{"id":387127,"date":"2025-08-31T12:37:16","date_gmt":"2025-08-31T12:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/387127\/"},"modified":"2025-08-31T12:37:16","modified_gmt":"2025-08-31T12:37:16","slug":"what-is-an-irrational-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/387127\/","title":{"rendered":"What is an irrational fear?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Children may often feel scared of the big, bad world, but even as adults, sometimes, we can\u2019t seem to shake off certain \u201cirrational\u201d fears. Such fears crop up from nowhere and leave us paralysed to function. Kiara Advani also seems to have one such fear \u2014 of lights dropping when working on a film set.<\/p>\n<p>In conversation with film critic Anupama Chopra, the new mum shared: \u201cHonestly, my biggest onset fear is the light falling. I\u2019ll tell you why. The set environment is the most dangerous. You have so many cables and lights and spots, so many people above your head. Despite all safety measures and norms, I am constantly scared that what if something happens?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img class=\"lazyloading\" decoding=\"async\" data-lazy-type=\"lazyloading-image\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/track_1x1.jpg\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/track_1x1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1px\" height=\"1px\" style=\"display:none;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I am in a dance sequence and people are hanging above my head, I\u2019m like, \u2018God, please don\u2019t let anyone get hurt. That\u2019s why we always pray and start working,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n<p>Story continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Dr Rahul Chandok, senior consultant and head of psychiatry at Artemis Lite NFC, New <a rel=\"noamphtml noopener\" class=\"keywordtourl\" href=\"https:\/\/indianexpress.com\/section\/cities\/delhi\/\" target=\"_blank\">Delhi<\/a>, said that irrational fears can stem from a variety of sources, including developmental milestones, temperament, traumatic experiences, or modeling others. \u201cAs people grow, they encounter new experiences and concepts that can be overwhelming or frightening. For example, the fear of the dark is often linked to a developing imagination and the inability to distinguish between fantasy and reality. Some are naturally more anxious or cautious than others. This can make them more prone to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/indianexpress.com\/article\/lifestyle\/life-positive\/fear-helpful-tips-motivational-video-7711790\/\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">developing fears<\/a><\/strong>,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"2000\" class=\"lazyloading size-full wp-image-10214399\" data-lazy-type=\"lazyloading-image\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/kiara-advani-2.jpg\" alt=\"irrational fear\"  \/> \u201cHonestly, my biggest onset fear is the light falling,\u201d she said. (Source: Instagram\/@kiaraaliadvani)<br \/>\nWhat is an irrational fear?<\/p>\n<p>Dr Ambarish Ghosh, consultant psychiatrist at CMRI, said that trauma\u2014such as abuse, neglect, bullying, or parental separation\u2014can leave lasting emotional scars, creating fears that persist into adulthood. \u201cManipulative or overly strict parenting can also instill irrational fears and trust issues in children,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Irrational fears are those that are disproportionate to the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/indianexpress.com\/article\/lifestyle\/health\/anxiety-brain-heart-fear-neuroscience-physiology-8928816\/\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">actual threat posed by a situation or object<\/a><\/strong>. They may be based on unrealistic beliefs or distorted thinking patterns.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Ghosh said that these fears, if not addressed during childhood, can resurface in adulthood due to psychological regression, where unresolved emotions from early years return.<\/p>\n<p>Story continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTherapies such as psychotherapy and regression therapy allow individuals to revisit and process their experiences, identifying the root causes of their fears. Psychotherapy provides tools to reframe traumatic memories, while regression therapy guides individuals to confront and release their pain,\u201d he explained.<\/p>\n<p>Can you ever get over these fears?<\/p>\n<p>Dr Ghosh also said that overcoming irrational fears requires a combination of parental involvement during childhood and therapeutic intervention if these fears persist into adulthood. Parents and caregivers play a pivotal role in helping children navigate their fears. It is essential for parents to provide consistent emotional support and observe changes in their child\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSigns such as a fear of specific individuals, avoidance behaviours, difficulty concentrating, or social withdrawal may indicate underlying fears or phobias. Open communication and reassurance can help children feel safe, while professional counselling sessions can address the root causes of their fears,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Chandok stressed the importance of acknowledging your fears and providing support. \u201cGradual, controlled exposure to the feared situation, coupled with positive reinforcement, can build confidence and reduce anxiety. Modeling healthy ways of coping with fears also teaches resilience,\u201d he said, adding that building a strong support system and adopting coping mechanisms to manage lingering fears can help. With the right therapeutic approaches, adults can overcome anxiety, panic attacks, and nightmares linked to childhood fears, achieving better mental health and emotional resilience.<\/p>\n<p>Story continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>DISCLAIMER:\u00a0This article is based on information from the public domain and\/or the experts we spoke to. 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