{"id":44888,"date":"2025-04-23T21:39:19","date_gmt":"2025-04-23T21:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/44888\/"},"modified":"2025-04-23T21:39:19","modified_gmt":"2025-04-23T21:39:19","slug":"my-sex-life-was-in-the-doldrums-after-having-two-kids-a-30-min-lunchtime-fix-now-im-having-best-orgasms-of-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/44888\/","title":{"rendered":"My sex life was in the doldrums after having two kids &#8211; a 30 min lunchtime fix &#038; now I\u2019m having best orgasms of my life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cOKAY, you\u2019ll just feel a little prick,\u201d says Dr Shirin Lakhani, brandishing a syringe and strapping on her head torch like she\u2019s about to go potholing.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s Tuesday lunchtime and while most people are tucking into a Greggs, I\u2019m getting <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/fabulous\/34286955\/star-horror\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">filler<\/a> in my lips. Not the ones on my face \u2013 the ones downstairs.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Portrait of a smiling woman wearing a black dress.\" height=\"960\" width=\"640\" data-credit=\"Olivia West\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/ann-summers-sun-sexpert-georgette-967677761.jpg\" data-caption=\"Sun sexpert Georgie went for a makeover down under\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/ann-summers-sun-sexpert-georgette-967677761.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Sun sexpert Georgie went for a makeover down underCredit: Olivia West<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Vaginal rejuvenation treatment.\" height=\"640\" width=\"960\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891363_083e04.jpg\" data-caption=\"Georgie undergoes a treatment which combines microneedling and radio frequency\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891363_083e04.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Georgie undergoes a treatment which combines microneedling and radio frequencyCredit: Stewart Williams<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Woman in blue medical gown sitting on an examination table.\" height=\"960\" width=\"640\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891575.jpg\" data-caption=\"Georgie gets ready for her tweakments\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891575.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Georgie gets ready for her tweakmentsCredit: Stewart Williams<\/p>\n<p>As a 38-year-old mum-of-two, I know all too well how childbirth can change things downstairs. <\/p>\n<p>And while I\u2019ve always loved my lady garden, I figured it deserved a little spring spruce. Why not try and turn back the clock to my pre-baby bloom?<\/p>\n<p>Turns out, I\u2019m not the only one asking the question. Demand for the\u00a0labial puff\u00a0\u2013 a tweakment that plumps up the outer\u00a0labia\u00a0for a more youthful, fuller look \u2013 is booming. <\/p>\n<p>Because apparently, it\u2019s not just your face that deserves a little TLC these days.<\/p>\n<p>Now there\u2019s a fancier upgrade \u2013 the\u00a0Vampire Wing Lift. It\u2019s a mix of cosmetic filler and your own blood\u2019s platelet-rich plasma (PRP), designed to boost blood flow and definition, and revive tired tissues. Think vampire facial\u2026 but for your vulva.<\/p>\n<p>Already huge in the US, the treatment is now winging its way across the pond thanks to \u201cQueen of the Vulvas\u201d Dr Lakhani, who runs intimate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/topic\/health\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">health<\/a> clinics in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/topic\/kent\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kent<\/a> and Knightsbridge.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWomen lose volume downstairs through ageing and childbirth \u2013 just like your face,\u201d she explains. \u201cThis new combo uses your body\u2019s natural healing powers alongside hyaluronic acid for more natural results.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And the name? \u201cIt\u2019s inspired by the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/topic\/rod-stewart\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rod Stewart<\/a> song Tonight&#8217;s the Night, with the very naughty lyrics,\u00a0\u2018Spread your wings and let me come inside,\u2019\u201d she laughs, mid-injection.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Lakhani is no ordinary cosmetic specialist. She has over 25 years of medical experience and was the first female doctor in the UK to offer the infamous O-Shot \u2013 a treatment where blood is taken from your arm and injected into your G-spot and clitoris to boost orgasms, libido and confidence.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s helped thousands of women climax, earning her a string of awards and a fiercely loyal client list \u2013 including celebs. <\/p>\n<p>Clemmie Moodie Facelift Journey<\/p>\n<p>Women fly in from all over the world to see her, so I can at least relax knowing I\u2019m in safe hands.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My partner, on the other hand, looked positively traumatised when I told him. \u201cBut\u2026 surely less is more down there?\u201d he winced.