{"id":688553,"date":"2026-01-11T08:49:18","date_gmt":"2026-01-11T08:49:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/688553\/"},"modified":"2026-01-11T08:49:18","modified_gmt":"2026-01-11T08:49:18","slug":"prince-william-never-read-spare-and-remained-silent-about-prince-harrys-painful-memoir-but-future-kings-true-feelings-about-the-book-were-admirably-grown-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/688553\/","title":{"rendered":"Prince William &#8216;never read&#8217; Spare and remained silent about Prince Harry&#8217;s &#8216;painful&#8217; memoir &#8211; but future King&#8217;s true feelings about the book were &#8216;admirably grown-up&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Prince Harry and <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/meghan-markle\/index.html\" id=\"mol-eaf397b0-ed4e-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">Meghan Markle<\/a>&#8216;s decision to step down as senior <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/royals\/index.html\" id=\"mol-eb094290-ed4e-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">royals<\/a>\u00a0was followed by a nearly two-year media blitz about their time in The Firm.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">This culminated in the release of the Duke of Sussex&#8217;s memoir Spare in 2023 that was notable for two reasons; first, it included several damaging claims about Prince Harry&#8217;s family members.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Writing about his older brother, the Prince of Wales, Harry, now 41, recounted how Prince William, 43, had &#8216;knocked him into a dog bowl that cracked and cut his back&#8217; during a physical altercation about Meghan&#8217;s behaviour towards Palace staff.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">What was worse for The Firm was that these intimate revelations were being drip-fed in the press as translators pored over pages of the book&#8217;s leaked Spanish version in a spectacular publishing blunder.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In his book, Charles III, Robert Hardman noted how &#8216;the most carefully and expensively choreographed public relations operation in modern publishing history went careering off the tracks&#8217; three years ago.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">While Spare was due to be released on January 10, a bookseller in <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/spain\/index.html\" id=\"mol-6987e420-ed52-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">Spain<\/a> accidentally put a few copies up for sale ahead of the &#8216;globally enforced publication date&#8217; &#8211; as translated excerpts spread like wildfire around the world.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Outside Buckingham Palace, these stories couldn&#8217;t be printed fast enough as fans hung on every word of what Mr Hardman described as &#8216;the most caustic and candid royal memoir ever written&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Behind the palace&#8217;s closed doors, however, Prince William couldn&#8217;t bring himself to read his brother&#8217;s tell-all, as Mr Hardman revealed: &#8216;His staff remain adamant that he and the Princess [of Wales] refused to open a book which has caused so much pain.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d0d9ed44476ee528\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105373847-15169257-The_release_of_the_Duke_of_Sussex_s_memoir_Spare_in_2023_that_wa-a-58_17679735181.jpeg\" height=\"478\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The release of the Duke of Sussex's memoir Spare in 2023 that was notable for two reasons; first, it included several damaging claims about Prince Harry's family members.\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The release of the Duke of Sussex&#8217;s memoir Spare in 2023 that was notable for two reasons; first, it included several damaging claims about Prince Harry&#8217;s family members.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-355f85aa1fe4e6e5\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105373939-15169257-It_included_several_damaging_claims_about_Prince_Harry_s_family_-a-59_17679735181.jpeg\" height=\"965\" width=\"634\" alt=\"It included several damaging claims about Prince Harry's family members, including his brother Prince William (pictured), that were being drip-fed after the Spare was leaked in Spain\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">It included several damaging claims about Prince Harry&#8217;s family members, including his brother Prince William (pictured), that were being drip-fed after the Spare was leaked in Spain\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Prince Harry&#8217;s ghostwritten memoir became the fastest-selling non-fiction book ever in Britain after it went on sale on January 10, 2023.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">More than three million copies of Spare were sold around the world in its first week alone, 1.4 million in the first 24 hours.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The book was said to have been the result of a $20 million deal with Penguin Random House and its widespread commercial success gave Prince Harry a new voice.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Hardman wrote: &#8216;None could be unmoved by\u00a0his account of his mother\u2019s [the late Princess Diana&#8217;s death and his part in her funeral procession.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Duke also shared a number of personal anecdotes, including losing his virginity to an &#8216;older woman&#8217; in a field outside a &#8216;very busy pub&#8217; when Harry was 17.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He wrote extensively about his experiences with drugs, including &#8216;smoking a spliff&#8217; during his time at Eton as well as taking ketamine, cocaine,\u00a0and magic mushrooms.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry credited the use of psychedelic drugs with helping him deal with the &#8216;grief&#8217; and &#8216;trauma&#8217; he felt after the death of his mother, Princess Diana.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He said they &#8216;cleared away the idea&#8217; that he needed be sad to prove he &#8216;missed&#8217; his mother as he got older.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">However, the book also took aim at many senior royals &#8211; including Harry&#8217;s older brother and Britain&#8217;s future King, William.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-c156d58e9b23c732\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105373827-15169257-The_book_was_said_to_have_been_the_result_of_a_20_million_deal_w-a-60_17679735181.jpeg\" height=\"924\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The book was said to have been the result of a $20 million deal with Penguin Random House and its widespread commercial success gave Prince Harry a new voice, as Robert Hardman noted 'none could be unmoved' by the Duke's emotional account of his mother Diana's funeral in 1997. Pictured: William, looking at the camera, and Harry, with his head bowed, at the funeral service in London on September 6, 1997\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The book was said to have been the result of a $20 million deal with Penguin Random House and its widespread commercial success gave Prince Harry a new voice, as Robert Hardman noted &#8216;none could be unmoved&#8217; by the Duke&#8217;s emotional account of his mother Diana&#8217;s funeral in 1997. Pictured: William, looking at the camera, and Harry, with his head bowed, at the funeral service in London on September 6, 1997<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Duke described an alleged physical altercation between William and Harry, when they began arguing abut the latter&#8217;s wife Meghan on the eve of &#8216;Megxit&#8217; in 2019.