{"id":954600,"date":"2026-05-12T10:31:34","date_gmt":"2026-05-12T10:31:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/954600\/"},"modified":"2026-05-12T10:31:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-12T10:31:34","slug":"i-pulled-my-13-year-old-out-of-school-after-she-lost-her-spark-now-i-use-ai-to-teach-her-instead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/954600\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I pulled my 13-year-old out of school after she lost her spark &#8211; now I use AI to teach her instead&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fed up of her daughter coming home uninspired and flat &#8211; this mum decided she was going to teach her daughter with the help of an AI bot, in a bid to turn her into a successful business owner<\/p>\n<p>15:11, 11 May 2026Updated 15:12, 11 May 2026<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kate decided to take her daughter Niyah out of school after she was losing her creativity\" loading=\"eager\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1_Image.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Kate decided to take her daughter Niyah out of school over fears that was losing her creativity\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Kate decided to take her daughter Niyah out of school over fears that was losing her creativity(Image: Kate Bell)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A tech-savvy mum has ditched the classroom and replaced her daughter\u2019s teachers with a bespoke AI bot she built herself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Software developer Kate Bell took the step after finding that the traditional <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/education\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">education<\/a> system was causing the &#8220;light to fade&#8221; in her creative 13-year-old daughter, Niyah.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Niyah has now ditched the national curriculum and is being mentored by an AI platform, which aims to turn her into a successful business owner before she even turns 18.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Kate, a business owner from Hampshire says she can programme it to teach her daughter more life skills than what she would have learnt at primary or secondary <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/schools\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">school<\/a>. Now, she hopes her daughter follows in her footsteps and becomes a business owner before she&#8217;s reached adulthood.<\/p>\n<p>READ MORE: <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" data-tmdatatrack=\"read-more\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"37124578\" data-tmdatatrack-source=\"editorial\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/politics\/hunger-doesnt-stop-11-call-37124578\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#8216;Hunger doesn&#8217;t stop at 11!&#8217; Call for free breakfast for teenagers as UK feels the pinch<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kate and Niyah spend their days working alongside eachother\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1778581893_204_0_Image.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Kate and Niyah spend their days working alongside each other\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Kate and Niyah spend their days working alongside each other(Image: Kate Bell)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Niyah has quite a creative mind and I could always see her going into some sort of entrepreneurship and these aren&#8217;t the type of skills taught in schools or even encouraged,&#8221; Kate told Daily <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"\">Mirror<\/a>. &#8220;Over the last six months I really started to notice the light in her fade, she&#8217;s always been interested in learning but she was coming home quite flat. She was becoming timid, her confidence and creativity was going.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Believing that the school was too rigid, the Hampshire entrepreneur decided to pull Niyah out of the system. She is part of a growing trend; a staggering 175,900 children in England were home-educated last year &#8211; a 15 per cent jump. Key reasons for this were found to be mental health concerns, school dissatisfaction as well as philosophical or lifestyle preferences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Rather than following standard subjects, Kate designed a curriculum &#8220;backwards&#8221; based on the person she wants Niyah to be as an adult. The AI platform sets four daily tasks and a long-term project tailored to Niyah&#8217;s interests.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;We had to decide what skills we wanted her to have, who we want her to be as a human being and then the curriculum has been designed almost backwards from that so she can work towards those goals. It&#8217;s an AI platform that adapts to her needs and meets her where she is every day &#8211; and it&#8217;s constantly learning and evolving.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Things such as AI, understanding <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/tech\/\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"\">technology<\/a> and being able to use it is inevitable, and I want her to be able to use it properly,&#8221; Kate explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Where a lot of parents take their children out and still teach them the national curriculum, I am the opposite. It&#8217;s not the school I have a problem with, it&#8217;s what&#8217;s being taught. I want her to be able to use AI, to solve problems, to be able to have critical thinking skills, as well as English, science, and reading.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Niyah has to complete tasks as part of her learning which includes designing meals for the family &#8211; something Kate feels is important for her daughter to learn. &#8220;This involves a lot of nutrition understanding and how food fuels the body as well as cooking it. She has been given a budget to work out what food to buy &#8211; so there&#8217;s a lot to do with maths as well there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The platform sets Niyah four daily tasks each day and then a project that runs over two months &#8211; currently her project is understanding and identifying problems within a business. &#8220;It sounds like a thing of the future, and it&#8217;s finding ways to challenge her with things she&#8217;s genuinely interested in.