{"id":495024,"date":"2025-10-13T02:26:23","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T02:26:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/495024\/"},"modified":"2025-10-13T02:26:23","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T02:26:23","slug":"if-you-mention-him-hell-throw-you-out-of-the-room-why-william-is-more-determined-than-ever-to-cut-harry-out-of-his-life-as-charlotte-griffiths-reveals-how-hes-been-driven-to-rage-by-his-broth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/495024\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;If you mention him, he&#8217;ll throw you out of the room&#8217;: Why William is more determined than ever to cut Harry out of his life&#8230; as CHARLOTTE GRIFFITHS reveals how he&#8217;s been driven to rage by his brother&#8217;s brazen &#8216;return plan&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\"><a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/prince_william\/index.html\" id=\"mol-cf991130-90b9-11f0-835c-eb4af239c113\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince William<\/a> has \u2018doubled down\u2019 on his resolve to cut <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/prince_harry\/index.html\" id=\"mol-cf98c310-90b9-11f0-835c-eb4af239c113\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Harry<\/a> out of his life, in the wake of his brother\u2019s <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/clarence-house\/index.html\" id=\"mol-cfb042b0-90b9-11f0-835c-eb4af239c113\" rel=\"noopener\">Clarence House<\/a> rapprochement with the King. It\u2019s been exactly a year since the Sussexes launched \u2018Operation Bring Harry Back In From The Cold\u2019 \u2013 and while the Duke\u2019s 12-month strategy has come to fruition with his father, he is no closer to contact with his brother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Indeed, Harry\u2019s success in the UK last week means the future King is burning with a renewed determination to rid the monarchy of the Sussexes for good.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018William is back at the point where if you mention Prince Harry in his presence he would throw you out of the room,\u2019 one well-placed insider admitted. \u2018He\u2019s doubling down.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">This comes as Tina Brown, the Royal biographer and former editor of Vanity Fair, revealed that <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/king-charles-iii\/index.html\" id=\"mol-cf890ba0-90b9-11f0-835c-eb4af239c113\" rel=\"noopener\">King Charles<\/a> is currently more \u2018irritated\u2019 with Prince William than with Prince Harry.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She claimed that tensions are brewing between the King and his heir over William\u2019s workload, which pales in comparison with his cancer-stricken father and has been punctuated by a multitude of holidays in recent months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Not that you would guess it by William and Catherine\u2019s four-day blitz of engagements last week, coinciding with Harry\u2019s visit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Princess of Wales agreed to attend a Women\u2019s Institute meeting in Berkshire with her husband on Monday at the last minute, prompting some to suggest William hoped a glamorous appearance from his wife would blow Harry off the front pages.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry countered the move with a \u00a31.1million pledge to Children in Need \u2013 crass to cite the amount, perhaps, but effective. A day later, Harry \u2013 who turns 41 tomorrow \u2013 met his father at Clarence House for the first time in 18 months.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-e3f830b33593ae6a\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102109915-15095185-_Charles_may_well_welcome_having_Harry_nipping_at_his_brother_s_-a-9_175781016533.jpeg\" height=\"998\" width=\"634\" alt=\"'Charles may well welcome having Harry nipping at his brother\u2019s heels, for it could prompt the Prince and Princess of Wales to &quot;up their game&quot; by carrying out more of those small-scale events we saw last week,' writes Griffiths\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">&#8216;Charles may well welcome having Harry nipping at his brother\u2019s heels, for it could prompt the Prince and Princess of Wales to &#8220;up their game&#8221; by carrying out more of those small-scale events we saw last week,&#8217; writes Griffiths<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry\u2019s breathless schedule during his week-long presence in the UK, followed by a trip to Kyiv, provided some healthy competition for William.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Charles may well welcome having Harry nipping at his brother\u2019s heels, for it could prompt the Prince and Princess of Wales to \u2018up their game\u2019 by carrying out more of those small-scale events we saw last week \u2013 the type that they would prefer not to do but which are essential to the public\u2019s perception of the monarchy. Without the future King and Queen doing the rounds, it falls to Charles to pick up most of the slack and it has been noted that, despite his battle with cancer, he carried out official engagements on 175 days during the past 12 months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Over the same period, Prince William clocked up 68 fewer engagements.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry\u2019s rapprochement strategy isn\u2019t over yet. Next on the Duke\u2019s wish-list is some kind of public acknowledgement from the King.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A source says: \u2018Harry would one day like his father to encourage the nation to accept him back again. It\u2019s what the late Queen did towards the end of her life when she asked the public to accept Camilla as Queen Consort.