{"id":626535,"date":"2025-12-11T15:49:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-11T15:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/626535\/"},"modified":"2025-12-11T15:49:25","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T15:49:25","slug":"5-phrases-i-say-to-my-kids-to-get-them-excited-about-saving-money-for-the-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/626535\/","title":{"rendered":"5 phrases I say to my kids to get them excited about saving money for the future"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Becoming a dad was one of the biggest things that motivated me to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2025\/12\/06\/4-good-enough-financial-moves-to-reach-your-goals-with-less-time-and-hassle-from-a-money-expert.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">take control of my finances<\/a>. I never wanted my kids, now 12 and 9, to feel overwhelmed or intimidated by money.<\/p>\n<p>So before I turned 40, my wife and I paid off more than $250,000 of debt, started investing, and built a net worth of $1 million. Along the way, we launched <a href=\"https:\/\/parentportfolio.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Parent Portfolio<\/a>, a personal finance blog to help other people <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2024\/12\/15\/first-millionaire-in-my-family-how-i-started-building-wealth.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">build wealth<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2025\/12\/08\/how-to-teach-your-children-money-skills-saving-budgeting-investing.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">raise money-smart kids<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2025\/06\/08\/money-expert-shares-the-hardest-money-conversation-he-and-his-wife-had.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Talking about money<\/a> is a regular practice in our home. Our kids don&#8217;t see money as a mystery box, but as a tool that they feel confident about using.<\/p>\n<p>Simple, memorable phrases grab their attention far better than long, boring lectures.\u00a0Here are five phrases that genuinely excite them about saving and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2025\/11\/15\/investment-buckets-to-maximize-flexibility.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">investing for the future<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"headline0\"\/>1. &#8216;You can make money while you sleep.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>When I first said this to my kids their eyes widened. The idea of earning money in your sleep sounds like magic to a kid, and that&#8217;s exactly why it works. I explained that it&#8217;s not magic at all. It&#8217;s<strong> <\/strong>compound growth through investing.<\/p>\n<p>We started small and kept it simple. Any time they earn allowance or receive birthday money, they save a portion to buy index fund shares. I show them charts of how those funds have grown over time, and we log in together every few months to check on their progress.<\/p>\n<p>An example of one of the progress charts I&#8217;ll show my kids.<\/p>\n<p>Photo: Jonathan Sanchez<\/p>\n<p>Instead of their money collecting dust in a wallet, it&#8217;s working for them in the stock market. Sometimes we talk about how a rising stock price can be good or bad depending on whether you&#8217;re buying or selling, and I&#8217;m truly proud of how quickly they grasp the concept.<\/p>\n<p>By turning investing into something visual and hands-on, I&#8217;ve made saving feel like a game that builds their curiosity and patience.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"headline1\"\/>2. &#8216;Saving can help you avoid stress in the future.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>This gets them thinking long-term. Kids don&#8217;t have car payments or rent, but they can face mini-emergencies, such as a lost toy, a broken bike chain, or a school fee they forgot about.<\/p>\n<p>So I teach them about preparing for the unexpected. I tell them not to think of if something happens, but when it happens. That mindset shift turns saving into a source of peace, rather than pressure.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever they get an allowance, they set aside a small amount for &#8220;just-in-case&#8221; situations. And when something does go wrong, they know how to handle it.<\/p>\n<p>For example, when my son lost his retainer, he immediately offered to pay for a replacement. We covered the cost, of course, but I used it as a chance to praise his accountability and remind him why savings matter.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"headline2\"\/>3. &#8216;You don&#8217;t want to work forever.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>This one always makes them stop and think. I tell my kids that hard work pays for essentials like food and housing, but the goal isn&#8217;t to work forever. It&#8217;s to reach a point where your money starts working for you.<\/p>\n<p>I explain that when you invest early, your future self has more options. You can choose work that&#8217;s meaningful, spend more time with family, or even retire early if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>I remind them that as income grows, it&#8217;s tempting to buy bigger or flashier things. But true freedom comes from having choices, not stuff. Saving and investing today means they won&#8217;t be trapped by bills tomorrow.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"headline3\"\/>4. &#8216;Save to get something you really want.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>We live in an on-demand world. Almost anything can be delivered in a day or streamed in seconds. But that convenience can have a downside. It can make us impatient.<\/p>\n<p>I constantly remind my kids that waiting builds value. Credit cards and &#8220;buy now, pay later&#8221; apps make instant gratification easy, but debt can turn that momentary happiness into long-term stress.<\/p>\n<p>When my kids want something, I encourage them to save up<strong> <\/strong>instead of using credit. The process teaches them discipline and self-control.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>More often than not, after a few weeks of saving, they realize they don&#8217;t want the item anymore. Instead, they&#8217;d rather keep their money or find something cheaper in price and more meaningful.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"headline4\"\/>5. &#8216;Value what you worked so hard for.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>This phrase ties everything together. When kids earn something, whether it&#8217;s money, good grades, or sports awards, they value it differently. My kids take better care of the things they save for because they understand the effort it took to earn them.<\/p>\n<p>Saving money teaches patience, but it also builds gratitude and confidence. They learn that what they achieve has meaning because it takes persistence and intention.<\/p>\n<p>When I see them pause before making a purchase or proudly show me their savings balance, it reminds me that these lessons are working. They&#8217;re not just saving for the sake of saving. They&#8217;re learning to think, plan, and dream.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Jonathan Sanchez<\/strong>\u00a0is the co-founder of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/parentportfolio.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Parent Portfolio<\/a>, where he helps readers take control of their financial future and build wealth for the next generation. He was raised with frugal habits and by practicing wise money decisions, became a millionaire in his 30s. 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