{"id":490146,"date":"2025-10-11T04:57:12","date_gmt":"2025-10-11T04:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/490146\/"},"modified":"2025-10-11T04:57:12","modified_gmt":"2025-10-11T04:57:12","slug":"atlanta-woman-moves-to-south-of-france-attends-pastry-school-is-happier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/490146\/","title":{"rendered":"Atlanta Woman Moves to South of France, Attends Pastry School, Is Happier"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Dawn Belisle, a 56-year-old who moved from Atlanta to Nice, France, in 2022. The conversation has been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m an attorney from Atlanta and have practiced for three decades \u2014 25 years as a prosecutor and five in defense \u2014 but I&#8217;ve always had a creative side.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/sourdough-bread-easy-baking-method-tips\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">I was always baking<\/a> and entertaining, and my friends would even pay me to bake for them. Eventually, I realized I could turn it into a business \u2014 Delights by Dawn \u2014 and it blossomed. My niche became alcohol-infused cakes and cupcakes, which drew a lot of attention.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always been infatuated with French desserts and wanted to differentiate myself from other bakeries, so for my 50th birthday in 2019, I took a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/where-to-eat-in-paris-best-restaurants\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">culinary trip to Paris<\/a> and joined a baking workshop. That&#8217;s when <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/american-moving-to-france-changed-lifestyle-eating-habits-grocery-shopping-2025-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">I fell in love with France<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>My spirit felt at peace there in a way that&#8217;s hard to describe. Everyone was just living. They&#8217;re out and about, enjoying each other&#8217;s company. They sit at caf\u00e9s, eating and drinking together. They don&#8217;t have the same hustle-and-bustle culture we have in the US.<\/p>\n<p>I loved everything about it \u2014 the atmosphere, the sense of calm. It was life-changing.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68e7edcc1c1f80efbec5479e&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:4898,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:3265}}\" alt=\"Belisle selling pastries, next to a woman.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Belisle selling her pastries.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dawn Belisle<\/p>\n<p>            <strong>I took a shot on pastry school<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In 2021, I <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/emily-in-paris-season-5-returning-cast-release-date-plot-2025-4\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">watched Netflix&#8217;s &#8220;Emily in Paris.&#8221;<\/a> It made me think seriously about how I could <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-to-south-france-surprised-by-culture-shock-different-etiquette-2025-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">move to France<\/a> and keep working.<\/p>\n<p>After some research, I found a pastry school that I enrolled in. That year, I took a six-month leave of absence from my law career and returned to France.<\/p>\n<p>I spent three months in pastry school in Cap d&#8217;Agde and three months traveling through different European countries and along the southern coast of France. After that experience, I knew I could live abroad.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68e7ecce5dbc4fd10daa8ad2&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:3264,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2448}}\" alt=\"Dawn Belisle and a group of fellow students at pastry school.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Belisle and a group of fellow students at a French pastry school.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dawn Belisle<\/p>\n<p>When I returned to the US, I told myself, &#8220;There&#8217;s no way I&#8217;m waiting two, three, four, five years to move.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>                      Related stories<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>I moved within a year of returning to Atlanta. That&#8217;s my personality. Once I set my mind to something, I do it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I was meant to live in France<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/american-moved-to-france-struggled-to-adjust-years-best-advice-2025-4\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Moving to France<\/a> was almost effortless \u2014 getting my documents, even finding an apartment.<\/p>\n<p>I live right in the heart of Nice. Here&#8217;s my analogy: in the US,<a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-from-austin-texas-to-new-york-city-2025-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\"> New York is constant hustle and bustle<\/a>; in France, that&#8217;s Paris. Nice, by contrast, is like the South \u2014 slower pace, better weather, and, in my experience, more welcoming, especially if you&#8217;re trying to learn the language like I am.<\/p>\n<p>I live in the Carr\u00e9 d&#8217;Or, one of the pricier, busier neighborhoods. When I arrived, I found a place within two months \u2014 unheard of now in a spot most Americans would consider prime real estate.<\/p>\n<p>I have a one-bedroom apartment that&#8217;s been renovated in a more American style, which is unusual here. I also have an abundance of closet space, which is rare in France. From my balcony, I can see a slice of the sea, and it&#8217;s a five-minute walk to the beach. Being that close was important to me.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68e7ee945dbc4fd10daa8b1b&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:2268,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1701}}\" alt=\"Boats at the Port of Nice.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      The Port of Nice.