{"id":537250,"date":"2025-10-30T09:01:22","date_gmt":"2025-10-30T09:01:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/537250\/"},"modified":"2025-10-30T09:01:22","modified_gmt":"2025-10-30T09:01:22","slug":"man-united-and-england-legend-paul-scholes-quits-television-punditry-work-to-care-for-his-non-verbal-autistic-son-20-as-he-confirms-hes-split-from-wife-claire-after-years-of-silence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/537250\/","title":{"rendered":"Man United and England legend Paul Scholes QUITS television punditry work to care for his non-verbal autistic son, 20, as he confirms he&#8217;s split from wife Claire after years of silence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Paul Scholes has revealed that his decision to step back from television punditry was based on wanting to care for his 20-year-old autistic son Aiden, with the Manchester United legend opening up on the challenges and rewards of looking after him in an emotional new interview.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Like many of his former <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sport\/manchester-united\/index.html\" id=\"mol-987b7f00-b565-11f0-93df-35ad39121c40\" rel=\"noopener\">Man United<\/a> team-mates, Scholes has been a former player in-demand since his retirement in 2013.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The 50-year-old was previously a frequent fixture on television coverage of domestic and European matches, but this season has stepped away from his live broadcasting responsibilities to focus on podcasting.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But aside from &#8216;hating&#8217; media appearances, as Scholes told his old team-mate <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sport\/gary-neville\/index.html\" id=\"mol-987f9db0-b565-11f0-93df-35ad39121c40\" rel=\"noopener\">Gary Neville<\/a> on the <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/6fIyf1PcTkhk3q2GgxI1zN?si=UsfyQh7fSkGexblA0wr-uQ&amp;context=spotify%3Ashow%3A29LjKwNI41bD09xNAMkQes&amp;nd=1&amp;dlsi=4b1de6fec86d4c46\">Stick to Football podcast, brought to you by Sky Bet<\/a>, the former midfielder gave up the majority of his television work in order to build a routine with Aiden, who is non-verbal and was diagnosed with &#8216;severe autism&#8217;, in Scholes&#8217; words, at the age of two-and-a-half.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;All the work I do now is just around his routines, &#8216;cos he has quite a strict routine every single day, so I just decided everything I&#8217;m going to do, it is around Aiden,&#8217; Scholes told Neville and his co-hosts.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Sharing that he has separated from his childhood sweetheart Claire Froggatt, who he married in 1999, Scholes shared that Aiden&#8217;s parents have &#8216;three nights each&#8217; with him a week, with their son spending Friday night with Froggatt&#8217;s mother.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-70a11c86f843d5d7\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/103436191-15241287-image-a-20_1761811085308.jpg\" height=\"1093\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Paul Scholes has revealed that he has stepped back from punditry to focus on his son Aiden\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Paul Scholes has revealed that he has stepped back from punditry to focus on his son Aiden<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-bdf51d5d89f4a5b1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/103436195-15241287-image-a-21_1761811088759.jpg\" height=\"422\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The 20-year-old was diagnosed when he was two-and-a-half years old (pictured carried by Scholes)\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The 20-year-old was diagnosed when he was two-and-a-half years old (pictured carried by Scholes)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;We always do the same things with him as he doesn\u2019t know what day of the week it is or time. But he\u2019ll know from what we\u2019re doing what day it is,&#8217; Scholes continued.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I pick him up every Tuesday from his daycare and we go swimming. Loves swimming then we get his pizza on the way home. Thursday pick him up, go for something to eat, go home.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Sunday, I pick him up from Claire\u2019s house and we go to Tesco where he buys a trolley full of chocolate. So, he doesn\u2019t know what day or time it is, but he knows from what we\u2019re doing what day it is. He\u2019ll be 21 in December.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Discussing his diagnosis, Scholes continued: &#8216;When I say he can&#8217;t speak, I think he understands a lot more than we think.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;He has sounds, but it&#8217;s only people that are close to him that will know what he&#8217;s saying.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But Scholes has found it rewarding to share small snapshots of his life with Aiden on social media, having heard from parents who have similar experiences with their children that it can &#8216;help&#8217; in difficult moments.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Scholes &#8211; who shares three children with Froggatt &#8211; explained that it had been the hardest in the early days of his diagnosis, with the player often turning up for training at Carrington with bite marks or scratch marks which Aiden had given his father out of the frustration of not being understood.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I never got a break from it, even when playing,&#8217; Scholes added. &#8216;It was very hard in those days, feels like it was years ago.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-1ce1f30130fe322\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/103436193-15241287-image-a-22_1761811097594.jpg\" height=\"436\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Scholes also revealed on the podcast that he has separated from his wife Claire Froggatt\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Scholes also revealed on the podcast that he has separated from his wife Claire Froggatt<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-98d747b2b6a676e9\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/103436237-15241287-image-a-23_1761811348762.jpg\" height=\"431\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The 50-year-old was, until this year, a regular fixture pitchside on punditry duty for television\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The 50-year-old was, until this year, a regular fixture pitchside on punditry duty for television<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-a4f829b2e47fe70f\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/103436241-15241287-image-a-24_1761811366091.jpg\" height=\"357\" width=\"634\" alt=\"But now the former midfielder is focusing on the flexibility of his own podcast alongside Paddy McGuinness and old team-mate Nicky Butt\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">But now the former midfielder is focusing on the flexibility of his own podcast alongside Paddy McGuinness and old team-mate Nicky Butt<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I don\u2019t think (doctors) diagnosed it until they were two-and-a-half years old. But you knew early something was wrong but then you get the diagnosis, and I\u2019d never heard of it. Then all of a sudden you start seeing everything, I don\u2019t know if it just consciously happens, I don\u2019t know.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I remember the first time after we were playing Derby away and I just didn\u2019t want to be there. I remember the manager dropped me the week after actually, and I hadn\u2019t told anyone (about the diagnosis). I ended up telling them a few weeks later, I think as it was quite hard.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Scholes however remained adamant that he does not want &#8216;sympathy&#8217; for his experiences, but stressed that he is still concerned about what could happen to his son when neither he nor Froggatt are around.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Don&#8217;t get me wrong, he can be so happy it&#8217;s untrue, and it gives you great pleasure and joy, it&#8217;s not all bad,&#8217; Scholes reassured his co-hosts.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But the former player went on to share a heartbreaking story about Aiden suffering from toothache and being unable to explain his pain.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">For now, Scholes explained, he is content to make Aiden&#8217;s needs the centre of his world, with his working life only fitting in where it can.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The launch of his new podcast with former team-mate Nicky Butt, The Good, The Bad &amp; The Football has further allowed him to focus on his son.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I do studio work, but everything is built around his day,&#8217; Scholes confirmed. &#8216;Last season on Thursday nights I\u2019d do the Europa League for Man United, that\u2019s the night I\u2019d usually have him, so he was getting all agitated, biting and scratching.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;He knows the pattern\u2019s not there straight away. And I did that for years really, always thinking I\u2019ve got to stop this at some point so I had the chance to do the podcast and I thought that would suit me more, well not me, Aiden.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Paul Scholes has revealed that his decision to step back from television punditry was based on wanting to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":537251,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[92,94,1676,98,93,79,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-537250","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sports","8":"tag-dailymail","9":"tag-football","10":"tag-gary-neville","11":"tag-manchester-united","12":"tag-sport","13":"tag-sports","14":"tag-uk","15":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115462307813715392","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/537250","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=537250"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/537250\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/537251"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=537250"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=537250"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=537250"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}