{"id":51372,"date":"2025-04-26T05:56:10","date_gmt":"2025-04-26T05:56:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/51372\/"},"modified":"2025-04-26T05:56:10","modified_gmt":"2025-04-26T05:56:10","slug":"brit-whos-lived-in-spain-for-38-years-shares-truth-bomb-for-people-thinking-of-moving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/51372\/","title":{"rendered":"Brit who&#8217;s lived in Spain for 38 years shares &#8216;truth bomb&#8217; for people thinking of moving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Daniel Efford, an expat who has lived in Spain for 38 years, shared a TikTok video warning people not to make decisions based on a week-long holiday they take to the country<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/0_An-expat-in-Spain-has-shared-some-of-the-difficulties.jpg\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>An expat in Spain has shared some of the difficulties(Image: (Image: Getty\/Tiktok &#8211; @danielefford23))<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">A veteran British expat who has called Spain home for nearly four decades has released a &#8216;truth bomb&#8217; video for those entertaining the idea of a similar move.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Daniel Efford, an operations manager with GRSA International situated in La Cala de Mijas along Costa del Sol, posted a frank TikTok warning against hasty decisions inspired by fleeting holiday experiences in Spain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">He advised: &#8220;It&#8217;s brilliant, but not easy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;Let me explain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;I think one of the biggest stumbling blocks that people have, is that when they come to Spain, they come as holidaymakers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">He continued by highlighting the disconnect between holiday perceptions and the reality of living there full-time. &#8220;They look at life from the holidaymaker view and don&#8217;t really consider what happens behind the scenes. So they come for a week, see how it works or see the way of life, and think &#8216;I can do that&#8217;. It&#8217;s just a mistake.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Efford suggests aspiring expats dig deeper before taking the plunge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;If you&#8217;re thinking of moving to Spain, first you can check out what happens in Spain by asking local people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">In seeking authentic insights, he recommends: &#8220;Do a bit of homework, speak to locals \u2013 I&#8217;m not talking about the Brits at your favourite bar \u2013 talk to local Spanish people who speak English or who you&#8217;ve been able to build a bond with,&#8221; reports <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.express.co.uk\/news\/world\/2045240\/british-expat-spain-40-years-truth-bomb\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">the Express<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Wrapping up his realistic take on the expat dream, he reflected on the common oversight by tourists.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;We have this problem that the tourist view clouds common sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;It clouds it because we see a lifestyle that we enjoy because we are a tourist.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;Talk to the local people and take into account what they say, how they say it, the information you&#8217;re getting&#8230; And not just from one person \u2013 listen to as many people as possible, because there&#8217;ll be some scary stories.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;I can share a few.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;You just have to find the right ingredients for that life to be livable.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">A user who made the move to Lanzarote in 2020 commented: &#8220;We did our homework.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;One thing for sure is you don&#8217;t want to be living in tourism areas.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Advice also poured in from another commenter who suggested: &#8220;The best thing anyone can do is learn the language.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;A huge number of doors will open to you as an English speaker with Spanish.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;And you&#8217;ll make friends who will help you settle in.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Furthermore, Efford spearheads a YouTube channel alongside his mate Mark titled Life in Spain Unfiltered, sharing their extensive 60 years&#8217; worth of insights as expatriates.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Daniel Efford, an expat who has lived in Spain for 38 years, shared a TikTok video warning people&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":51373,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5312],"tags":[2000,299,104,449,1737],"class_list":{"0":"post-51372","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-spain","8":"tag-eu","9":"tag-europe","10":"tag-spain","11":"tag-tiktok","12":"tag-youtube"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51372"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51372\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/51373"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}