{"id":389781,"date":"2025-09-01T17:37:14","date_gmt":"2025-09-01T17:37:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/389781\/"},"modified":"2025-09-01T17:37:14","modified_gmt":"2025-09-01T17:37:14","slug":"prince-harry-and-kate-middletons-relatable-royal-outings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/389781\/","title":{"rendered":"Prince Harry and Kate Middleton\u2019s relatable royal outings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"de7b48d8-957f-4821-9a5f-6700eedaf92a\">Former royal butler Grant Harrold &#8211; who started work at King Charles&#8217;s county home, Highgrove House, in 2004 &#8211; was privy to a special moment in royal history. He was there for the early years of the Prince and Princess of Wales&#8217;s relationship as it blossomed, working with the Royal Family right up until the year of their wedding.<\/p>\n<p>This means he also got to see Prince Harry and Kate form a close friendship and in his upcoming book, <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=107649&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FRoyal-Butler-Remarkable-Life-Service%2Fdp%2FB0DW4LYB34%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Fcrid%3D2CMZ8BQKOGBLZ%26dib%3DeyJ2IjoiMSJ9.soYG6tUGn79eWHLG0PSJsmjxg7PcYGtGQTTx0YeaWP2ZgLqinslsFEN272Ywnc5Gsg93x1aPUNVNqwZo2xW-Vyp3mhKwBXI9hcdtOrD33yNuJOSL0pzIraZzjndmjTAFSPJcX0AI7bmBF4b6E2g1CdFXExKJ5i9ljjwpe9J34tWIkzSXafQpCeFQt8yMZsItqV95AfUVCmPWnLKMU61EbUdPRjXak-i0hPXKPibJ4Ls.AcX6kZvAF534UpbIgnm1J7vZYPT9LL9f6X4Af8WgQqA%26dib_tag%3Dse%26keywords%3Dthe%2Broyal%2Bbutler%26qid%3D1755641688%26sprefix%3Dthe%2Broyal%2Bbutle%252Caps%252C168%26sr%3D8-1%26tag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dwomanandhome-us-5292406963528673564-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Royal-Butler-Remarkable-Life-Service\/dp\/B0DW4LYB34\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CMZ8BQKOGBLZ&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.soYG6tUGn79eWHLG0PSJsmjxg7PcYGtGQTTx0YeaWP2ZgLqinslsFEN272Ywnc5Gsg93x1aPUNVNqwZo2xW-Vyp3mhKwBXI9hcdtOrD33yNuJOSL0pzIraZzjndmjTAFSPJcX0AI7bmBF4b6E2g1CdFXExKJ5i9ljjwpe9J34tWIkzSXafQpCeFQt8yMZsItqV95AfUVCmPWnLKMU61EbUdPRjXak-i0hPXKPibJ4Ls.AcX6kZvAF534UpbIgnm1J7vZYPT9LL9f6X4Af8WgQqA&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=the+royal+butler&amp;qid=1755641688&amp;sprefix=the+royal+butle%2Caps%2C168&amp;sr=8-1\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"hawklinks\" data-placeholder-url=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=107649&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FRoyal-Butler-Remarkable-Life-Service%2Fdp%2FB0DW4LYB34%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Fcrid%3D2CMZ8BQKOGBLZ%26dib%3DeyJ2IjoiMSJ9.soYG6tUGn79eWHLG0PSJsmjxg7PcYGtGQTTx0YeaWP2ZgLqinslsFEN272Ywnc5Gsg93x1aPUNVNqwZo2xW-Vyp3mhKwBXI9hcdtOrD33yNuJOSL0pzIraZzjndmjTAFSPJcX0AI7bmBF4b6E2g1CdFXExKJ5i9ljjwpe9J34tWIkzSXafQpCeFQt8yMZsItqV95AfUVCmPWnLKMU61EbUdPRjXak-i0hPXKPibJ4Ls.AcX6kZvAF534UpbIgnm1J7vZYPT9LL9f6X4Af8WgQqA%26dib_tag%3Dse%26keywords%3Dthe%2Broyal%2Bbutler%26qid%3D1755641688%26sprefix%3Dthe%2Broyal%2Bbutle%252Caps%252C168%26sr%3D8-1%26tag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dhawk-custom-tracking-20\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\" data-merchant-name=\"Amazon US\" data-merchant-id=\"1471\" data-merchant-network=\"Amazonus\" data-merchant-url=\"amazon.com\">The Royal Butler: My Remarkable Life of Royal Service<\/a>, Grant shed a little light on their brother-in-law\/sister-in-law bond.<\/p>\n<p>As per <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/royal-family\/2025\/08\/18\/royal-butler-grant-harrold-charles-william-harry\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/royal-family\/2025\/08\/18\/royal-butler-grant-harrold-charles-william-harry\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\">The Telegraph<\/a>, who have serialized sections of the memoir, the former royal butler claimed, &#8220;They involved him. He used to go out with Kate. William would be away and Kate and Harry would be off doing stuff together.