{"id":313992,"date":"2025-08-03T07:52:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-03T07:52:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/313992\/"},"modified":"2025-08-03T07:52:23","modified_gmt":"2025-08-03T07:52:23","slug":"behind-the-scenes-of-prince-williams-christening-that-caused-diana-agony-the-queen-mother-turned-82-on-the-same-day-while-charles-and-diana-clashed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/313992\/","title":{"rendered":"Behind the scenes of Prince William’s Christening that caused Diana agony: The Queen Mother turned 82 on the same day while Charles and Diana clashed"},"content":{"rendered":"

For most people, a family Christening means wearing your best clothes, piling into the local church for a pompous ceremony and eating finger sandwiches as you chat to the umpteenth distant relative of the day.<\/p>\n

But for the heir to the throne, things are much more elaborate.<\/p>\n

The Christening for Prince William<\/a> took place\u00a0at 11am in the Music Room of Buckingham Palace<\/a>, a traditional setting for royal Christenings since the birth of Queen Victoria<\/a>‘s children, on August 4, 1982 – the same day as the\u00a0Queen Mother<\/a>‘s 82nd birthday.<\/p>\n

Princess Diana<\/a>\u00a0held her newborn son, who wore the antique Christening robe that was commissioned by Queen Victoria, as he was baptised by the Archbishop of Canterbury, Robert Runcie.\u00a0<\/p>\n

His Godparents reflected his noble heritage:\u00a0King Constantine II of Greece<\/a>, Princess Alexandra of Kent, the Duchess of Westminster, Lord Romsey (now Earl Mountbatten of Burma), Lady Susan Hussey and Sir Laurens van der Post.<\/p>\n

And while it sounds like a fairytale day, cracks were beginning to show in the glossy exterior of Charles and Diana’s marriage.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Diana gave an emotional account of the day to her biographer Andrew Morton a decade later in 1992, remembering the event in the context of the breakdown in her marriage.<\/p>\n

Later published in a revised edition of his explosive book Diana: Her True Story, Morton included Diana’s recollection that, in the midst of her experiences with post-natal depression, she felt she was treated ‘like nobody’s business’ on August 4.<\/p>\n

\"On <\/p>\n

On August 4, 1982, Princess Diana and Prince Charles hold her newborn son, who is seen wearing the antique Christening robe that was commissioned by Queen Victoria<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The Christening for Prince William took place at 11am in the Music Room of Buckingham Palace on the same day the Queen Mother (pictured) turned 82<\/p>\n

\"Diana, <\/p>\n

Diana, Charles, Prince Philip, Queen Elizabeth II and the Queen Mother are pictured at Buckingham Palace after William’s Christening ceremony\u00a0<\/p>\n

‘Nobody asked me when it was suitable for William,’ she said.\u00a0’11am couldn’t have been worse. Endless pictures of the Queen, Queen Mother, Charles and William. I was excluded totally that day.<\/p>\n

‘I felt desperate because I had literally just given birth. William was only six weeks old and it was all decided around me.\u00a0Hence the ghastly pictures.\u00a0I wasn’t very well and I just blubbed my eyes out. William started crying too. Well, he just sensed that I wasn’t exactly hunky dory.’<\/p>\n

And the conflict continued into their choice of Godparents.<\/p>\n

Princess Anne was not asked by the couple to be Godmother despite the Princess Royal asking\u00a0Charles to do the honours for her first child, Peter Phillips.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The Queen Mother holds baby William with the Queen and Charles in the Music Room<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The Princess of Wales, surrounded by family and friends, holds her baby son William as she sits with Queen Elizabeth ll and the Queen Mother following William’s Christening\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"Later <\/p>\n

Later published in a revised edition of his explosive book Diana: Her True Story, Morton included Diana’s recollection that, in the midst of her experiences with post-natal depression, she felt she was treated ‘like nobody’s business’\u00a0<\/p>\n

Despite now being thought of as Charles\u2019s right-hand woman, Princess Anne and Charles went through a challenging period in their relationship.<\/a><\/p>\n

According to the book Battle of Brothers by Robert Lacey, Anne\u2019s \u2018notorious frostiness seemed to grow a couple of degrees chillier whether the subject of Diana came up\u2019.<\/p>\n

Anne appears to have been unreceptive when told that Diana had given birth to William.<\/p>\n

The princess had been touring Indian reservations in New Mexico for Save the Children when a reporter asked for her reaction to the good news.<\/p>\n

\u2018I didn\u2019t know she had one,\u2019 the princess snapped.<\/p>\n

Another reporter tried with: \u2018Do you think everyone is making too much fuss of the baby?\u2019<\/p>\n

\u2018Yes,\u2019 came the curt response.<\/p>\n

At the time, says Lacey, Anne was undertaking more than 200 engagements a year compared with Diana\u2019s 50 and only 90-plus for Charles.<\/p>\n