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently not. Vaginal rejuvenation has never been more in vogue \u2013 with women flocking to luxury sexual wellness retreats offering everything from tissue regeneration to aesthetic tweaks that boost both function and finesse. <\/p>\n<p>Even <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/fabulous\/34479868\/designer-vagina-celebrities-surgery\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">stars like Jada Pinkett Smith and Sinitta<\/a> are reportedly fans.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A doctor holding three syringes filled with blood for a vaginal rejuvenation treatment.\" height=\"960\" width=\"640\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891126.jpg\" data-caption=\"Dr. Shirin with the blood from the PRP Machine - ready for the O-Shot\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891126.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Shirin with the blood from the PRP Machine &#8211; ready for the O-ShotCredit: Stewart Williams<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Woman in a gold and black swimsuit by a pool.\" height=\"960\" width=\"640\" data-credit=\"Olivia West\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/athe-hotel-villas-swingathon-tour-940718189.jpg\" data-caption=\"Georgie had a spring spruce up\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/athe-hotel-villas-swingathon-tour-940718189.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Georgie had a spring spruce upCredit: Olivia WestVampire O-Shot<\/p>\n<p>Today, I\u2019m going full whack with a \u201c360 vaginal rejuvenation\u201d \u2013 and I won\u2019t lie, I\u2019m slightly terrified.<\/p>\n<p>First, Dr Shirin Lakhani gives me a thorough examination before injecting anaesthetic. I haven\u2019t been in this position since my last smear.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re neat,\u201d she reassures, \u201cbut you\u2019ve lost a little volume.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She explains: \u201cWe\u2019ll do 0.5ml of filler each side, plus 5ml of PRP. Don\u2019t panic if you look like a baboon\u2019s bum afterwards \u2013 swelling goes down in a few days.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As part of the package, I\u2019m also getting the \u00a3300-a-session V-Tone \u2013 a 30-minute electrical muscle stimulation (EMS) session that claims to be the equivalent of doing 30,000 pelvic floor exercises. It feels weird, like mini internal zaps, but not painful.<\/p>\n<p>Then comes the \u00a31,000-a-session Morpheus 8V \u2013 a machine that combines microneedling with radiofrequency to boost collagen and tighten things up.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s shaped like something from Ann Summers and goes inside the vaginal canal and around the vulva.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Next is the legendary O-Shot. Blood from my arm is spun into PRP and injected into my G-spot and clitoris. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis really helps women who\u2019ve lost the ability to orgasm during penetrative <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/topic\/sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sex<\/a>,\u201d Dr Lakhani says. \u201cMany only need one shot to see a huge difference.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One session costs \u00a31,500, and results usually show in three to six weeks.<\/p>\n<p>As a stressed-out mum, my libido\u2019s taken a bit of a nosedive lately and orgasms have become more elusive than a full night\u2019s sleep. <\/p>\n<p>But Dr Lakhani is confident this treatment will help me over the finishing line again.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Last but not least is the \u00a31,500 vampire wing lift itself \u2013 2.5ml of PRP and 0.5ml of filler, strategically injected into each\u00a0labia. The PRP stings slightly, like paper cuts, but honestly it\u2019s less grim than a smear.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt might sound like a lot but the body will absorb the PRP,\u201d Dr Lakhani explains. \u201cI\u2019ve used a small amount of filler so you get subtle results.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Georgette Culley in a coral bodycon dress.\" height=\"960\" width=\"640\" data-credit=\"Olivia West\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/georgette-culley-wears-bodycon-dresses-738245519.jpg\" data-caption=\"The mum-of-two reports on the intimate makeover\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/georgette-culley-wears-bodycon-dresses-738245519.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>The mum-of-two reports on the intimate makeoverCredit: Olivia West<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Blood being drawn from a patient's arm.\" height=\"640\" width=\"960\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987890375.jpg\" data-caption=\"Blood was taken from her arm for the vampire treatment\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987890375.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Blood was taken from her arm for the vampire treatmentCredit: Stewart Williams<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"PRP machine with syringes.\" height=\"640\" width=\"960\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987890441.jpg\" data-caption=\"The PRP machine then span the platelets before they were injected\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987890441.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>The PRP machine then span the platelets before they were injectedCredit: Stewart Williams<a href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A doctor holds a syringe filled with blood during a vaginal rejuvenation procedure.