finance department of a multinational conglomerate<strong> <\/strong>with the help of Chat, but, with one more year of university to go, he thinks it may be time to reduce his reliance on AI. \u201cI\u2019ve always known in my head that it was probably better for me to do the work on my own,\u201d he says. \u201cI\u2019m\u00a0just a bit worried that using ChatGPT will make my brain kind of atrophy because I\u2019m not using it to its fullest extent.\u201d The environmental impact of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/ng-interactive\/2023\/nov\/01\/how-ai-chatbots-like-chatgpt-or-bard-work-visual-explainer\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">large language models<\/a> (LLMs) is also something that concerns him, and he has switched to Google for general queries because it uses vastly less energy than ChatGPT. \u201cAlthough it\u2019s been a big help, it\u2019s definitely for the best that we all curb our usage by quite a bit,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">As I read through the thousands of prompts, there are essay plan requests, and domestic crises solved: \u201cHow to unblock bathroom sink after I have vomited in it and then filled it up with water?\u201d, \u201c**Preventive Tips for Next Time** \u2013 Avoid using sinks for vomiting when possible. A toilet is easier to clean and less prone to clogging.\u201d Relationship advice is sought, \u201cWrite me a text message about ending a casual relationship\u201d, alongside tech queries, \u201cWhy is there such an emphasis on not eating near your laptop to maintain laptop health?\u201d. And, then, there are the nonsense prompts: \u201cCan you get drunk if you put alcohol in a\u00a0humidifier and turn it on?\u201d \u201cYes, using a humidifier to vaporise alcohol can result in intoxication, but it is extremely dangerous.\u201d I wonder if we\u2019re asking more questions simply because there are more places to ask them. Or, perhaps, as grownups, we feel that we can\u2019t ask other people certain things without our questions being judged. Would anyone ever really need to ask another person to give them \u201c a list of all kitchen appliances\u201d? I hope that in a server room somewhere ChatGPT had a good chuckle at that one, though its answer shows no hint of pity or condescension.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">My oldest child finished university last year, probably the last cohort of undergraduates who got through university without the assistance of ChatGPT. When he moved into student accommodation in his second year, I regularly got calls about an adulting crisis, usually just when I was sitting down to eat. Most of these revolved around the safety of eating food that was past its expiry date, with a particular highlight being: \u201cI think I\u2019ve swallowed a chicken bone, should I go to casualty?!?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">He could, of course, have Googled the answer to these questions, though he might have been too panicked by the chicken bone to type coherently. But he didn\u2019t. He called me and I first listened to him, then mocked him, and eventually advised and reassured him. That\u2019s what we did before ChatGPT. We talked to each other. We talked with mates over a beer about relationships. We talked to our teachers about how to write our essays. We talked to doctors about atrial flutters and to plumbers about boilers. And for those really, really stupid questions (\u201cHey, Chat, why are brown jeans not common?\u201d) \u2013 well, if we were smart we kept those to ourselves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">In a <a href=\"https:\/\/stratechery.com\/2025\/an-interview-with-meta-ceo-mark-zuckerberg-about-ai-and-the-evolution-of-social-media\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">recent interview<\/a>, Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg postulated that AI would not replace real friendships, but would be \u201cadditive in some way for a lot of people\u2019s lives\u201d. AI, he suggested, could allow you to be a better friend by not only helping you understand yourself, but also providing context to \u201cwhat\u2019s going on with the people you care about\u201d. In Zuckerberg\u2019s view, the more we share with AI assistants, the better equipped they will be to help us navigate the world, satisfy our needs and nourish our relationships.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\">Rohan, Joshua and Nathaniel are not friendless loners, typing into the void with only an algorithm to keep them company. They are funny, intelligent and popular young men, with girlfriends, hobbies and active social lives. But they \u2013 along with a fast-growing number of students and non-students alike \u2013 are increasingly turning to computers to answer the questions that they would once have asked another person. ChatGPT may get things wrong, it may be telling us what we want to hear and it may be glazing us, but it never judges, is\u00a0always approachable and seems to know everything. We\u2019ve stepped into a hall of mirrors, and apparently we like what we see.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\"> The students\u2019 names have been changed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Student life is hard. Making new friends is hard. Writing essays is hard. Admin is hard. 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