{"id":398704,"date":"2025-09-05T01:24:18","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T01:24:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/398704\/"},"modified":"2025-09-05T01:24:18","modified_gmt":"2025-09-05T01:24:18","slug":"losing-my-hair-at-16-has-controlled-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/398704\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Losing my hair at 16 has controlled me&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lola MayorBBC News and<\/p>\n<p>Ben PriceBBC News<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/5f7cab10-89bf-11f0-b31d-8d3b90f8db88.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"eager\" alt=\"BBC Judah Cousin looks into the camera. He has brown hair and he's wearing a black t-shirt. It is a head and shoulders shot of him. \" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>BBC<\/p>\n<p>Judah Cousin, who is wearing a semi-permanent hair piece, started losing his hair at 16 and says the process is &#8220;exhausting&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">A teenager who started losing his hair when he was 16 has described the experience as &#8220;completely and utterly exhausting&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Judah Cousin, 19, said male pattern baldness caused him to withdraw from family and friends and that his life was &#8220;controlled&#8221; by the condition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I wouldn&#8217;t go out if it was windy, I wouldn&#8217;t go swimming, I&#8217;d always go to the gym with a hat on&#8230; I remember showering three times over to get the hair right and I ended up being late to my prom because of that,&#8221; said Mr Cousin.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Male pattern baldness, also known as <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/symptoms\/hair-loss\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"noopener\">androgenetic alopecia<\/a>, is the most common type of hair loss in men which usually begins between the ages of 20-25 years, according to <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cks.nice.org.uk\/topics\/male-pattern-hair-loss-male-androgenetic-alopecia\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"noopener\">NICE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">It is caused by a combination of genetic and hormonal factors and usually involves hair loss from the front and sides of the scalp before progressing towards the back of the head.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Judah, from Cardiff, said it was when his friends started making comments about his hair loss that his insecurities ramped up and his parents began to worry.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I was so in denial about it, I&#8217;d start almost hearing people saying things about it and I would manifest these comments,&#8221; said Judah.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I have hundreds and hundreds of videos of me looking absolutely miserable and checking my hair and hair loss progression.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I was completely controlled by it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/aa8cfa10-89bf-11f0-b31d-8d3b90f8db88.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Judah Cousin\/More Than What You Are A still from Judah Cousin's film More Than What You Are. He is walking down the street wearing his school uniform. He has a sad look on his face. He has a black puffa coat on, white shirt and red tie. His ginger hair flies in the wind.\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Judah Cousin\/More Than What You Are<\/p>\n<p>Judah is now making a film, More Than What You Are, which reflects the relationship between a boy and his mother as he navigates hair loss<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Judah said he told his friends that comments about his hair loss had been affecting him, and that they now respected his boundaries and had been supportive. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">He said he had explored treatment options such as medication and hair installations, including a semi-permanent hair piece which he now wears often, and said he hoped others were able to do the same &#8220;without shame&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;It&#8217;s about seeing what gives you the most confidence, and being open about it is a bonus,&#8221; Judah said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">He is also making a film which draws on his own experiences which he hopes will help to &#8220;destigmatise&#8221; hair loss.<\/p>\n<p>How can male pattern baldness be treated?<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">There is no cure for male pattern baldness, but some choose to pursue treatment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">In the UK, there are two medicines licensed to treat male pattern balding &#8211; finasteride and minoxidil. Neither are available on the NHS and both can cause unwanted side effects. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Hair installations or systems &#8211; such as wigs, toupees or extensions &#8211; and skin camouflage products such as pigmented fibre sprays may help to disguise the condition, according to the British Association of Dermatologists.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Surgical treatments, such as hair transplants, can also be sought privately. According to the NHS, the cost of a hair transplant operation in the UK can vary from between \u00a31,000 and \u00a330,000.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The hair transplant industry has boomed in recent years with <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/av\/uk-45415071\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"noopener\">many young men travelling abroad<\/a> for the surgery.