{"id":492399,"date":"2025-10-12T01:40:16","date_gmt":"2025-10-12T01:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/492399\/"},"modified":"2025-10-12T01:40:16","modified_gmt":"2025-10-12T01:40:16","slug":"how-verge-readers-and-writers-are-managing-our-kids-screen-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/492399\/","title":{"rendered":"How Verge readers, and writers, are managing our kids\u2019 screen time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">This week the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/internet\/2025\/10\/08\/how-parents-manage-screen-time-for-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pew Research Center<\/a> published a study about how parents managed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theverge.com\/2018\/3\/8\/17095582\/smartphone-screen-time-parenting-child-development\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">screen time<\/a> for their kids 12 and under. The results were not particularly surprising (or enlightening, if we\u2019re being honest). A full 90 percent of parents said their children watched TV, and 61 percent said their kids interact with smartphones at least on occasion. Somewhat surprisingly, only 50 percent said they let them play a game console of some kind. While 42 percent of respondents said they could do better managing their kids\u2019 screen time, 86 percent did say they had rules around screens, even if they didn\u2019t always stick to them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">What you won\u2019t find in the Pew study, however, are what those rules are. That a certain percentage of parents \u201cever\u201d let their kids watch TV doesn\u2019t tell us useful information like, how long they watch, what they watch, or how parents are making sure they\u2019re not watching anything inappropriate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">With my eight-year-old we\u2019ve implemented a sort of barter system that I borrowed from Greg McKeown, author of <a href=\"https:\/\/gregmckeown.com\/books\/essentialism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Essentialism<\/a>. They start each week with 10 tokens, worth a total of $5 or five-hours of screen time. They can earn additional time or money by reading. How they use that time is largely up to them, they can play Minecraft or watch shows on their children\u2019s accounts on Disney+, Netflix, or Paramount+. They also have access to a few music making apps and games on their iPad. But we don\u2019t allow them unfettered access to the iPad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">Lest you think that I rule my kids\u2019 screen time with an iron first, my youngest gets an hour of (mostly educational) TV a day, just so we can help the oldest with their homework in peace. And every Saturday we have family movie night, and we take turns picking what we watch that week.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">It also turns out that how much time kids spend in front of a screen isn\u2019t the biggest concern. Time limits were common, but not universal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">That seemed to be parents\u2019 biggest concern, what kids did with their screen time. Social media was a major concern, with 80 percent of respondents to the Pew survey saying it did more harm than good. Somewhat shockingly, 15 percent said their kids used TikTok, though usage of other platforms like Instagram and Facebook were much less common, only 5 percent. 74 percent did say they watched YouTube with their children, while only 15 percent said their kids didn\u2019t watch YouTube at all.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">In terms of tools for managing time, good old taking the device away or pressing the power button, was the most popular. Though some use Apple\u2019s Screen Time tool to limit iPad usage specifically.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">Phones weren\u2019t common with younger kids. The Pew survey found that only 29 percent of parents allowed their 8 to 10 year-old to have their own smartphone. But, once kids hit their teens, they become more common.<\/p>\n<p class=\"duet--article--dangerously-set-cms-markup duet--article--standard-paragraph _1ymtmqpi _17nnmdy1 _17nnmdy0 _1xwtict1\">Remember, there\u2019s no right answer for how to raise your kids. What works for one parent, might not for another. We\u2019re all just doing the best we can. Or at least <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/internet\/2025\/10\/08\/how-parents-approach-their-kids-screen-time\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">58 percent of us think we are<\/a>, according to Pew.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This week the Pew Research Center published a study about how parents managed screen time for their kids&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":492400,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[51,105,2963,70,326,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-492399","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-business","8":"tag-business","9":"tag-health","10":"tag-report","11":"tag-science","12":"tag-tech","13":"tag-uk","14":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115358651141843357","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/492399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=492399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/492399\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/492400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=492399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=492399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=492399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}