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You may like<\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:56.26%;\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/uciN7FJMSn5KRuQ3QCvJPG.jpg\" alt=\"Prince William, Catherine, Princess of Wales and Prince Harry attend the Coach Core graduation ceremony\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/uciN7FJMSn5KRuQ3QCvJPG.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/uciN7FJMSn5KRuQ3QCvJPG.jpg\"\/>\n<\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Photo by Max Mumby\/Indigo\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-5fecfd3d-9806-4cd6-8794-5c331421f5c3\" data-url=\"\" href=\"\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><a id=\"elk-seasonal\" data-url=\"\" href=\"\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"b2e473cd-d27d-46ad-a8e6-cf8851e8c822-0\">As for what they\u2019d get up to? Well, it was surprisingly relatable. The former butler claimed, &#8220;They\u2019d go shopping together, they\u2019d go to pubs together. I think when people say &#8216;oh he was left out&#8217;, he really wasn\u2019t.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Grant also recalls how Prince Harry\u2019s own love life fit in the picture, adding, &#8220;He was with Chelsy [Davy]. Chelsy was always around. And Chelsy and Kate got on really well.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Reflecting upon these suggestions, woman&amp;home&#8217;s Royal Editor, Emma Shacklock, believes they perfectly sum up Prince Harry and the Princess of Wales&#8217;s bond at this time in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They were often pictured laughing and smiling together and this sense of warmth came shining through,&#8221; she says. &#8220;In another sign of his admiration for Kate and whole-hearted support for her and Prince William&#8217;s relationship, Prince Harry even gave his late mother&#8217;s engagement ring to his brother to propose with.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Sign up to our free daily email for the latest royal and entertainment news, interesting opinion, expert advice on styling and beauty trends, and no-nonsense guides to the health and wellness questions you want answered.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:56.25%;\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mSJysYDpB734GtrhMgJtAi.jpg\" alt=\"Prince Harry and Catherine, Princess of Wales clap as they attend the start of the 2017 Virgin Money London Marathon on April 23, 2017\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mSJysYDpB734GtrhMgJtAi.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mSJysYDpB734GtrhMgJtAi.jpg\"\/>\n<\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Photo by Max Mumby\/Indigo\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p id=\"db7e9294-090b-4030-bcbb-713706720010\">In his own memoir, <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=107649&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FSpare-Prince-Harry-Duke-Sussex%2Fdp%2F0593593820%2Fref%3Dtmm_pap_swatch_0%3F_encoding%3DUTF8%26dib_tag%3Dse%26dib%3DeyJ2IjoiMSJ9._Gozz9T7nU-K6YTOc-EE0V6vuHUHLjLoRGJDtzEW0e2VM17RpUOJRplN2v4QsBkNQ4nXohJeyvpd98-Hr2Gz2fBJzK4We0Jf19ZEMtb-dpRuHF-CBRmJGCqSxEnV810nmAjDwY8tk-ajaaP6O2rsz4INTmNKOri8n9R7i5d68Zacua869rUOgOeBEvuOAFsnC6MtWjCx12Ho-d4Rr8NdZ7gauUjQBYH860gnsRjVS54.PxzbHAPqpzisPaLSpIdMtC64oc8QiOZ0xpKwtpTfeJw%26qid%3D1755643530%26sr%3D8-1%26tag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dwomanandhome-us-9726129637586705854-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Spare-Prince-Harry-Duke-Sussex\/dp\/0593593820\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._Gozz9T7nU-K6YTOc-EE0V6vuHUHLjLoRGJDtzEW0e2VM17RpUOJRplN2v4QsBkNQ4nXohJeyvpd98-Hr2Gz2fBJzK4We0Jf19ZEMtb-dpRuHF-CBRmJGCqSxEnV810nmAjDwY8tk-ajaaP6O2rsz4INTmNKOri8n9R7i5d68Zacua869rUOgOeBEvuOAFsnC6MtWjCx12Ho-d4Rr8NdZ7gauUjQBYH860gnsRjVS54.PxzbHAPqpzisPaLSpIdMtC64oc8QiOZ0xpKwtpTfeJw&amp;qid=1755643530&amp;sr=8-1\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"hawklinks\" data-placeholder-url=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=107649&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FSpare-Prince-Harry-Duke-Sussex%2Fdp%2F0593593820%2Fref%3Dtmm_pap_swatch_0%3F_encoding%3DUTF8%26dib_tag%3Dse%26dib%3DeyJ2IjoiMSJ9._Gozz9T7nU-K6YTOc-EE0V6vuHUHLjLoRGJDtzEW0e2VM17RpUOJRplN2v4QsBkNQ4nXohJeyvpd98-Hr2Gz2fBJzK4We0Jf19ZEMtb-dpRuHF-CBRmJGCqSxEnV810nmAjDwY8tk-ajaaP6O2rsz4INTmNKOri8n9R7i5d68Zacua869rUOgOeBEvuOAFsnC6MtWjCx12Ho-d4Rr8NdZ7gauUjQBYH860gnsRjVS54.PxzbHAPqpzisPaLSpIdMtC64oc8QiOZ0xpKwtpTfeJw%26qid%3D1755643530%26sr%3D8-1%26tag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dhawk-custom-tracking-20\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\" data-merchant-name=\"Amazon US\" data-merchant-id=\"1471\" data-merchant-network=\"Amazonus\" data-merchant-url=\"amazon.com\">Spare<\/a>, Prince Harry recalled his bond with Kate and his impression of her after she started going out with his older brother.