{"id":378865,"date":"2025-08-27T23:34:27","date_gmt":"2025-08-27T23:34:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/378865\/"},"modified":"2025-08-27T23:34:27","modified_gmt":"2025-08-27T23:34:27","slug":"son-wont-let-dad-read-to-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/378865\/","title":{"rendered":"Son won\u2019t let dad read to him"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m a capable reader, I swear. I make the voices, add inflection, build suspense.<\/p>\n<p>But ask my son, and (if he could talk) you would think I\u2019m still learning the alphabet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"60570\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/mirrorindy.org\/tyler-gif-reading\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mirrorindy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Tyler-GIF-reading.gif?fit=864%2C1536&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"864,1536\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Tyler GIF reading\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Mirror Indy reporter Tyler Fenwick reads to his son, Jack. It is a rare occurance captured on video.&lt;\/p&gt;&#10;\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mirrorindy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Tyler-GIF-reading.gif?fit=169%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mirrorindy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Tyler-GIF-reading.gif?fit=576%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Tyler-GIF-reading.gif\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-60570\"  \/>Mirror Indy reporter Tyler Fenwick reads to his son, Jack. It is a rare occurance captured on video. Credit: Illustration by Ibby Ahmed<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not allowed to read to him. He won\u2019t let me, especially if mom\u2019s around. I have better luck by myself, but he\u2019s also getting interested in \u201creading\u201d on his own, so I\u2019ve been relegated to a lowly listener.<\/p>\n<p>This is the same kid who used to smile when I sang him songs. His favorite was my cover of Loretta Lynn\u2019s cover of \u201cIn the Pines.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I think I understand why he doesn\u2019t want me to read. I\u2019m supposed to be a source of dumb, mindless fun. We wrestle, chase each other around the house. But reading, most of the time, is a calm-down activity. And I don\u2019t think he sees me as a calming figure.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I\u2019ll start talking in a quieter, more gentle voice. Something in his 1 \u00bd-year-old brain will say, \u201cOh wow, my dad can be a source of comfort too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Worth a try, no?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll add a big caveat to this: I can\u2019t stand Thumper the bunny, so I\u2019m OK missing those books.<\/p>\n<p>Mirror Indy, a nonprofit newsroom, is <a href=\"https:\/\/mirrorindy.org\/donors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">funded through grants and donations<\/a> from individuals, foundations and organizations.<\/p>\n<p>Tyler Fenwick is the dad of a toddler who demands his parents mom read him approximately 300 books per day. You can reach Tyler at <a href=\"https:\/\/mirrorindy.org\/help-im-not-allowed-to-read-to-my-son\/mailto:tyler.fenwick@mirrorindy.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tyler.fenwick@mirrorindy.org<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tRelated\n<\/p>\n<p>Republish This Story<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"license\" rel=\"noreferrer license noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nd\/4.0\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Creative Commons License\" style=\"border-width:0\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cc-by-nd-4.0.png\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Republish our articles for free, online or in print, under a Creative Commons license.<\/p>\n<p>Local news delivered straight to your inbox<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Mirror Indy&#8217;s free newsletters are your daily dose of community-focused news stories.<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\" style=\"font-size:14px\">By clicking Sign Up, you\u2019re confirming that you agree with our <a href=\"https:\/\/mirrorindy.org\/terms-of-use\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Terms of Use<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I\u2019m a capable reader, I swear. 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