{"id":389791,"date":"2025-09-01T17:42:15","date_gmt":"2025-09-01T17:42:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/389791\/"},"modified":"2025-09-01T17:42:15","modified_gmt":"2025-09-01T17:42:15","slug":"i-went-on-a-solo-holiday-to-spain-heres-why-i-was-kicking-myself-a-little-bit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/389791\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I went on a solo holiday to Spain &#8211; here&#8217;s why I was kicking myself a little bit&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My long anticipated solo trip to sunny <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ireland-live.ie\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Spain<\/a> is now over in the blink of an eye and as I ponder on the few days of tranquil bliss I can now report on the trip away as a whole.<\/p>\n<p>I ventured to Cambrils in Spain for four nights (not long enough!) and done something I never imagined I could ever do &#8211; travelled and stayed on my own.<\/p>\n<p>If you told me even this time last year that I would travel to a whole other country by myself I would never believe you.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s one of the main reasons I decided to go. I wanted to challenge myself and step out of my comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>But strangely enough it never felt like I actually did!<\/p>\n<p>As a very introverted person, someone who loves being in their own company, this trip was definitely a no brainer. But my anxiety and fear of the unknown was something I never thought I could push past, until I finally did.<\/p>\n<p>In the days coming up to the trip, as I would excitedly tell people about my upcoming plans away, I was met with some apprehension.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>People wondering &#8216;why are you going alone?&#8217; or people who said &#8216;I don&#8217;t think I could ever do that- I&#8217;d need someone to talk to!&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>And that is very fair &#8211; a solo trip is definitely not for everyone. If you are very extroverted I wouldn&#8217;t recommend the trip I planned for myself. Instead I would go to hostels where you have more opportunity to meet other people.<\/p>\n<p>I instead went to a family resort right on the beach front in Cambrils that had a pool, a gym and a wellness centre. It had everything I needed there so I never really had to leave.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Everything was perfect; I spent time chilling at the beach, by the pool, I went to an indoor spa in the hotel and I made very good use out of the all inclusive buffet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_8931-1756741443308.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"316\" height=\"408\"\/><\/p>\n<p>However, by around 9pm each night, I was kicking myself a little bit.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>That was when the family entertainment would start right outside the hotel and it was when I&#8217;d start to miss having someone with me. I did go down to the entertainment and have a few drinks some nights but it was mainly catered around children. Next time I would make sure to book an adults only hotel so the entertainment would be a bit more to my liking.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ NEXT:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ireland-live.ie\/news\/arts---entertainment\/1883505\/pictures-over-and-out-electric-picnic-2025-stylish-festival-goers.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PICTURES: Over and out! Electric Picnic 2025 stylish festival goers<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I also never went out during the night. Maybe some people would brave it and maybe I might in the future but I was too nervous this time around. I definitely missed that aspect of a holiday as it&#8217;s always fun to go out and have fun in the nightclubs and bars when you&#8217;re away.<\/p>\n<p>One thing I did was book myself a three-hour boat trip which was about 20 minutes away from the hotel. This was so much fun and brought me out of my comfort zone that little bit further. While I was waiting I walked around the strip, bought some gifts for friends and family, and sat outside to enjoy my surroundings with a drink.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_8930-1756741488507.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"282\" height=\"448\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Oddly enough I never once felt scared, anxious or terribly lonely.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My friends and family would ask &#8216;how are you finding it being all alone?&#8217; and I would reply &#8216;I&#8217;m loving it!&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think I ever felt so much at peace before. I got to do whatever I wanted. If I wanted to sleep in I could without feeling too guilty, or if I wanted to just read my book for hours at the pool I could as well without having to entertain anyone else.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My only worries were making it to breakfast on time! I would 100% do it again.<\/p>\n<p>Next time around, whenever that may be, I would like to go solo for a lot longer than four nights. And I would go somewhere I&#8217;ve never been before. Thailand is definitely on my bucket list.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I would also push myself to talk to new people, as this is something I&#8217;m not always comfortable with, and would never normally go out of my way to do.<\/p>\n<p>Now that I know what to expect, I feel like I could go anywhere in the world now and know I would be ok.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Have you gone on a solo trip before? 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