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018If Charles could do something along those lines, Harry would have some hope of not being completely exiled for good when William becomes King.\u2019 While it\u2019s hard to guess from the spiteful interviews he\u2019s given in recent years, Harry does want back in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Harry reads his own polls, he knows he\u2019s one of the least popular Royals and wants that to change,\u2019 says the source. \u2018He wants to get back to being one of the most popular. Meghan doesn\u2019t care about the UK perception and that\u2019s fine \u2013 but Harry does.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But this time there\u2019s a telling difference. The late Queen\u2019s public endorsement of Camilla followed much lobbying by Charles behind stately doors. The same cannot be said for William, who is as far as he\u2019s ever been from acknowledging his brother, let alone championing his return.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d7fb5e020301e0c4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102109931-15095185-Tina_Brown_the_Royal_biographer_and_former_editor_of_Vanity_Fair-a-10_17578101653.jpeg\" height=\"425\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Tina Brown, the Royal biographer and former editor of Vanity Fair, revealed that King Charles is currently more \u2018irritated\u2019 with Prince William than with Prince Harry\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Tina Brown, the Royal biographer and former editor of Vanity Fair, revealed that King Charles is currently more \u2018irritated\u2019 with Prince William than with Prince Harry<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018William is more determined than ever to cut Harry off altogether,\u2019 adds the source. \u2018It infuriates William that Harry has pulled off a 12-month \u201cmaster plan\u201d to re-ingratiate himself.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The pair have long had a tempestuous relationship, not least in the run-up to \u2018Megxit\u2019 when, in 2019, the brothers came to blows in Nottingham Cottage, in the grounds of Kensington Palace, and Harry ended up shoved to the floor, cracking a dog bowl.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Palace aides are said to be anxious that William\u2019s \u2018doubling down\u2019 mentality marks a setback for him personally.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018For some time now William\u2019s anger had cooled to the point of indifference over his brother, which was healthy for his mental wellbeing,\u2019 adds another source. \u2018William had got to the stage where Harry was a \u201cnon-person\u201d, he had fallen so far beneath his radar as to have disappeared from his mind altogether. It can\u2019t be good that William has gone back to the point where he would throw someone out at the very mention of Harry\u2019s name.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The phrase \u2018non-person\u2019 was coined by the Queen Mother to refer to people whose name cannot be mentioned by friends or aides in her presence \u2013 like that of her brother-in-law Edward VIII whose abdication forced her and her husband (who became George VI) to become King and Queen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">With Harry a \u2018non-person\u2019, safely 5,000 miles away in California, people around William felt no need to bring up Harry\u2019s name. All that was shattered by the appearance last week.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The source added: \u2018Now Harry is back \u2013 back in the UK, back at Clarence House, back in touch with his father and back into the subject line of emails.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Another source said: \u2018William originally went through all the stages of grief over his brother. When they first fell out he went to Balmoral and went off his food. Just before the Oprah chat screened, he wept. Then he turned to anger and when that stage was over, he simply compartmentalised it all and moved on. He never expected to be regularly in the same postcode as his brother again, like he was last week.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It may cause further worry, then, that Harry has more plans to come to the UK and may even educate his children here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Archie, six, will soon be of prep school age.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">William and Harry began boarding at Ludgrove School in Wokingham at age eight, as is traditional for upper-crust children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">So perhaps it is telling Harry has another two years to go in the \u2018rapprochement strategy\u2019, which I revealed in this newspaper a year ago. The early signs came when his UK friends began receiving texts from the prince ahead of his 40th birthday last September.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Zoom calls with former Royal aides followed. As I reported at the time, Harry was swapping his advisers in Hollywood \u2013 who had seemingly done little to rescue his tattered reputation \u2013 for a more traditional Royal team, with Palace experience and a military background.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Harry is turning away from all sorts of Hollywood publicists and is seeking counsel from his old friends and associates,\u2019 said a source at the time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018He is clearly reaching out thinking, \u201cI need to do something different because what I\u2019m doing is not working\u201d. In short, he is rethinking the way he operates.