\"Baby <\/p>\n

Baby William and Diana are pictured during a photocall at Kensington Palace on December 22, 1982<\/p>\n

\"When <\/p>\n

When it came to choosing a name for Baby Wales, as he was known for his first few days, Charles and Diana once again struggled to see eye to eye<\/p>\n

\"According <\/p>\n

According to the book Battle of Brothers by Robert Lacey, Princess Anne\u2019s \u2018notorious frostiness seemed to grow a couple of degrees chillier whether the subject of Diana came up\u2019<\/p>\n

Lacey wrote: ‘The Prince did not return the compliment when it came to William – or, rather, according to rumour, he had very much wanted to invite his sister, only to be blocked by his wife.’<\/p>\n

When it came to choosing a name for Baby Wales, as he was known for his first few days, Charles and Diana once again struggled to see eye to eye.<\/p>\n

Morton wrote: ‘Charles wanted to call his first son Arthur and his second Albert, after Queen Victoria’s consort.<\/p>\n

‘William and Harry were Diana’s choices while her husband’s preferences were used in their children’s middle names.’<\/p>\n

William’s name was chosen after William the Conqueror, victor of the famed Battle of Hastings in 1066.<\/p>\n

He was christened William Arthur Philip Louis.<\/p>\n

His second name came from the legendary King of the Round Table, his grandfather inspired third name and the name Louis rounds out the mix – a name he has since passed down to his second son.<\/p>\n

However, as William’s due date approached, Charles began to spend more time with Diana and stayed by her side when their first son was born.<\/p>\n

\"Baby <\/p>\n

Baby William, who was christened William Arthur Philip Louis, is pictured in March 1983<\/p>\n

\"Charles <\/p>\n

Charles and Diana watch William in the gardens of Kensington Palace on December 14, 1983<\/p>\n

\"Charles <\/p>\n

Charles and Diana pose with William outside Government House in Auckland, New Zealand, during the Royal Tour in April 1983<\/p>\n

In doing so, he became the first male royal to be present at a birth.<\/p>\n

In a letter to his Godmother Patricia Knatchbull, Charles said how he was ‘so thankful I was beside Diana’s bedside the whole time’.<\/p>\n

Less than two years after William was born, the couple found out they were pregnant with Harry, who was born on September 15, 1984.<\/p>\n

The Princess hoped that the birth of a second child would help repair their marriage, according to\u00a0royal author Katie Nichol.<\/p>\n

She wrote in\u00a0Harry: Life, Loss and Love: ‘The Waleses\u2019 marriage had been in trouble for some time, the fairy tale slowly and painfully descending into a story of dysfunction and heartbreak.<\/p>\n

‘By the time of Harry\u2019s birth, Charles was becoming increasingly vexed by their incompatibility.<\/p>\n

‘Diana later admitted that Harry\u2019s conception was “if by a miracle” but there had been a brief respite in their attrition just before his birth.’<\/p>\n

Though it didn\u2019t last, Princess Diana reportedly did admit at one point that the time leading up to Harry\u2019s birth was actually good for them, and they were closer during that period.<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The front page of the Daily Mail on February 14, 1984 – Valentine’s Day – is pictured. The main story followed Diana’s pregnancy announcement\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"Diana <\/p>\n

\u00a0Diana and Charles leave the Lindo Wing of St. Mary’s Hospital following the birth of Prince Harry on September 16, 1984<\/p>\n

‘As with many couples who believe the birth of a child may repair damage to their relationship, both were looking forward to their new arrival.<\/p>\n

‘In fact, despite the fact she knew Harry was going to be a boy and kept it from her husband, Diana said that she felt she and Charles were “very very close to each other the six weeks before Harry was born, the closest we\u2019ve ever, ever been and ever will be.”‘<\/p>\n

Morton claimed that while Diana was excited to have another boy, she claimed Charles\u2019s reaction was less enthusiastic.<\/p>\n

She told Morton that Charles’s first comment on seeing Harry was: \u2018Oh God, it\u2019s a boy. And he\u2019s even got red hair.’<\/p>\n

Charles\u2019s longing for a girl reportedly lasted until Harry\u2019s Christening when he told Diana\u2019s mother, Frances Kydd: ‘<\/a>We were so disappointed – we thought it would be a girl.’<\/p>\n

Diana recalled: ‘Mummy snapped his head off, saying: “You should realised how lucky you are to have a child that\u2019s normal.”<\/p>\n

‘Ever since that day the shutters have come down, and that\u2019s what he does when he gets somebody answering back at him.<\/p>\n

Diana’s struggles with her mental health continued after the birth of her two sons and when\u00a0William was four years old, she fainted during a trip to Canada.<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The Daily Mail front page is pictured from September 16, 1984, announcing the birth of Prince Harry\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"Both <\/p>\n

