{"id":956498,"date":"2026-05-13T06:50:22","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T06:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/956498\/"},"modified":"2026-05-13T06:50:22","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T06:50:22","slug":"bristol-mum-says-were-both-not-perfect-as-she-keeps-parking-over-neighbours-driveway","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/956498\/","title":{"rendered":"Bristol mum says &#8216;we&#8217;re both not perfect&#8217; as she keeps parking over neighbour&#8217;s driveway"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Astrid Cooper says she won&#8217;t stop parking outside her neighbour&#8217;s driveway despite repeated complaints and notes left on her windscreen<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Astrid Cooper\" loading=\"eager\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_Astrid-Cooper.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Astrid Cooper said her neighbour turned her front garden into a driveway a year ago\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Astrid Cooper said her neighbour turned her front garden into a driveway a year ago(Image: Kennedy)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A mother has ignited a heated neighbourhood row after insisting she will carry on parking partially across her neighbour&#8217;s driveway \u2014 despite repeated objections and a series of furious notes left on her vehicle.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Astrid Cooper, 34, says the friction started after her neighbour transformed a front garden into a driveway approximately a year ago. Since then, Astrid claims that anyone parking outside the property is confronted with handwritten messages demanding they relocate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The mother-of-two, from Bristol, posted footage online displaying notes attached to her car, including ones stating &#8220;stop&#8221;, &#8220;stop parking here&#8221; and &#8220;can you park your car down slightly and not across my drive&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">While Astrid acknowledges she is partially parked on the pavement, she maintains she is not genuinely obstructing access to the driveway and says the complaints have become excessive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She also asserts the driveway does not have an official dropped kerb, which <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bristolpost.co.uk\/all-about\/bristol-city-council\" rel=\"follow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"\">Bristol City Council<\/a> states is necessary for lawful vehicle access.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Astrid said the matter has split local residents, with some supporting her neighbour while others believe the notes are unwarranted.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Astrid Cooper\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1778655019_24_0_Astrid-Cooper.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Astrid Cooper\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Astrid Cooper(Image: Kennedy)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s been doing this ever since she turned her front garden into a driveway,&#8221; Astrid said, reports the Express.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;I was actually chatting to neighbours about it, she leaves notes on everyone&#8217;s cars. Anyone that parks in that space gets a note on their car.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The row comes as councils across England are set to be granted enhanced powers to tackle pavement parking following the English Devolution and Community Empowerment Bill receiving royal assent last month.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Astrid acknowledged she understands why some people oppose parking on pavements, but believes the matter is being exaggerated.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;I totally get that by law you&#8217;re not supposed to park on the pavement but I would love to meet a single person who&#8217;s never parked on a pavement in their life,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Everyone was kicking off because we already have limited parking as it is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She said she contacted Bristol City Council in October 2025 to raise concerns about the driveway allegedly lacking the required dropped kerb, but claims she never received a response.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Car parking\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_Car-parking.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"The neighbour leaves angry notes on cars that park in front of it\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">The neighbour leaves angry notes on cars that park in front of it(Image: Kennedy)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">According to council guidance, homeowners must install a dropped kerb and vehicle crossover before driving across the pavement onto a private driveway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Astrid maintained that while neither party is &#8220;perfect&#8221;, she feels the neighbour&#8217;s reaction is excessive because access to the driveway remains available.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;We&#8217;re both not perfect, it&#8217;s not necessary to put Post-it notes on cars when she can still get on and off the driveway,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;A lot of people have seen it from my perspective. She hasn&#8217;t dropped the kerb, she&#8217;s not abiding by the rules.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The dispute has also escalated into face-to-face confrontations. Astrid said tensions rose during one encounter while she was attempting to get her children into the car.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;On one occasion I was getting my kids sorted and I said &#8216;I&#8217;m a bit stressed, this is not the time,'&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Another time she asked me to move it forward and I just said yes. It got a bit heated and I said &#8216;I have every right to park here, I&#8217;m just trying to deal with my kids at the moment.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Note left on the car window\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_Note-left-on-the-car-window.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Note left on the car window\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Note left on the car window(Image: Kennedy)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Astrid believes the ongoing dispute is undermining the atmosphere in what she otherwise describes as a warm and close-knit community.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;From my side, I have very young children. If I can&#8217;t park in that place, I have to park much further away and it makes it really difficult to go in and out of the house with a toddler and a five-year-old,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;It&#8217;s just disappointing more than anything because we do have a lovely, tight-knit community.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Her video has since been viewed more than 65,000 times online, with commenters sharply divided over who was at fault.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Some accused Astrid of inconsiderate parking, with one person writing: &#8220;It&#8217;s illegal to park on the footway.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Another added: &#8220;You&#8217;re in the wrong!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Others rallied to her defence, however, with one commenter insisting: &#8220;You are NOT wrong. You are legally parked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Bristol City Council confirmed that dropped kerbs are required when converting a garden into a driveway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The neighbour involved has been approached for comment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Astrid Cooper says she won&#8217;t stop parking outside her neighbour&#8217;s driveway despite repeated complaints and notes left on&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":956499,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8818],"tags":[381,3893,748,393,4884,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-956498","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bristol","8":"tag-bristol","9":"tag-bristol-city-council","10":"tag-britain","11":"tag-england","12":"tag-great-britain","13":"tag-uk","14":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/116565943894888491","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/956498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=956498"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/956498\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/956499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=956498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=956498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=956498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}