{"id":78972,"date":"2025-05-06T11:08:13","date_gmt":"2025-05-06T11:08:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/78972\/"},"modified":"2025-05-06T11:08:13","modified_gmt":"2025-05-06T11:08:13","slug":"ive-finished-a-hard-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/78972\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019ve finished a hard thing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/26cb59d5-b947-4239-8fb7-e8f8ed74ff09.png\" class=\"ui-draggable ui-draggable-handle\" style=\"max-width: 100%; width: 100%;\"\/>Michelle Obama during an interview. [PHOTO: HANDOUT]<\/p>\n<p>Former United States First Lady&#13;<br \/>\nMichelle Obama says she&#8217;s in therapy, and it&#8217;s helping her transition to what&#13;<br \/>\nshe thinks is going to be the next phase of her life.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nAccording to a short video clip&#13;<br \/>\nposted by the Daily Mail US, Michelle said she started the therapy journey&#13;<br \/>\nafter going through a \u2018hard thing\u2019 in her life.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n\u201cAt this phase of my life, I&#8217;m in&#13;<br \/>\ntherapy right now because I&#8217;m transitioning, you know? I&#8217;m 60 years old,\u201d she&#13;<br \/>\nsaid.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n\u201cI&#8217;ve finished a really hard thing&#13;<br \/>\nin my life with my family intact, I&#8217;m an empty nester, my girls are in\u2014you&#13;<br \/>\nknow, they&#8217;ve been launched.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nMichelle said she&#8217;s got &#8216;other&#13;<br \/>\nvoices&#8217; to talk to and a &#8216;new person that&#8217;s getting to know me&#8217; as she works&#13;<br \/>\nthrough things.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;I now don&#8217;t have the excuse&#13;<br \/>\nof, &#8216;well, my kids need this,&#8217; or &#8216;my husband needs that,&#8217; or &#8216;The country&#13;<br \/>\nneeds that.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n\u201cSo, I&#8217;m getting that tune-up for&#13;<br \/>\nthis next phase because I believe this is a whole new phase in life for me. And&#13;<br \/>\nI now have the wisdom to know\u2014let me go get some coaching while I&#8217;m doing it,\u201d&#13;<br \/>\nshe said.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nShe told Daily Mail that&#13;<br \/>\ntherapy is a &#8216;tune-up for this next phase&#8217; in an attempt to &#8216;unwind some old&#13;<br \/>\nhabits and sort through some old guilt.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nMichelle encouraged anyone who needs&#13;<br \/>\nmental health services to try and get access to a therapist.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n\u201cI am an advocate of it. Everybody&#13;<br \/>\nneeds to find their form of it, the best way they can,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nThe Obamas have been married for 32&#13;<br \/>\nyears but have faced ongoing rumors about their marriage status over the last&#13;<br \/>\nfew months.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nMichelle has been open about her&#13;<br \/>\nmarriage struggles throughout the years, particularly on her new podcast, IMO&#13;<br \/>\n(In My Opinion), which she hosts with her brother, Robinson.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nEarlier in the year, Michelle spoke&#13;<br \/>\nout against rumours that her marriage to Barack Obama might be in trouble.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nThe former First Lady did not&#13;<br \/>\naccompany her husband to several high-profile events\u2014including Donald Trump&#8217;s&#13;<br \/>\ninauguration and the funeral of former President Jimmy Carter\u2014fueling&#13;<br \/>\nspeculation that they might be separating.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nWithout explicitly mentioning these&#13;<br \/>\noccasions, Michelle told the Work in Progress podcast hosted by actress&#13;<br \/>\nSophia Bush that she was now in a position to control her own calendar as a&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;grown woman.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nShe said that people were not able&#13;<br \/>\nto believe that she was &#8220;making a decision&#8221; for herself and instead&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;had to assume that my husband and I are divorcing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\nMichelle shared that she felt some&#13;<br \/>\nguilt for stepping back from certain duties.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;That&#8217;s the thing that we, as&#13;<br \/>\nwomen, I think we struggle with\u2014like disappointing people,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;I mean, so much so that this&#13;<br \/>\nyear people couldn&#8217;t even fathom that I was making a choice for myself, that&#13;<br \/>\nthey had to assume that my husband and I are divorcing.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;This couldn&#8217;t be a grown woman&#13;<br \/>\njust making a set of decisions for herself, right? But that&#8217;s what society does&#13;<br \/>\nto us.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Michelle Obama during an interview. 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