{"id":857513,"date":"2026-03-29T04:49:10","date_gmt":"2026-03-29T04:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/857513\/"},"modified":"2026-03-29T04:49:10","modified_gmt":"2026-03-29T04:49:10","slug":"one-month-until-im-on-the-london-marathon-start-line-im-doing-this-for-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/857513\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;One month until I&#8217;m on the London Marathon start line &#8211; I&#8217;m doing this for him&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The countdown has officially begun.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One month to go until I stand on that start line in Greenwich, surrounded by thousands of runners, all of us carrying our own reasons for being there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And suddenly, it feels very real.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For months, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.london-now.co.uk\/news\/25921634.my-london-marathon-billy-died-suicide---story-not-over\/?ref=ed_direct\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:London Marathon;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;London Marathon&quot;}\" class=\"link \">London Marathon<\/a> has been something in the distance, a date circled in the calendar, a goal I have been slowly working towards in early mornings, cold evenings, and miles that felt never-ending.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But now, with just four weeks to go, it is no longer something for the future.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is almost here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Training has taken over my routine in a way I did not quite expect.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Weekends are no longer for lie-ins or last-minute plans.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">They are for long runs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The kind where you set off not entirely sure how your legs will hold up, but you keep going anyway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There have been good runs, where everything clicks and you feel like you could go on forever.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And then there have been the tough ones, with heavy legs, aching feet, and that constant internal battle to not just stop and walk home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But every mile has been building towards this.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Sun out, trainers on, getting the miles in for marathon day (Image: NQ staff)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">What has surprised me most is how much of the marathon is mental.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Yes, the physical training matters, the miles, the pacing, the consistency, but it is the mindset that really carries you through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is learning how to keep going when you are tired, how to push through doubt, and how to remind yourself why you started in the first place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Because everyone has a reason.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And this is mine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In November 2024, my world changed forever when I lost my brother, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.london-now.co.uk\/news\/25921634.my-london-marathon-billy-died-suicide---story-not-over\/?ref=ed_direct\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Billy, to suicide.;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Billy, to suicide.&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Billy, to suicide.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He was just 39 years old.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Billy was not only my brother, he was a dad, a friend, and a huge part of our lives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He left behind his little boy, who was only four at the time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Watching him grow, seeing him smile, and noticing how much more he looks like his dad every single day is both beautiful and heartbreaking.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Losing someone to suicide is like having the ground pulled out from under you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Training helps me heal while raising support for others grieving (Image: NQ staff)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is grief mixed with questions, guilt, shock, and pain that words can never fully describe.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Navigating that kind of loss is incredibly lonely, which is why charities like Suicide and Co mean so much to me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Suicide and Co is a national charity that provides vital support for people who, like me, are living with the devastating impact of suicide loss.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">They offer up to 12 sessions of one-to-one bereavement counselling, giving people the space and permission to grieve, and helping them to slowly build a life around their loss.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Every \u00a330 raised can provide one counselling session for someone who desperately needs it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">By running the London Marathon 2026, I want to honour Billy\u2019s memory, support his little boy, and help other families who are walking this same painful path.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">No one should have to feel alone in their grief.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">You can donate here: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.justgiving.com\/page\/holly-brencher-2?utm_medium=FR&amp;utm_source=CL\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:https:\/\/www.justgiving.com\/page\/holly-brencher-2?utm_medium=FR&amp;utm_source=CL;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;https&quot;}\" class=\"link \">https:\/\/www.justgiving.com\/page\/holly-brencher-2?utm_medium=FR&amp;utm_source=CL<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As the countdown ticks down, there is a mix of excitement and nerves that is hard to ignore.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Half marathon distance done, feeling proud and slightly exhausted (Image: NQ staff)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I find myself thinking about the route more and more, Tower Bridge, Canary Wharf, the crowds lining the streets, the final stretch along The Mall.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Iconic moments I have seen on television, now something I will actually be part of.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But alongside that excitement is the doubt.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Have I trained enough?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Will I hit a wall?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">What happens if something goes wrong on the day?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is impossible not to have those thoughts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But I am learning to sit with them rather than let them take over.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Because the reality is getting to this point is already an achievement in itself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The early starts, the sore muscles, the commitment, it all counts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And there is still a month to go.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Four more weeks to fine-tune training, to get those final long runs in, to focus on recovery, and to prepare mentally as much as physically.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is not about cramming in more miles now.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is about trusting the work that has already been done.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There is a strange feeling in this final stretch, like you should be doing more, even when you know the plan is to start easing back.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Tapering feels counterintuitive after months of pushing yourself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But it is all part of the process.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In a month\u2019s time, I will be standing at the start line, probably feeling a mix of nerves, adrenaline, and disbelief that it is actually happening.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And then, just like that, it will begin.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">All those miles, all that effort, leading to 26.2.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Right now, though, it is about taking it one day at a time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One run at a time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One step closer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Because the London Marathon is not just about the finish line.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is about everything that gets you there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And this one is for Billy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The countdown has officially begun. 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