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">In schools across the country, the UK government is currently investing in AI tools designed to act as tutors that adapt to student&#8217;s strengths and weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"She believes she's teaching her daughter better life skills than what she would have got at school\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1778581894_298_1_Image.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"She believes she's teaching her daughter better life skills than what she would have got at school\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">She believes she&#8217;s teaching her daughter better life skills than what she would have got at school(Image: Kate Bell)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">But the idea of artificial intelligence taking over education can be worrying, and controversial for some parents. Retired headteacher Chris McGovern, and former advisor to the Government says AI has a role to play in the classroom, but has reservations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He spoke out in 2024 after David Game College, a private school in London, introduced the UK&#8217;s first &#8220;teacherless&#8221; GCSE class, where students learnt using a mixture of artificial intelligence platforms and virtual reality headsets.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Speaking to Sky News, he said: &#8220;I understand why [schools] may push AI. For one thing, it&#8217;s cheaper.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;The problem with AI and the computer screen is that it is a machine and it&#8217;s inert, so you&#8217;re straight away dehumanising the process of learning, taking away those interpersonal skills and the interaction between pupils and teacher. It&#8217;s a soulless, bleak future if it&#8217;s going to be along the AI path only.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Despite the criticism of AI in classrooms generally, Kate says Niyah is &#8220;lighting up&#8221; again and is more confident than ever, adding: &#8220;She&#8217;ll get into a project and she will still be doing it late into the evening because she&#8217;s really enjoying something. I&#8217;m seeing her become more confident, she&#8217;s talking to people and interacting with adults.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s also picking up books again, which she hasn&#8217;t done in a really long time. I think school had just degraded her opinion towards learning.&#8221; As for socialising, Kate said it&#8217;s still important for Niyah to see her friends a few times a week, but also encourages her to speak to people of all different ages too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Under UK law, parents do not need formal qualifications to homeschool, and councils can only make &#8220;informal enquiries&#8221; into the child&#8217;s progress.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A typical day for Niyah sees the teen wake up between 7-8am, go for a beach walk with her mum and their dog, before returning home to carry out her work, alongside day trips outside the house.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Currently, when Niyah turns 18, she won&#8217;t have a folder of certificates. Instead, her AI platform will produce a personality assessment and a portfolio of six years of practical work to show future employers &#8211; if she isn&#8217;t already running her own firm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">If she does require qualifications, Kate says her daughter will have been taught enough to be able to take those exams.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She said: &#8220;The platform we&#8217;ve built will package everything up she has learnt on her 18th birthday and will outline everything she&#8217;s had in terms of her education and the work she has done. It is designed to do a very in-depth assessment of her and her personality that she can then take to an employer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Right now I hope that by the time she is 18 she&#8217;s actually already running a very successful business that she started when she was 13, or she will have a portfolio of six years worth of work and a complete personality assessment.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">According to researcher and data scientist Dr <a aria-label=\"Imed BouchrikaLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/research.com\/author\/imed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">Imed Bouchrika<\/a>, the most common concern of people unfamiliar with home educating is socialisation. &#8220;Homeschooling is generally short in providing peer-to-peer interactions to children. It lacks in providing heterogeneous associations, promotes dependence on parents, and automatically delays a child&#8217;s personality.&#8221; He also stressed it can limit &#8220;the diversity of beliefs and backgrounds that children may encounter in most public school settings.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Kate acknowleged the idea of taking Niyah out of school was a controversial one, and had to try and explain her reasoning to friends and family who were unsure about the idea. Being told Niyah needs GCSE&#8217;s, exam results and an education to be able to further herself in life, Kate said when she explained the platform, the sceptics were more open to the idea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;We&#8217;re two months into our homeschooling journey and Niyah loves it. If something happens and it doesn&#8217;t work out, I can always just enrol her again in September, but for now it&#8217;s going great,&#8221; Kate gushed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Fed up of her daughter coming home uninspired and flat &#8211; this mum decided she was going to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":954601,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[3163],"tags":[323,1942,2266,857,30480,53,16,15],"class_list":["post-954600","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-artificial-intelligence","tag-ai","tag-artificial-intelligence","tag-education","tag-schools","tag-secondary-school","tag-technology","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/116561149450199027","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954600","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=954600"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954600\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/954601"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=954600"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=954600"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=954600"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}