{"id":402493,"date":"2025-09-06T11:15:16","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T11:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/402493\/"},"modified":"2025-09-06T11:15:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T11:15:16","slug":"prince-harry-almost-didnt-walk-behind-princess-dianas-coffin-at-age-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/402493\/","title":{"rendered":"Prince Harry Almost Didn&#8217;t Walk Behind Princess Diana\u2019s Coffin at Age 12"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> NEED TO KNOW<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Prince Harry reflected on the funeral ceremonies held for his mother, Princess Diana, in his 2023 memoir, Spare<\/li>\n<li>In the book, Harry recalled the uproar over the decision to have him and his brother, Prince William, walk behind their mother&#8217;s coffin<\/li>\n<li>There was talk that William might walk alone, but Harry wrote, &#8216;I didn&#8217;t want Willy to undergo an ordeal like that without me&#8217;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_2-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/princess-diana\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Diana<\/a> died in the early morning hours of Aug. 31, 1997, following a car accident in Paris. A week later, the world would watch and mourn as her coffin processed through the streets of London, allowing the public to say goodbye before she was buried at her ancestral home.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_4-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> One of the most poignant moments of that tragic day was the sight of Diana&#8217;s two young sons walking behind her coffin.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_6-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/prince-william\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince William<\/a>, then 15, and <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/prince-harry\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Harry<\/a>, then 12, kept their eyes on the ground as they walked alongside their father the future <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/person\/king-charles-iii\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">King Charles<\/a>, their grandfather <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/prince-philip\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Philip<\/a> and their uncle <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/princess-diana-brother-charles-spencer-reflects-summer-season-birthday-death-11801282\" class=\"pseudoStyle\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Charles Spencer<\/a>.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_8-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Harry wrote about that day in his 2023 memoir, <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/royals\/prince-harry-spare-book-biggest-revelations\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Spare<\/a>, recalling the first time he laid eyes on his mother&#8217;s coffin, which was draped in the Royal Standard. That, in itself, the prince wrote, was &#8220;an extraordinary break with protocol&#8221; that made him second-guess his late mother&#8217;s infamous exile from the royal family following <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/royals\/the-secret-tapes-and-leaked-calls-that-led-to-prince-charles-and-princess-dianas-divorce-it-rocked-the-royal-family\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">her divorce from King Charles<\/a>.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_10-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;The Royal Standard was always reserved for members of the Royal Family, which, I&#8217;d been told, Mummy wasn&#8217;t anymore,&#8221; he recalled. &#8220;Did this mean she was forgiven? By Granny? Apparently. But these were questions I couldn&#8217;t quite formulate, let alone ask an adult.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p> (L to R): King Charles, Prince Harry, Charles Spencer, Prince William and Prince Phillip watch Princess Diana&#8217;s coffin be carried into Westminster Abbey.<\/p>\n<p>Anwar Hussein\/WireImage<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_13-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Next came the discussion about the funeral procession.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_15-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;Per the latest plan, the coffin would be pulled through the streets on a horse-drawn carriage by the King\u2019s Troop while Willy and I followed on foot,&#8221; Harry recalled. &#8220;It seemed a lot to ask of two young boys. Several adults were aghast. Mummy\u2019s brother, Uncle Charles, raised hell. &#8216;You can\u2019t make these boys walk behind their mother\u2019s coffin! It&#8217;s barbaric.&#8217; &#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_17-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> An alternative plan was proposed: Prince William would walk alone. &#8220;He was 15, after all,&#8221; Harry wrote. &#8221; &#8216;Leave the younger one out of it.&#8217; Spare the Spare.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_19-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> But the answer came back: &#8220;It must be both princes. To garner sympathy, presumably.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_21-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;Uncle Charles was furious,&#8221; Harry wrote. &#8220;But I wasn&#8217;t. I didn&#8217;t want Willy to undergo an ordeal like that without me. Had the roles been reversed, he&#8217;d never have wanted me \u2014 indeed, allowed me \u2014 to go it alone.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p> Prince William and Prince Harry stand outside Westminster Abbey at the funeral of Diana, Princess of Wales on Sept. 6, 1997.<\/p>\n<p>Anwar Hussein<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_26-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> On the morning of the funeral, the five men took their place behind the coffin. Harry wrote that he could recall Prince Philip looking &#8220;serene&#8230; as if this was another royal engagement.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_28-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;I could see his eyes, clearly, because they were gazing straight ahead. They all were,&#8221; he recalled. &#8220;But I kept mind down on the road. So did Willy.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_30-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> As they walked, Harry said he remembers feeling &#8220;numb&#8221; and keeping his fists clenched. &#8220;I remember keeping a fraction of Willy always in the corner of my vision and drawing loads of strength from that,&#8221; he said.\n<\/p>\n<p> Prince Philip, Prince William, Charles Spencer, Prince Henry and King Charles process through the streets of London following Princess Diana&#8217;s coffin.<\/p>\n<p>Jon Jones\/Sygma via Getty<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_35-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> While he watched the road, Harry recalled, the sounds of the procession echoed in his mind. All he remembered was the sound of the horse-drawn gun carriage carrying Diana&#8217;s coffin. Beyond that, it was silent.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_37-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;There wasn&#8217;t one engine, one lorry, one bird. There wasn&#8217;t one human voice, which was impossible, because two million people lined the roads,&#8221; he wrote. &#8220;The only hint that we were marching through a canyon of humanity was the occasional wail.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_39-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> While Harry and William leaned on one another in the days, weeks and eventually years following their mother&#8217;s death, the brothers&#8217; current rift runs deep.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_41-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> In a recent <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/prince-harry-prince-william-shared-value-pure-diana-exclusive-11788881\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exclusive cover story<\/a>, PEOPLE spoke with Diana&#8217;s biographer, Andrew Morton, who said, &#8220;Diana always used to say she had two boys for a reason \u2014 the younger would be there to support the older in the lonely task as future king.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_43-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Morton believes, as many do, that if Diana were alive today, she would try to &#8220;act as a peacemaker between them.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_45-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;If she had been around, they would have worked things out in a different way,&#8221; said the royal biographer, whose latest book,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Winston-Windsors-Historical-Biography-Relationship\/dp\/1335250999\" data-component=\"amazon\" data-source=\"affiliate\" data-type=\"externalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Winston and the Windsors<\/a>,\u00a0is out in October.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"NEED TO KNOW Prince Harry reflected on the funeral ceremonies held for his mother, Princess Diana, in his&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":402494,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[5105,7710,519,448],"class_list":{"0":"post-402493","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-royal","9":"tag-royal-families","10":"tag-royal-family","11":"tag-royals"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115157068858358195","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=402493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402493\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/402494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=402493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=402493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=402493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}