{"id":375728,"date":"2025-08-26T19:36:18","date_gmt":"2025-08-26T19:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/375728\/"},"modified":"2025-08-26T19:36:18","modified_gmt":"2025-08-26T19:36:18","slug":"id-been-a-single-parent-for-10-years-so-nothings-ever-been-easy-but-it-felt-like-i-was-running-out-of-energy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/375728\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;d been a single parent for 10 years so nothing\u2019s ever been easy &#8211; but it felt like I was running out of energy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chris Chapman hit rock bottom earlier this year. One programme helped him back up<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0_PinPep_MoneyMatters_DP_023JPG.jpg\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>Chris Chapman, 58, from Rochdale expects to gain over \u00a312,000 in benefits thanks to Money Matters, a scheme set up by Kellogg&#8217;s and Resolve Poverty.(Image: PinPep)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">It took two months for Chris Chapman\u2019s worst nightmares to become reality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The single dad from <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk\/all-about\/rochdale\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Rochdale<\/a> was struggling with debt when he was made redundant at 58 in January. By March, making ends meet was a tall order.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The cutbacks on \u2018clothing, gas, electricity and social activities\u2019 for his family were tough, as was being unable to provide new boots for his 16-year-old son, an avid Rochdale Mayfield rugby league player.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">To see planning applications; traffic and road diversions and layout changes; and more, visit the Public Notices Portal <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/publicnoticeportal.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"HERELink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">HERE<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">But the \u2018tension\u2019 the savings created was another matter entirely, Chris said, as he skipped meals to keep his family afloat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI\u2019d been a single parent for 10 years so nothing\u2019s ever been easy, I\u2019ve always been ready to fight mentally and push myself to succeed \u2013 but it felt like I was running out of traction,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cThe lack of money for even the basics creates some tension between us. I sometimes missed meals to provide things for my son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI could feel myself getting more and more depressed, and going under slightly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Chris\u2019 spiral only stopped when Resolve Poverty stepped in with its \u2018Money matters\u2019 programme.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Co-created with cereal giant Kellogg\u2019s, Money Matters gives parents advice on how to manage debt, and tells them how to claim benefits they are already entitled to.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1_PinPep_MoneyMatters_DP_007JPG.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>*** FREE FOR EDITORIAL USE ***<br \/>\nChris Chapman, 58, from Rochdale expects to gain over \u00a312,000 in benefits thanks to Money Matters, a scheme set up by Kellogg&#8217;s and Resolve Poverty.(Image: PinPep)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The project installed \u2018financial inclusion officers\u2019 at participating schools for the last three years, and Resolve Poverty said on Tuesday (August 26) it\u2019s helped more than 300 families in that time to become around \u00a3500,000 better off in total.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The average gain for each family was \u00a31,634 per year, and one household saw their income jump by a staggering \u00a324,121 annually.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The Chapmans\u2019 situation is one which happens \u2018all too often\u2019, according to a top teacher at a <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk\/all-about\/stretford\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Stretford<\/a> primary school participating in Money Matters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Assistant headteacher Jackie Crouch said: \u201cAll too often it turns out that families are not receiving what they are entitled to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cOne family at our school is better off by \u00a31,000 per month. Most of all we\u2019ve seen pupils\u2019 focus and concentration improve.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cIt ought to be self-evident, but children are better able to learn when they are fed, wearing the correct uniform and unencumbered by the sorts of money worries that ought to be the preserve of parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Five months after hitting rock bottom, Chris is looking up. The ex-business development executive\u2019s lad starts sixth form college next week, and he has claimed \u00a312,000 of benefits he was entitled to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cMy support worker from Money Matters was fantastic from the very first call, offering a listening ear with empathy and understanding,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cFrom there on I was introduced to food banks that helped, also to institutions that helped with gas and electricity and to debt counselling from Citizens Advice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cWithout Money Matters, I would have found it difficult to find and navigate the support out there for families such as myself and my son.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.resolvepoverty.org\/money-matters\/\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">You can find out more about Money Matters on Resolve Poverty\u2019s website.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Chris Chapman hit rock bottom earlier this year. 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