{"id":597353,"date":"2025-11-27T15:05:15","date_gmt":"2025-11-27T15:05:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/597353\/"},"modified":"2025-11-27T15:05:15","modified_gmt":"2025-11-27T15:05:15","slug":"my-life-in-spain-is-cheaper-than-the-us-but-i-struggled-to-slow-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/597353\/","title":{"rendered":"My Life in Spain Is Cheaper Than the US, but I Struggled to Slow Down"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This story is based on a conversation with marketing specialist Jennifer Cody Kemp, 53, a mother of one, who lives in Alicante, Spain. It has been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p>My mind was racing wildly as I waited at the Cairo airport for my flight back to the US in October 2024.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d spent nearly two weeks on a girls&#8217; trip to Egypt: the thought of returning to everyday life and my corporate job in <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moving-to-florida-weather-rent-fort-lauderdale-politics-healthcare-millennial-2024-2\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Fort Lauderdale, Florida<\/a>, filled me with dread.<\/p>\n<p>I wondered if I should make a permanent move abroad<\/p>\n<p>A voice in my head said, &#8220;You don&#8217;t have to stay on the hamster wheel and deserve to be happy.&#8221; My thoughts went back and forth. My cost of living was getting ridiculous in the US, and the more money I made, the more money I needed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d traveled all over the world and particularly enjoyed visiting Europe, where things were cheaper, more fun, and less demanding. What if I made a permanent move to one of my favorite countries, Spain?<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/692773c4e1a9cbb014df17f6&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1802,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1351}}\" alt=\"THT\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Cody Kemp said she was a seasoned traveler.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Jennifer Cody Kemp<\/p>\n<p>First, I booked an appointment with my <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/personal-finance\/investing\/what-does-a-financial-advisor-do\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">financial advisor <\/a>to review the numbers. He said I&#8217;d set myself up well for the change, and there was absolutely no reason for me to put it off.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a story about life as an expat? Please send details to jridley@insider.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He understood when I said I didn&#8217;t want to work another 15 years and miss out on the things I wanted to do right now. My father died at just 67 in 2020. I&#8217;d already lost a couple of friends who were my age, too.<\/p>\n<p>Next, I sought advice from the online agency <a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/moveoverseasnow.com\/\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\" nofollow noopener\">Move Overseas Now<\/a> to secure a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/digital-nomad-learned-slow-down-build-community-avoid-loneliness-slowmadism-2025-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">digital nomad <\/a>visa in Spain.<\/p>\n<p>I decided to live in Alicante on the Costa Blanca<\/p>\n<p>I quit my job, which I&#8217;d held for 28 years, in April of this year, put my 2,600-square-foot, four-bedroom house on the market, and flew to Europe the following month. My son, Mark, 24, joined me for a long vacation.<\/p>\n<p>I decided to settle in the <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/family-moves-connecticut-to-spain-more-expensive-2025-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">city of Alicante<\/a>, on the Costa Blanca, in southern Spain, because of its great climate and the nearby beaches and mountains.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6927747a89026fbb4d0e8800&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1087,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:815}}\" alt=\"A mom and daughter in a kayak\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Cody Kemp kayaking with her son, Mark, 24, in Europe.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Jennifer Cody Kemp<\/p>\n<p>My first step was to rent a 1,300-square-foot, two-bedroom apartment in the city center. It costs the equivalent of $925 a month, compared to my mortgage in Florida, which was $1,600.<\/p>\n<p>I was glad to no longer pay my annual $7,300 housing tax, nor my $450-a-month health insurance, co-pays, and referral fees. Spain has a universal healthcare system.<\/p>\n<p>A glass of wine costs the equivalent of $3.50<\/p>\n<p>Giving up my car saved me $450 a month in motor <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/personal-finance\/auto-insurance\/best-car-insurance-companies\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">vehicle insurance<\/a>. People walk everywhere in Alicante. And it&#8217;s a 12-minute bus ride from my home to the beach.<\/p>\n<p>You can enjoy a glass of wine here for the equivalent of $3.50, and groceries are significantly less expensive. For example, I recently bought two dozen eggs for $2.50, compared to the $12 I spent in the US.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6927761189026fbb4d0e8842&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:2396,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1797}}\" alt=\"A woman is pointing to a sign saying &quot;Cafe Madrid.&quot;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Cody Kemp has found the cost of living in Spain to be a lot cheaper than in America.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Jennifer Cody Kemp<\/p>\n<p>My income \u2014 generated from my work with individual clients, including a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-start-publishing-company-1-million-working-mother-founder-2022-3\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">publishing company<\/a> \u2014 goes a lot further. I can eat out when I like, which is a great opportunity to meet new people.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m single and use <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/forever-alone-staying-single-done-with-dating-apps-2023-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">dating apps<\/a>, but I much prefer to start a conversation with someone in a restaurant or bar instead. It comes more easily in Spain.<\/p>\n<p>You need to be patient in Spain<\/p>\n<p>Still, it hasn&#8217;t all been plain sailing. The biggest challenge was adjusting to the so-called &#8220;tranquilo&#8221; lifestyle, which is designed to promote relaxation and calmness.<\/p>\n<p>The culture I experienced in the US was immediate gratification. If I wanted something, I could order it on Amazon. The item could be there the same day, or at least two days later. Here, you&#8217;ve got to learn patience and wait.<\/p>\n<p>Many stores in Florida are open 24 hours a day. The Spanish siesta usually lasts two or three hours. There&#8217;ll be a sign on the door saying, &#8220;We&#8217;ll be back at 5 p.m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/692776b3e1a9cbb014df1875&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1780,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1335}}\" alt=\"A woman in a pink top is taking a selfie on a beach.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Cody Kemp lives a 12-minute bus ride from the beach.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Jennifer Cody Kemp<\/p>\n<p>Most supermarkets are closed on Wednesdays, so it&#8217;s best to do your shopping by Tuesday night.<\/p>\n<p>It can also be frustrating to find the products that you want. But it pays to have a sense of humor about it. I don&#8217;t drink regular coffee \u2014 I only drink <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/four-sigmatic-mushroom-coffee-boost-brain-function-no-jitters-2016-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">mushroom coffee <\/a>\u2014 and had used up the 90-day supply I&#8217;d bought from home.<\/p>\n<p>I visited various stores to see if anyone stocked it. I joked that my day couldn&#8217;t get started without a mushroom coffee. Nobody knew what I was even talking about.<\/p>\n<p>As the months have passed, I&#8217;m learning to take a deep breath and slow myself down, just as the locals do. It&#8217;s good for your soul, and I&#8217;ve never felt happier.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This story is based on a conversation with marketing specialist Jennifer Cody Kemp, 53, a mother of one,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":597354,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5312],"tags":[2000,299,104],"class_list":{"0":"post-597353","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-spain","8":"tag-eu","9":"tag-europe","10":"tag-spain"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115622282717017910","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/597353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=597353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/597353\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/597354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=597353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=597353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=597353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}