{"id":665677,"date":"2025-12-31T23:41:14","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T23:41:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/665677\/"},"modified":"2025-12-31T23:41:14","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T23:41:14","slug":"overly-protective-son-pulled-knife-on-his-mums-carer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/665677\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Overly-protective son&#8217; pulled knife on his mum&#8217;s carer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The carer fled the house in fear<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/0_MEDIA-WALES-Swansea-Crown-Court-01.jpg\" alt=\"Swansea Crown Court\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>A man spat at and threatened his mother&#8217;s carer (Image: Media Wales)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A man threated his mother&#8217;s carer with a kitchen knife and asked her if she wanted to die, a court has heard. Tristan Phillips pulled the blade on the home care worker as she prepared a coffee for his mum, and told her to get out of the house &#8211; then spat at her when she fled in fear of her life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Regan Walters, prosecuting, told <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/all-about\/swansea-crown-court\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" rel=\"follow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\">Swansea Crown Court<\/a> that on July 25, 2024, a support worker attended the home of a client to tend to her needs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He said that as she entered the property Phillips came running down the stairs waving his arms about &#8220;aggressively&#8221; and shouting &#8220;What the f*** are you doing here?!&#8221; The defendant then left the property. Don\u2019t miss a court report by signing up <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/newsletter-preference-centre\/?view=Solus&amp;mailingListId=e9917f64-b3c4-4bba-bce6-4dce03cdb705&amp;utm_source=solusarticle\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" rel=\"follow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\">to our crime newsletter here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The court heard that the <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/all-about\/neath-port-talbot-council\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" rel=\"follow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\">Neath Port Talbot Council<\/a> carer prepared a meal for her client and shortly afterwards the defendant returned to the Neath Valley house with his grandfather and shouted &#8220;I don&#8217;t want you her! Get the f*** out!&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The prosecutor said while the carer was in the kitchen making a coffee for the client the defendant entered the room and slapped the cup out of her hand before removing a knife from a drawer and raising it above his shoulder while shouting &#8220;Do you want to f***ing die?&#8221;. Phillips then told the carer to get out, and as she left the kitchen the 27-year-old defendant spat at her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The court heard that once outside the property the carer contacted her manager to report what had happened, and the police were then notified.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">When officers arrived they arrested the defendant and seized a knife along with two bags of cannabis from a counter top in the kitchen. In his subsequent interview Phillips said he had asked the carer to leave the property and he denied picking up a knife or making threats, and denied spitting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">In an impact statement which was read to the court by the prosecution barrister, the carer said she could not stop thinking about what happened and had installed a CCTV system at her home in the hope it would help her feel safer and help her sleep but it had not. She said the experience of having a knife pulled on her while going about her job had impacted her work and made her concerned about attending peoples&#8217; homes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Tristan Phillips, of Empire Avenue, Blaengwrach, Neath Valley, had previously pleaded guilty to affray and common assault &#8211; the spitting &#8211; when he returned to the dock for sentencing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Counsel for the defendant said that &#8220;for whatever reason&#8221; the relationship between the defendant and the carer had broken down and a complaint had been made to the council, and he said as a result a different member of staff had been calling at the property. He said on the day in question a shortage of staff meant the original carer had turned up unexpectedly, something which shocked his client. He said Phillips had been a carer to his mother from an early age and was &#8220;overly-protective&#8221; of her, and wished he could &#8220;turn the clock back&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The court heard that following the knife incident the council had withdrawn all home care support. The court also heard that the defendant&#8217;s mother has since passed away.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Judge Huw Rees told Phillips it was clear from everything he had read that he had cared for his mother for many years and had &#8220;put her needs above yours&#8221;. He said on the day in question the defendant&#8217;s &#8220;over protectiveness&#8221; led to &#8220;a very serious overreaction&#8221; which had seen the carer fearing for her life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">With a one-fifth discount for his guilty plea Phillips was sentenced to 14 months in prison suspended for 18 months. He was ordered to complete a rehabilitation course and a mental health treatment requirement, and to do 200 hours of unpaid work in the community.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Judge Rees told Phillips: &#8220;You have escaped going to prison by a hair&#8217;s breadth&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The court heard that in July this year the defendant was given 12-month conditional discharge at <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/all-about\/swansea\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" rel=\"follow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\">Swansea<\/a> Magistrates Court for possession of the cannabis which police found at his house on the day of the incident, prompting the judge to say &#8220;What business did magistrates have doing this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Get daily<strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\"> breaking news<\/strong> updates on your phone by joining <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/chat.whatsapp.com\/FhCH5HyTE7c59DPUcRMUXk\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\">our WhatsApp community here<\/a>. 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