Both Charles and Diana reportedly had extramarital affairs during the eighties as they became increasingly unhappy in their marriage<\/p>\n

She was battling bulimia at the time and told Charles she thought she was ‘about to disappear’ before passing out during an exhibition.<\/p>\n

The Princess received some help from doctors but continued to struggle and her marriage to Charles continued a downward spiral.<\/p>\n

They eventually separated in 1992 before divorcing in 1996.<\/p>\n

She said to Mr Morton how Charles ‘told a lot of people the reason why the marriage was so wobbly was because I was being sick the whole time.<\/p>\n

‘They never questioned what it was doing to me.’<\/p>\n

Charles and Diana’s relationship timeline\u00a0 <\/p>\n

Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s 16-year relationship went from an unlikely beginning to a fairytale wedding and two children before ending in an unhappy divorce.<\/p>\n

Here is a month-by-month timeline of their relationship downfall<\/p>\n

November 1977: Prince Charles meets Lady Diana Spencer\u00a0<\/p>\n

September 1980: Diana and Charles’ relationship is made public after she is seen at Balmoral\u00a0<\/p>\n

February 24, 1981: Prince Charles and Diana announce their engagement\u00a0<\/p>\n

July 29, 1981: The fairytale Royal wedding at St Paul’s Cathedral\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"Charles <\/p>\n

Charles and Diana’s fairy tale wedding took place at St Paul’s Cathedral. Diana’s dress was made by British fashion designer David and Elizabeth Emanuel\u00a0<\/p>\n

June 21, 1982: Prince Charles and Princess Diana welcome their first child, Prince William\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The Prince and Princess of Wales, welcomed their first child, Prince William outside of the Lindo Wing at St Mary’s Hospital<\/p>\n

April 1983: Charles and Diana take their son Prince William on a Royal Tour of Australia and New Zealand<\/p>\n

September 15, 1984: The couple welcome their second child, Prince Harry\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"Diana <\/p>\n

Diana and Charles welcome a second child. Prince Harry was also born at the Lindo Wing at St Mary’s Hospital\u00a0<\/p>\n

1986: Rumours of infidelity hit the couple<\/p>\n

December 1986: Charles and Diana pose for a photo with Harry and William<\/p>\n

\"The <\/p>\n

The couple put on a brave face as they pose for a Christmas photograph with their sons, Prince William and Prince Harry at Kensington Palace in December 1986<\/p>\n

1987: Rumors of strife as Diana doesn\u2019t join Royal Family summer trip to Balmoral<\/p>\n

February 1992: Diana\u2019s solo Taj Mahal photo<\/p>\n

\"Diana <\/p>\n

Diana was pictured alone outside of the Taj Mahal, during her and Charles’ tour of India. The Prince left her alone while he attended a business meeting<\/p>\n

May 1992: Princess Diana’s authorised biography Diana: Her True Story by Andrew Morton is published<\/p>\n

November 1992: Charles and Diana\u2019s final Royal Tour to South Korea<\/p>\n

December 1992: Prime Minister John Major announces Charles and Diana are to separate<\/p>\n

1993: The Camillagate phone call leak<\/p>\n

June 1994: Charles admits adultery in documentary Charles: The Private Man, the Public Role<\/p>\n

June 1994: Diana wears the ‘revenge dress’ to the Serpentine Gallery<\/p>\n

\"Diana <\/p>\n

Diana stepped out in ‘the revenge dress’ on the same night as Charles’ bombshell TV interview<\/p>\n

November 1995: Diana’s Panorama interview<\/p>\n

August 1996: Charles and Diana finalise divorce and Diana loses her \u2018HRH\u2019 status<\/p>\n

July 1997: Diana and William have lunch in London<\/p>\n

\"Princess <\/p>\n

Princess Diana and Prince William leave lunch at La Famiglia in London’s upmarket Chelsea neighbourhood just weeks before her death<\/p>\n

August 31, 1997: Princess Diana dies in fatal Paris car crash\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"A <\/p>\n

A four mile procession brings Diana’s coffin to Westminster Abbey, where politicians and celebrities join the Royal Family in a subdued congregation. Prince William and Prince Harry attend along with their father Prince Charles and uncle Charles, Earl Spencer (pictured)<\/p>\n

September 6, 1997: Diana’s funeral<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"For most people, a family Christening means wearing your best clothes, piling into the local church for a…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":313993,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[7709,7730,7731,92,1760,532,7710,519,448],"class_list":{"0":"post-313992","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-british-royal-family","9":"tag-charles","10":"tag-charles-iii","11":"tag-dailymail","12":"tag-king-charles","13":"tag-prince-william","14":"tag-royal-families","15":"tag-royal-family","16":"tag-royals"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114963752799592706","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313992","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=313992"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313992\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/313993"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=313992"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=313992"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=313992"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}