{"id":330294,"date":"2025-08-09T10:19:12","date_gmt":"2025-08-09T10:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/330294\/"},"modified":"2025-08-09T10:19:12","modified_gmt":"2025-08-09T10:19:12","slug":"marrying-a-french-man-taught-me-how-to-better-enjoy-travel-to-france","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/330294\/","title":{"rendered":"Marrying a French Man Taught Me How to Better Enjoy Travel to France"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/best-places-to-visit-in-france-not-paris-2024-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">vacations in France <\/a>were very different before I met my French-born husband.<\/p>\n<p>I was a typical tourist: I stayed in the <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-visit-paris-like-local-mistakes-from-parisian-2025-3\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">heart of Paris<\/a>, ate croissants, and visited must-see attractions during the busy summer months.<\/p>\n<p>I always followed a guidebook, and had a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/traveled-with-grandparents-internationally-got-closer-learned-about-them-paris-2025-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">packed schedule<\/a> because I thought it was the only way to ensure I wasn&#8217;t missing out on anything.<\/p>\n<p>But now that I&#8217;m married into a French family, my vacations in France have changed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve realized taking a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/tourist-mistakes-to-avoid-in-paris-from-tour-guide-2024-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">different approach to travel<\/a>, and slowing down, can actually lead to richer, more fulfilling experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s been rewarding to go beyond Paris<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When my husband and I visit France, we never stay in Paris.<\/p>\n<p>The <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/disappointing-reality-of-visiting-the-eiffel-tower-photos-2022-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Eiffel Tower<\/a> is now just another landmark I see through the car window on our way out of Paris from the airport.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, trips to France are spent visiting our family and friends, attending weddings, or taking vacations in different parts of the country.<\/p>\n<p>These days, I prefer visiting smaller French towns and villages, which are usually nestled in beautiful landscapes, because they&#8217;re quieter and more relaxing.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-us-to-france-higher-education-best-decision-of-life-2024-11\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Toulouse<\/a> has become  my favorite city because of its beautiful city center with terracotta brick buildings, pretty parks and gardens, and walking tracks along the Garonne River. It&#8217;s not even a place that was on my radar before I met my husband.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68964fd0194a2d49b8ae4a0b&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:4160,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2340}}\" alt=\"The author in one of her new favorite cities in France, Toulouse.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      The author has enjoyed discovering new-to-her cities in France, such as Toulouse.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dani Smith.<\/p>\n<p>            <strong>I&#8217;ve found joy in authentic experiences and regional food<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>With my French family, I have experienced France&#8217;s regions by foot, from wandering through towns and local forests, to exploring hiking trails.<\/p>\n<p>                      Related stories<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>The Pic Saint-Loup <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/hikes-to-take-in-your-lifetime-2015-9\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">hiking trail<\/a>, which is a short drive from Montpellier, is my favorite walk because of its very rewarding 360-degree view at the summit.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/beautiful-real-life-fairy-tale-castles-2016-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">visited castles<\/a> with less crowds compared to the more famous French castles like Ch\u00e2teau de Chambord and Ch\u00e2teau de Chenonceau. For example, I recently enjoyed visiting the very elegant Ch\u00e2teau de Rambouillet, which is less than an hour from Paris.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68965003194a2d49b8ae4a12&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:2350,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1756}}\" alt=\"The author at Rambouillet Castle\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      The author enjoys visiting less-crowed castles, like Ch\u00e2teau de Rambouillet. <\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dani Smith.<\/p>\n<p>Since traveling around France six times, I have a greater appreciation of the country&#8217;s diverse <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/chez-janou-paris-restaurant-review-2024-9\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">regional cuisines<\/a>, and I&#8217;ve very happily tried many of them. I&#8217;ve discovered that dining in local restaurants, away from tourist areas, provides a more authentic experience. And I&#8217;ve learned that shopping at farmer&#8217;s markets, bakeries, and delis is the best way to try lots of different types of delicious regional food.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I now enjoy a slower, more immersive pace<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/paris-things-to-do-not-touristy-from-frequent-traveler-2024\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">vacations in France<\/a> nowadays aren&#8217;t about ticking off a list of sights, but they&#8217;re about having more immersive experiences over a longer period of time. Most of our trips last for 14 days or more.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s by slowing down that I have an enriched understanding of daily French life. France now feels like a home away from home and I feel a greater sense of belonging compared to when I was a tourist.<\/p>\n<p>These days, I bring home gourmet food items or specialty French baking trays, instead of Eiffel Tower key chains. And I&#8217;ll happily go there any time of the year rather than just during the busy summer months.<\/p>\n<p>But there is one thing which hasn&#8217;t changed when I vacation in France. I still eat lots of <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/chef-compares-croissants-at-popular-grocery-store-chains-clear-winner-2024-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">croissants<\/a>, because they&#8217;re much better than the ones back home.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"My vacations in France were very different before I met my French-born husband. 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