{"id":34280,"date":"2025-04-20T01:00:08","date_gmt":"2025-04-20T01:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/34280\/"},"modified":"2025-04-20T01:00:08","modified_gmt":"2025-04-20T01:00:08","slug":"allow-yourself-to-feel-grief-ed-sheeran-says-theres-no-magic-cure-for-depression-entertainment-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/34280\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Allow yourself to feel grief: Ed Sheeran says there&#8217;s no magic cure for depression, Entertainment News"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ed Sheeran has learned there is no magic\u00a0cure for depression.<\/p>\n<p>The Azizam\u00a0hitmaker went through a tough time in 2022 when his best friend Jamal Edwards died at the age of 31, his wife Cherry was diagnosed with a tumour while pregnant with their second child, and he missed his grandmother&#8217;s funeral due to a court hearing over one of the lawsuits he was subjected to after being accused of plagiarism.<\/p>\n<p>While Ed is still dealing with his feelings from that time, he has learned not to &#8220;lock away&#8221; the sadness and recognises that some days will always be better than others.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking to Time\u00a0magazine as part of their annual Time 100 list, he said: &#8220;One thing I&#8217;ve learned about depression is you don&#8217;t take a magic pill and it&#8217;s suddenly gone,&#8221; he says. &#8220;But you can have periods of your life where you&#8217;re better, and periods of your life where you&#8217;re not. It gets less and less painful year on year, but always allow yourself to feel grief. Don&#8217;t put it in a box and lock it away.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>During that time, Ed&#8217;s 2023 albums &#8211;\u00a0(Minus) and Autumn Variations\u00a0failed to sell as much as his earlier records, but he received some important advice from his friend Sir Elton John in how to navigate a professional low.<\/p>\n<p>He said: &#8220;He&#8217;s had decades of his career where things haven&#8217;t gone well, and then suddenly he comes back with &#8216;The Lion King&#8217; or something like that.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s an inspiring thing, because it just means that you don&#8217;t ever have to judge your career on how you are at that point in time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ed threatened to quit music if he lost the plagiarism lawsuits.<\/p>\n<p>He said: &#8220;I don&#8217;t see why I would write songs ever again if someone owns the colour blue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The 34-year-old singer \u2014 who has Lyra, four, and two-year-old Jupiter with Cherry \u2014 felt like a &#8220;piggy bank, where people can just shake it&#8221; as a result of the lawsuits, but things have changed since his two major court wins.<\/p>\n<p>He said: &#8220;Everyone&#8217;s left me the f*** alone-and the freedom really just lifted a weight.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ed has learned to look forward in his life after being ordered to turn over his old devices as part of evidence in a court case, but not having carried one in a decade, he got &#8220;really spun out&#8221; when he turned on his last one from 2015.<\/p>\n<p>He said: &#8220;The first text was from my friend who died. The second text was from an ex-girlfriend, having an argument. The third text was from a family member I hadn&#8217;t spoken to in 10 years.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;[I realised] this isn&#8217;t healthy, trying to relive all of this. I&#8217;m now 34, married with kids, and I&#8217;m looking forward rather than back.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>SINGAPORE HELPLINES<\/p>\n<ul>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Samaritans of Singapore: 1800-221-4444<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800-283-7019<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Care Corner Counselling Centre (Mandarin): 1800-353-5800<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Institute of Mental Health&#8217;s Mental Health Helpline: 6389-2222<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Silver Ribbon: 6386-1928<\/li>\n<p>&#13;\n<\/ul>\n<p>[[nid:716911]]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ed Sheeran has learned there is no magic\u00a0cure for depression. 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