{"id":657287,"date":"2025-12-27T06:02:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-27T06:02:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/657287\/"},"modified":"2025-12-27T06:02:25","modified_gmt":"2025-12-27T06:02:25","slug":"the-two-words-to-avoid-when-you-make-new-years-resolutions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/657287\/","title":{"rendered":"The two words to avoid when you make New Year&#8217;s Resolutions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Will 2026 be the year you&#8217;ll &#8220;lose weight&#8221;, &#8220;change career&#8221; or &#8220;move house&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Beware &#8211; these are not actionable plans, they&#8217;re pressure statements, warns Dr Claire Kaye, a former GP and confidence coach.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Resolutions often fail because they are unclear, unrealistic and too broad, she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She advises writing down what&#8217;s working in your life, what&#8217;s draining you or no longer fits, and where are you running on autopilot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;When you understand what you want more of, not just what you want to escape, change becomes far more sustainable,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Write down your goals focusing on &#8220;direction and experience rather than a fixed point&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She suggests &#8220;Lose weight&#8221; can be reframed as: &#8220;I want to feel more energised and comfortable in my body, and understand what helps me feel that way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Instead of &#8220;change career&#8221;, it could be: &#8220;I want to explore what work gives me energy and meaning, and identify one small step towards more of that.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Will 2026 be the year you&#8217;ll &#8220;lose weight&#8221;, &#8220;change career&#8221; or &#8220;move house&#8221;? Beware &#8211; these are not&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":657288,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[748,393,4884,12,1144,712,16,15,1764],"class_list":{"0":"post-657287","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-news","8":"tag-britain","9":"tag-england","10":"tag-great-britain","11":"tag-news","12":"tag-northern-ireland","13":"tag-scotland","14":"tag-uk","15":"tag-united-kingdom","16":"tag-wales"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115790016933551821","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/657287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=657287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/657287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/657288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=657287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=657287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=657287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}