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dawn Belisle<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m in love with the <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/american-in-france-ways-life-has-been-better-changes-2024-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">quality of life<\/a> I have in Nice. I go to the markets for my fruits and vegetables, which aren&#8217;t as expensive as in the US. I also feel safe and healthy here. People in France tend to live longer and stay active well into their 80s, which says a lot.<\/p>\n<p>The country&#8217;s healthcare system is awesome. I&#8217;m not a sickly person, but I didn&#8217;t want the stress of wondering what would happen, or what it would cost, if I needed care in the States, even with a job and insurance.<\/p>\n<p>Traveling is easy in France, too. If I want to visit another country, I can \u2014 just like Americans hop to another state. <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/dumped-on-birthday-over-text-european-family-vacation-healed-me-2024-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">I just got back from Belgrade, Serbia<\/a>, not because it was on some grand plan, but because it was affordable and something new to do.<\/p>\n<p>There are still some downsides to living in France<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m very authentic, so I&#8217;m not going to romanticize France entirely.<\/p>\n<p>Many things aren&#8217;t as efficient or fast-paced here as in the States, especially when it comes to technology and bureaucracy. It can be frustrating, but you have to learn the culture and adapt to it.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68e944a2cc993f9955cffd0c&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:8192,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:5464}}\" alt=\"A beach in Nice, France.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      A beach in Nice, France.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexander Spatari\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>I was actually surprised on my first visit by how diverse France is.<\/p>\n<p>People often ask me, &#8220;Are there Black people there?&#8221; There are many Black expats here, including a lot of Black American women. That said, if you&#8217;re looking for the same concentration of Black people in the US, it&#8217;s not here.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re in a new country where you don&#8217;t know many people, you have to be intuitive and <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-stay-connected-maintain-friendships-long-distance-tips-2025-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">put yourself out there to make friends<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I suggest joining Facebook groups; there are plenty of forums and communities, both general and specific.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll likely start by making friends with like-minded expats. Then, as you attend community events, you&#8217;ll begin meeting locals. They won&#8217;t let strangers in as quickly as Americans do, but once they do, the relationships are authentic. I&#8217;ve made French and Italian friends and now have a great circle, basically a whole family here.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I can&#8217;t imagine living in any other way<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been in France for three years; I just had my anniversary here 3 weeks ago.<\/p>\n<p>Though I still enjoy baking, I&#8217;m no longer running a pastry business. Instead, <a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/delightsbydawn.com\/\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\" nofollow noopener\">Delights by Dawn<\/a> has become a lifestyle brand. I create style and travel content for social media, and mentor people who are thinking about moving abroad.<\/p>\n<p>I am still an attorney and do consultation work with a couple of offices. I train attorneys and offer services to firms and government agencies that need support for newer, younger attorneys.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68e7ee035dbc4fd10daa8b07&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:3024,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2268}}\" alt=\"TK\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Belisle in Nice, France.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Dawn Belisle<\/p>\n<p>Given everything I see happening in the US on the news, if I still lived there, I&#8217;d probably be extremely stressed. I miss my son and granddaughters, but as for my life in the US, I don&#8217;t see myself moving back.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-to-french-coast-from-london-benefits-downsides-2025-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">The peace I have in France is unbeatable.<\/a> I still do a lot and keep a schedule, but I feel more in control of my life here. I&#8217;m living to live instead of work, and I&#8217;m exploring more. To me, that&#8217;s success.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone has titles and names for things \u2014 now, I guess you&#8217;d call my journey &#8220;manifestation.&#8221; Back in my 30s, I said out loud, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to keep working in the US forever. I&#8217;ll retire and spend my life elsewhere.&#8221; And I made that happen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Dawn Belisle, a 56-year-old who moved from Atlanta to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":490147,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5309],"tags":[2000,299,36],"class_list":{"0":"post-490146","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-france","8":"tag-eu","9":"tag-europe","10":"tag-france"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115353763542201032","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/490146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=490146"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/490146\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/490147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=490146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=490146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=490146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}