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I liked his new girlfriend,&#8221; he wrote in the book. &#8220;She was carefree, sweet, kind. She\u2019d done a gap year in Florence, knew about photography, art. And clothes. She loved clothes. Her name was Kate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Later in the book, Prince Harry shared how he felt after the royal wedding, writing, &#8220;I loved my new sister-in-law, I felt she was more sister than in-law, the sister I&#8217;d never had and always wanted, and I was pleased that she\u2019d forever be standing by Willy\u2019s side. She was a good match for my older brother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:56.28%;\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Yb2ymEKxD2e8CcGBj2oWiR.jpg\" alt=\"Prince William and Prince Harry attend the wedding of Pippa Middleton and James Matthews at St Mark's Church on May 20, 2017\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Yb2ymEKxD2e8CcGBj2oWiR.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Yb2ymEKxD2e8CcGBj2oWiR.jpg\"\/>\n<\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Photo by Max Mumby\/Indigo\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p id=\"770f64ad-3e45-4f26-809a-3d59365c4e62\">&#8220;But in my gut I couldn\u2019t help feeling that this was yet another farewell under this horrid roof. Another sundering. The brother I&#8217;d escorted into Westminster Abbey that morning was gone &#8211; forever,&#8221; he added.<\/p>\n<p>Reflecting on the Duke of Sussex\u2019s relationship with Prince William as it used to be, the former royal butler insists that the brothers were &#8220;so close&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>He alleged in his book, &#8220;The banter was great. They used to go around being silly with each other and winding each other up, jumping out at their dad from corners and making him laugh.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>TOPICS<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"flex-none p-2.5 text-white bg-neutral-950 hover:bg-neutral-500 hover:underline hover:underline-offset-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/us\/tag\/prince-harry\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"\/tag\/prince-harry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Harry<\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"flex-none p-2.5 text-white bg-neutral-950 hover:bg-neutral-500 hover:underline hover:underline-offset-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/us\/tag\/catherine-princess-of-wales\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"\/tag\/catherine-princess-of-wales\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Catherine, Princess of Wales<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Former royal butler Grant Harrold &#8211; who started work at King Charles&#8217;s county home, Highgrove House, in 2004&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":389782,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[5105,7710,519,448],"class_list":{"0":"post-389781","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-royal","9":"tag-royal-families","10":"tag-royal-family","11":"tag-royals"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115130259607752598","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=389781"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389781\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/389782"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=389781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=389781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=389781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}