{"id":299906,"date":"2025-07-29T01:16:14","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T01:16:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/299906\/"},"modified":"2025-07-29T01:16:14","modified_gmt":"2025-07-29T01:16:14","slug":"helen-flanagan-shares-mum-guilt-and-pain-over-not-being-a-team-with-ex-scott-sinclair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/299906\/","title":{"rendered":"Helen Flanagan shares mum guilt and pain over &#8216;not being a team&#8217; with ex Scott Sinclair"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Former Coronation Street star Helen Flanagan has revealed she&#8217;s finding motherhood hard as she shared how different her bond is with each of her three kids<\/p>\n<p>21:31, 28 Jul 2025Updated 02:08, 29 Jul 2025<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/0_Helen-Flanagans-motherhood-admission.jpg\" alt=\"Helen Flanagan with her kids\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>Helen Flanagan has made a candid parenting confession(Image: hjgflanagan\/Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/helen-flanagan\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Helen Flanagan<\/a> has candidly reflected on the different bonds with her three children as she confesses to finding motherhood hard. The former <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/coronation-street\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Coronation Street<\/a> actress, 34, <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/tearful-helen-flanagan-reunites-kids-35221912\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">shares her three children <\/a>Matilda, nine, Delilah, six, and Charlie, four, <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagans-nightmare-living-co-35503766\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">with her ex Scott Sinclair.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She has been open on how she is<a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagans-money-struggle-shes-35160341\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\"> navigating being a single mum<\/a> and<a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagan-lost-money-after-34410650\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\"> the challenges that come<\/a> with raising children solo. Helen decided to look back on the year so far as she shared her favourite memories with her children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">In her candid update, Helen wrote: &#8220;Looked back at some of my favourite times with the kids this year x Found motherhood hard recently, I\u2019ve felt overwhelmed and stressed the majority of the time and I want to get back to when im present and I\u2019m really in it and I\u2019m really enjoying it x I always wanted to be a mum x.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/1753751773_80_0_Helen-Flanagans-motherhood-admission.jpg\" alt=\"Helen Flanagan hugging her son\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Helen says her son Charlie is just like her(Image: hjgflanagan\/Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She then opened up on how she mothers each of her kids and added: &#8220;I get mum guilt with Matilda as I feel like I\u2019m always pre occupied with her brother, I can\u2019t give her the energy that I want to give her and I feel like she always sees me at my worst.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;I also feel like she needs calm which I can never be. Delilah, I feel like I\u2019m getting it right with her and I feel like our bond is tight, so that\u2019s something not to beat myself up about.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;Charlie I could pull my hair out sometimes, I feel like I\u2019ve got the male version of me x.&#8221; Helen then opened up on her strained relationship with ex Scott.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She went on: &#8220;Co parenting is hard and not being a team together and not being able to talk about your anxieties and worries for the kids. I suppose you can only do your best and be kind to yourself but I wanted these on my grid for me as they make my soul happy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Helen was flooded with support from her followers as one said: &#8220;You\u2019re human and doing your best and you\u2019re an amazing mama! this is your first time living too, give yourself grace.&#8221; Another added: &#8220;You are a great mummy,&#8221; and someone else commented: &#8220;You&#8217;re doing an amazing job.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/1753751773_107_0_Helen-Flanagans-motherhood-admission.jpg\" alt=\"Helen Flanagan and daughter\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Helen has been candid about being a single mum(Image: hjgflanagan\/Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagan-finally-reveals-real-33984639\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Following her split<\/a> from Scott after 13 years together, Helen spiraled <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagans-nanny-rang-parents-33993495\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">into a \u201cvery scary\u201d psychotic episode <\/a>while on her dream <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagan-happy-again-reunites-31757909\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">New Year\u2019s break in Bali with their children<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Reflecting on that time in her life earlier this year, Helen devastatingly shared how <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/helen-flanagan-thought-her-kids-34411829\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">she thought her kids would have been better <\/a>off without her. She bravely posted: &#8220;My love life was a s**t show that year\u2026. I didn\u2019t look after my my mental health or think.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;I felt so s**t and sad. I felt like my whole life was f***ed up now and I had the perfect family. 13 years is a long time to be with someone. My whole 20s. I had a lot of family fall outs too and I also lost basically all my money. Me and Scott weren\u2019t married we were engaged.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;My mental health was so bad I thought maybe my kids would be better off without me and maybe they would be better off with their dad as he\u2019s more level headed than me. 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