\" height=\"640\" width=\"960\" data-credit=\"Stewart Williams\" data-img=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891423.jpg\" data-caption=\"Dr Shirin prepares for the O-shot\"   loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/568150-sun-sun-features-vagina-987891423.jpg\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>9<\/p>\n<p>Dr Shirin prepares for the O-shotCredit: Stewart Williams<\/p>\n<p>These treatments aren\u2019t just about aesthetics. Women are seeking help for atrophy, incontinence, loss of sensation and painful sex.<\/p>\n<p>Some younger women are chasing the TikTok trend for the \u201ccrotch cleavage\u201d look \u2013 aka a plumped-up camel toe \u2013 with specialist knickers flying off shelves.<\/p>\n<p>But Dr Lakhani rolls her eyes: \u201cTrends come and go. I\u2019ve got women now asking for\u00a0pubic hair transplants\u00a0after lasering it all off in the \u201890s!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>All the treatments took under two hours \u2013 but with a \u00a34,300 price tag, I\u2019m crossing everything (well, not\u00a0everything\u00a0just yet) for orgasmic results. <\/p>\n<p>Everything to consider before getting a designer vagina <\/p>\n<p class=\"article__content--intro\">While the NHS doesn&#8217;t offer vaginal rejuvenation treatments, it does offer advice for women considering the treatments. <\/p>\n<p>Some women want a designer vaginas because they do not like the look of their labia, which is the fleshy folds of skin that make up the external part of the female genitalia. However, it&#8217;s completely normal to have noticeable skin folds around the opening of your vagina. In most cases, it does not cause any problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The NHS advises:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you&#8217;re thinking about having a designer vagina treatment, discuss it with your GP first. You may have a condition that&#8217;s causing discomfort, which can be treated. Your GP may advise you to\u00a0speak to a counsellor or psychologist before committing to surgery<\/li>\n<li>It can be expensive, with the average labiaplasty costing about \u00a34,000. The cost of any consultations or follow-up care may not be included in the price<\/li>\n<li>If you&#8217;re having surgery in England, check with the\u00a0<a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cqc.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\">Care Quality Commission (CQC)<\/a>\u00a0to see if the hospital or clinic is registered with them<\/li>\n<li>Check the surgeon is registered with the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.gmc-uk.org\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">General Medical Council (GMC)<\/a>. They should be listed on the specialist register and have a licence to practise<\/li>\n<li>You may need up to two weeks off work to recover. It can take a couple of months for the skin to fully heal. During this time, peeing and sitting may also be uncomfortable<\/li>\n<li>Designer vagina treatments can occasionally result in bleeding, infection, scarring of tissue and reduced sensitivity of the genitals<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As the anaesthetic wears off, I\u2019m definitely sore and look like I\u2019ve had some sort of allergic reaction downstairs. But I\u2019m not panicking. Dr Lakhani assured me it\u2019s totally normal and the swelling should settle in a few days.<\/p>\n<p>I pop a couple of paracetamol and by day three, the pain\u2019s gone &#8211; and honestly, I\u2019m looking pretty fabulous below the belt.<\/p>\n<p>My pre-baby flower is blooming and I\u2019m glowing from head to toe. I look smoother, rejuvenated, and can\u2019t wait to road test the results.<\/p>\n<p>Even my partner has relaxed. He was a bit terrified about peeking at the post-procedure area &#8211; but the results are so natural, he agrees everything just looks a little plumper and tighter.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Then comes the big test: is it all style and no substance? Or is this going to blow the bedsheets off?<\/p>\n<p>Dating a sexpert is hard work (so I\u2019m told), but someone\u2019s got to do it &#8211; and luckily, he\u2019s very much up for the job.<\/p>\n<p>We get down to business and\u2026 wow. I\u00a0definitely\u00a0feel more sensation and have more confidence. And when the moment finally arrives, the orgasm is explosive &#8211; longer, deeper, more intense.<\/p>\n<p>And the best part? The results are only going to get better with time.<\/p>\n<p>Who knew a little prick could bring so much joy?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cOKAY, you\u2019ll just feel a little prick,\u201d says Dr Shirin Lakhani, brandishing a syringe and strapping on her&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":44889,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[424,1389,11856,126,105,209,24776,211,460,1390,441,1002,213,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-44888","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-anti-ageing","9":"tag-children-parenting-and-family-life","10":"tag-digital-features","11":"tag-features","12":"tag-health","13":"tag-longtail","14":"tag-make-up","15":"tag-nhs","16":"tag-operations-and-surgery","17":"tag-pregnancy-and-childbirth","18":"tag-section-fabulousreal-life","19":"tag-sex","20":"tag-sun-club","21":"tag-uk","22":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114389448503662032","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44888"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44888\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44889"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}