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">As the year has gone by, it has all come to pass. Harry professionally separated from Meghan in January and later hired public relations expert Liam Maguire \u2013 just the type of gruff, ex-Sandhurst military man who the stubborn flame-haired prince would listen to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Meanwhile, Meghan hired her own expert, Netflix reputation manager Meredith Maines. Later, the couple organised a \u2018Royal household structure\u2019 for their respective staff, with Meredith at the helm as \u2018Head of Household\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It gave Harry the tightly hierarchical operation he grew up with at Kensington Palace.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Tellingly, Liam \u2013 who served in Afghanistan and has worked for years on Invictus, Harry\u2019s charity for wounded servicemen and women \u2013 only reports to the Duke.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">By May, Harry was attempting to reconnect with old friends, even those who have sided with William. He was seen roaming the streets of Fulham, seemingly looking for the front door of aristocrat pals John and Georgina Vaughan. But the Vaughans had moved to the countryside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A seismic change came in July when Harry dispatched Meredith and Liam to London to meet Tobyn Andreae, the King\u2019s senior communications adviser.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">As a peace offering, the latter arrived carrying a gift from Berry Brothers, a wine merchant with a Royal warrant from Charles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It was perhaps intentional that the trio met at the Royal Over-Seas League, a St James\u2019s clubhouse committed to fostering \u2018international friendship\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">When Meghan\u2019s Netflix series With Love, Meghan came out a month later, Harry did not feature in the programme nor participate in any of its promotion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Instead, he and his team filled a hefty ring binder of updates and notes relating to his UK charities. He vowed to read up on every one of his patronages. Even the smaller ones he hardly meets were given an audience when he landed on September 8, such as Scotty\u2019s Little Soldiers, which supports the children of service personnel who have died in action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In the spirit of openness and cooperation, the Duke shared his timetable of events with Mr Andreae. In return, Harry\u2019s team were informed Wednesday last week would be a wise day to keep his schedule London-based, as that is when Charles would come to the capital for his cancer treatment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Duke duly stuck close to the capital and kept his phone on. His team were asked to brief out the message they were in the dark over what private arrangements father and son were making.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry\u2019s UK team did know, of course, but did not dare risk a leak by admitting as much. Intriguingly, even Meghan and her team in the US were none the wiser.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">By Wednesday evening, Harry pulled off something many feared would never happen \u2013 a 54 minute-long reconciliation with his father at Clarence House.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It was proof that \u2018Operation Bring Harry Back In From The Cold\u2019 had gone to plan, a year almost to the day since this newspaper revealed its existence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The next milestone is 2027 when the Invictus Games will be in Birmingham. Harry would dearly love to have the whole Royal Family by his side for the opening ceremony before the world\u2019s media.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">His concerns over the lack of government-issued security \u2013 having lost his Appeal Court case in May against the Home Office\u2019s decision to roll back his police protection \u2013 is likely to keep Meghan and the children Archie and Lilibet, four, at home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Yet if the chances of his wife attending are small then the likelihood of his brother accepting an invite is non-existent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But as a source says: \u2018Harry has learned this week that playing the long game works. So far, he\u2019s been focused on reconnecting with Charles, his charities, the public and a smattering of old friends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u2018Harry hasn\u2019t attempted to try his luck with William yet. But you never know, he\u2019s feeling ambitious after this week \u2013 and two years is a long time in Royal politics.\u2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Prince William has \u2018doubled down\u2019 on his resolve to cut Prince Harry out of his life, in the&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":495025,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[7709,7730,7731,42644,92,1760,447,532,7710,519,448],"class_list":{"0":"post-495024","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-british-royal-family","9":"tag-charles","10":"tag-charles-iii","11":"tag-clarence-house","12":"tag-dailymail","13":"tag-king-charles","14":"tag-prince-harry","15":"tag-prince-william","16":"tag-royal-families","17":"tag-royal-family","18":"tag-royals"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115364494640229230","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/495024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=495024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/495024\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/495025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=495024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=495024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=495024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}