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">William is said to have branded Meghan &#8216;difficult&#8217;, &#8216;rude&#8217; and &#8216;abrasive&#8217; and insisted he was trying to help his younger brother during a meeting about &#8216;the whole rolling catastrophe&#8217; of their failing relationship and Harry&#8217;s rows with the Press.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Harry accused his brother of &#8216;parroting the Press narrative&#8217; about his American wife before a screaming match escalated into a physical fight.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He said he gave William a glass of water and said: &#8216;Willy, I can&#8217;t speak to you when you&#8217;re like this&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Insisting he was &#8216;scared&#8217; of his brother, Harry continued: &#8216;He set down the water, called me another name, then came at me. It all happened so fast. So very fast.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;He grabbed me by the collar, ripping my necklace, and he knocked me to the floor. I landed on the dog&#8217;s bowl, which cracked under my back, the pieces cutting into me. I lay there for a moment, dazed, then got to my feet and told him to get out&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Elsewhere, he appeared to place part of the blame for his Nazi costume fiasco in 2005 on his brother and his now-wife Kate, as he claimed they thought it was funny.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">William was said to be &#8216;mortified by Harry&#8217;s casual betrayal of so many fraternal secrets&#8217;, Mr Hardman quoted the prince&#8217;s friends.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Publicly, however, the heir to the throne didn&#8217;t address any of Prince Harry&#8217;s claims in line with the royal family&#8217;s approach of &#8216;never complain, never explain&#8217; &#8211; despite growing calls for comment.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-b516e513f2ef889f\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105373835-15169257-The_Duke_also_shared_a_number_of_personal_anecdotes_including_lo-a-61_17679735181.jpeg\" height=\"359\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The Duke also shared a number of personal anecdotes, including losing his virginity to an 'older woman' in a field outside a 'very busy pub' when Harry was 17\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The Duke also shared a number of personal anecdotes, including losing his virginity to an &#8216;older woman&#8217; in a field outside a &#8216;very busy pub&#8217; when Harry was 17<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-6d87b02c53b76c32\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105373817-15169257-However_the_book_also_took_aim_at_many_senior_royals_including_H-a-62_17679735181.jpeg\" height=\"953\" width=\"634\" alt=\"However, the book also took aim at many senior royals - including Harry's older brother and Britain's future King, William - as Harry described a physical altercation between them over wife Meghan Markle's behaviour\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">However, the book also took aim at many senior royals &#8211; including Harry&#8217;s older brother and Britain&#8217;s future King, William &#8211; as Harry described a physical altercation between them over wife Meghan Markle&#8217;s behaviour\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">\u00a0A senior adviser told Mr Hardman that William was briefed about the book&#8217;s &#8216;key points&#8217; but adamantly refused to read Spare after all the hurt it caused his family &#8211; including father King Charles and Queen Camilla, who Harry compared to a &#8216;wicked stepmother&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">William was being &#8216;admirably grown-up&#8217; as he resisted pressure from the &#8216;commentariat&#8230;to respond to some of the more incendiary charges&#8217; including claims about Kate, the author said\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It appeared he was also guided by a desire to uphold the royal family&#8217;s values of privacy and stoicism &#8211; especially as future King &#8211; with one member of Prince William&#8217;s team telling Mr Hardman: \u2018My boss would say: \u201cWhatever the rights and wrongs, I hope that people feel I behaved properly in keeping my counsel.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;You can imagine what he feels about this, especially regarding what has been said about his wife. But he is being admirably grown-up.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">While Mr Hardman claimed the future King was briefed about the book, Sussex biographer\u00a0<a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/omid-scobie\/index.html\" id=\"mol-24edae30-ed48-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">Omid Scobie<\/a> said William had &#8216;read passages&#8217; of Spare following its release.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In his book Endgame, Mr Scobie recounts meeting one of the royal&#8217;s former aides and asking them whether William and Kate have made note of the &#8216;difficulties of being the spare to the heir&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The source allegedly said: &#8216;[<a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/prince_william\/index.html\" id=\"mol-1048fe20-ed49-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince William<\/a>] has read passages but not the full thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Harry&#8217;s experience is very different to [that of William&#8217;s] own children.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Scobie &#8211; known for his sympathetic coverage of Harry and Meghan &#8211; also alleged that William had rebuffed his younger brother&#8217;s attempts to set up a meeting shortly after Spare was published.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He claimed <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/prince_harry\/index.html\" id=\"mol-104888f0-ed49-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Harry<\/a> tried to reach out to William on two separate occasions while visiting <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/london\/index.html\" id=\"mol-106e1250-ed49-11f0-9df4-a7fb7992f5ae\" rel=\"noopener\">London<\/a> &#8211; but to no avail.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;In February and March, the Prince turned to a mutual friend in London to try to set up a conversation with his brother, but the attempts were ignored,&#8217; Mr Scobie wrote.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Harry, said a source, chose to &#8220;keep focused on the future, not the past.&#8221;&#8216;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Prince Harry and Meghan Markle&#8216;s decision to step down as senior royals\u00a0was followed by a nearly two-year media&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":688554,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[92,447,532,5105,7710,519,448,104],"class_list":{"0":"post-688553","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-dailymail","9":"tag-prince-harry","10":"tag-prince-william","11":"tag-royal","12":"tag-royal-families","13":"tag-royal-family","14":"tag-royals","15":"tag-spain"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/115875608435061521","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/688553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=688553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/688553\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/688554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=688553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=688553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=688553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}