{"id":510932,"date":"2025-10-19T03:07:16","date_gmt":"2025-10-19T03:07:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/510932\/"},"modified":"2025-10-19T03:07:16","modified_gmt":"2025-10-19T03:07:16","slug":"how-i-celebrated-a-welsh-diwali-7000-miles-from-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/510932\/","title":{"rendered":"How I celebrated a Welsh Diwali 7,000 miles from home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As an immigrant it first felt very unnerving celebrating Diwali away from home but this is how I learned to celebrate it in Wales<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760843232_542_0_Shaurya-Shaurya.jpg\" alt=\"A woman's hands holding a lamp\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>Diwali, or Deepawali, gets its name from &#8216;deepak&#8217; or &#8216;diya&#8217;, an earthen lamp fuelled by a cotton wick and cooking oil(Image: Shaurya Shaurya)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">The <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/all-about\/diwali\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">festival of lights, Diwali<\/a>, is almost upon us, and with it all the joy and togetherness it brings. Though best known by Hindu tradition it does not belong to a single culture.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">It is celebrated by <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/all-about\/sikh-communities\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Sikhs<\/a> as the &#8216;Bandi Chhor Diwas&#8217; (Day of Liberation), by Jains to mark the day their supreme spiritual teacher Bhagwan Mahavira had his spiritual awakening, and by several other cultures across the world. Most of all it is a day when people adorn their houses with lights to ward off darkness and celebrate a day of unity and piousness.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">There are several communal <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/whats-on\/whats-on-news\/everywhere-you-can-celebrate-diwali-32667886\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">events to celebrate the festival each year<\/a>. However for thousands of immigrants like me it presents an annual conundrum: how do you celebrate a festival of togetherness when those you love most sit thousands of miles away?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760843234_759_0_Shaurya-Shaurya.jpg\" alt=\"Shaurya lighting a candle while sitting on the floor\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Diyas are an important symbols of warding off darkness. We couldn&#8217;t find many so we replaced them with tea lights(Image: Shaurya Shaurya)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">In my years of living in Wales the answer has been very simple: all you need to celebrate Diwali is people. For the biggest stories in Wales first<a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/newsletter-preference-centre\/?view=Solus&amp;mailingListId=aa0abd38-0db5-4492-99f3-e73baecff682&amp;utm_source=solusarticle\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\"> sign up to our daily newsletter<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">They can be fellow stragglers away from home or people who have welcomed you into their home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">I don&#8217;t do anything different to celebrate Diwali than what I used to do in India.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760843235_489_0_Shaurya-Shaurya.jpg\" alt=\"As assortment of food laid out on a table\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Diwali is not complete without good food and everyone pitched in to bring their best to the table(Image: Shaurya Shaurya)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">An important part of the festival is deep cleaning your home. It&#8217;s meant as a way to get rid of clutter, make way for new beginnings and welcome the goddess of prosperity and good fortune, Lakshmi, into one&#8217;s home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">Another important ritual is a prayer to the goddess Lakshmi, often done in the evening, where each family member sits together in an intimate setting to pray for the good fortune of the household.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">This is the aspect I missed the most but the thing about togetherness is you have to feel it rather than experience it.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760843236_148_0_Shaurya-Shaurya.jpg\" alt=\"A swastika drawn out in tea lights\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>The Hindu Swastika, different from the one used by Nazis, is an important religious symbol of good fortune, wellbeing, and prosperity. The little feet painted at the bottom are supposed signify the footsteps of goddess Lakshmi coming into the house(Image: Shaurya Shaurya)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">Though it&#8217;s not the same you can still feel it through your phone. Personally I feel it has only made my familial bonds grow stronger when me, my sister, and parents got on a video call from different corners of the world to offer our prayers in silence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">It&#8217;s not ideal but it offers a moment of togetherness in spite of the insurmountable distance \u2013 and isn&#8217;t that all Diwali is about?<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">It wasn&#8217;t all doom and gloom though as then came the festivities now they are held at a house in Cardiff with friends from different countries and regions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">It&#8217;s a joint effort though as we held a potluck. Everyone attending brought a different dish \u2013 home-cooked and served with a lot of love.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760843236_806_0_Shaurya-Shaurya.jpg\" alt=\"Two women holding sparklers\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>A little bit of sparkle never harmed anyone(Image: Shaurya Shaurya)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">If you think that might lead to surprises it will as this is how I ate the most delectable dal I&#8217;ve ever had \u2013 and it was cooked by a Welshman!<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">Another Diwali tradition, though not as ancient, is the bursting of firecrackers. As we&#8217;ve become more aware of the impact they have on the environment me and my friends settled for some small sparklers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">So that&#8217;s the story of a Diwali celebrated 7,000 miles away from home with people who were strangers not so long ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"walesonline\">My plans for this year aren&#8217;t much different: a few friends, delicious homemade food, a lot of lights, and a little bit of sparkle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"As an immigrant it first felt very unnerving celebrating Diwali away from home but this is how I&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":510933,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5010],"tags":[748,156773,4884,16,15,1764],"class_list":{"0":"post-510932","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-wales","8":"tag-britain","9":"tag-diwali","10":"tag-great-britain","11":"tag-uk","12":"tag-united-kingdom","13":"tag-wales"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115398630052808692","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/510932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=510932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/510932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/510933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=510932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=510932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=510932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}