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/0998f270-89c0-11f0-b31d-8d3b90f8db88.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Luke Shepherd \/ BBC On the left is a man with his head tilted slightly forward to reveal his hair loss. His remaining hair is dark brown. He has some stubble and is wearing a navy top with beige stripes. On the right is the same man with his black hair system fitted. He's looking at the camera and he's wearing a red and black chequered  shirt over a black tshirt.\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Luke Shepherd \/ BBC<\/p>\n<p>Luke Shepherd says he decided to have a hair system fitted as it is more affordable than a transplant <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">It was New Year&#8217;s Eve when Luke Shepherd caught a reflection of himself at a friend&#8217;s house and decided he did not like what he saw in the mirror.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;It was all combed over, really flat, sprayed with almost half a can of the root touch up sprays and building fibres,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t like what I could see.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">In January, Luke got a hair installation which he said had been &#8220;completely life-changing&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The 34-year-old primary school teacher, from Blaenavon, said he felt there was a lot of pressure to look perfect.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I was seeing all these people doing hairstyles on Instagram and thinking &#8216;I&#8217;d like to do that&#8217; but I couldn&#8217;t,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;Seeing TV shows and they all have perfect hair. For me it was almost like I wanted to have those opportunities, I felt my hair was holding me back. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I just couldn&#8217;t keep going that way because it was getting me down, making me feel bad about myself so that&#8217;s why I took action to do something about it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/51a26a10-89c0-11f0-b31d-8d3b90f8db88.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Former rugby player, Xavier Rush, has had a hair transplant. He is smiling at the camera and you can see from his mid arms up. He's wearing a grey tshirt and he has a beard and black and grey hair. It is a head and shoulders shot of him.\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Former rugby player, Xavier Rush, has had a hair transplant<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Ex-professional rugby player, Xavier Rush, had a hair transplant once he retired from the sport, which he said was to avoid the &#8220;abuse&#8221; he might have received from other players. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The former Cardiff and New Zealand player has since opened a hair transplant business after he said a number of men were asking him about his procedure.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;We&#8217;re in the Instagram age, people are doing Zoom calls. The amount of people ringing in saying &#8216;my God I see my head on the camera every day and I don&#8217;t like it&#8217;,&#8221; said Rush.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;There&#8217;s becoming less and less stigma around [hair transplants],&#8221; he added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;[But] in saying that, I was still terrified about having the procedure in terms of how it would look. Would it look natural? Would it always look like I&#8217;d had a hair transplant?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Sharon Thomas, a non-surgical hair replacement specialist who creates hair systems for men and women, said she saw clients ranging from the ages of 17 to 80.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve been doing this since 1996 and when I first started the hair systems were a lot thicker and took a lot longer to be made,&#8221; said Sharon, from Cardiff. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;Now about 70% of our clients are men coming in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;Hair transplants take longer whereas this is an instant fix, you get the volume and [it&#8217;s] more affordable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;You see a massive difference. Even when they come in and have a fitting for the first time, you see them smiling.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\"><b id=\"if-you-have-been-affected-by-the-issues-raised-in-this-story,-you-can-find-a-list-of-organisations-who-offer-support-on\" class=\"sc-d16436d-0 jpoiOL\">If you have been affected by the issues raised in this story, you can find a list of organisations who offer support on <\/b><a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/articles\/1dZwgZqBsQGMl4YJq8xp5l7\/body-image\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"noopener\"><b id=\"bbc-action-line\" class=\"sc-d16436d-0 jpoiOL\">BBC Action Line<\/b><\/a><b id=\".\" class=\"sc-d16436d-0 jpoiOL\">.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Lola MayorBBC News and Ben PriceBBC News BBC Judah Cousin, who is wearing a semi-permanent hair piece, started&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":398705,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[105,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-398704","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-health","9":"tag-uk","10":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115149083083662343","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=398704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/398705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=398704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=398704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=398704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}