Joe explained that he filmed the close up of the gesture because he wanted the physicality in the scene to show how Mr. Darcy’s body recognized his feelings before he did. \u201cOur bodies are so much smarter than our minds often. Although their conscious minds are fighting against each other, their bodies are two magnets drawn to each other,\u201d Joe said of Elizabeth and Darcy. \u201cAs they touch, even that little hand lifting helping her, which is pure etiquette of the period, somehow creates this kind of electronic shock wave through them both, and he has to shake it away.\u201d<\/p>\n
Of course, real ones have known that the hand flex was Matthew’s idea for a while. In a 2022 interview with NPR’s Fresh Air<\/a>, the actor was asked about the iconic moment, revealing that it was just a choice he made while rehearsing. Joe apparently noticed it and decided to get an extra close up of the hand flex. <\/p>\n \u201cIt’s credit to Joe, because he’s\u2014I think, he doesn’t miss a trick, and he’s so alive to things, and he saw me do it in a rehearsal take and I remember him just going, \u2018Get that!\u2019 So they just did an extra shot on the hand,\u201d Matthew said. <\/p>\n To say the moment has taken on a life of its own would be an understatement. The hand flex is now synonymous with yearning. It’s so huge that Focus Features is selling Pride & Prejudice<\/a> hand flex merch<\/a> to celebrate the film’s anniversary. <\/p>\n Pride & Prejudice Mr. Darcy Yearning Oversized Unisex T-Shirt<\/p>\n
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