Kaydette Grant (pictured above)
Artist, East Village 

Are you playing with friends today?
You don’t come here for friendships, not in this arena. This is competitive bridge. I would say about 70 percent of the people out there are playing with people who are like pros. If you want a friend, go to church. You ain’t going to find no friends here!

You mentioned that you made your headpiece and skirt.
Yes, I’m an artist, and I was a vendor on the streets of New York for 40 years. I made pocketbooks, floral crowns, and a line of children’s clothes. I make stuff. I’m like a Suzy Homemaker. And a perfect wife.

Mike Lipkin

Professional bridge player, Brooklyn Heights

I’ve heard that bridge is often compared to chess. Why do you think that is?

I wouldn’t compare it to chess at all. Bridge is the only game in which AI is not better than humans — as of now. Chess is an individual game that requires an enormous memory. Bridge is a partnership game, so it’s more like doubles tennis than chess. 

Dora Kooby

Retiree, Upper East Side

Richard Kassar

Retiree, Upper East Side

Dan Rothstein

Retiree, Upper East Side

Marjorie Lesch

Attorney, Upper East Side 

Is the setting here competitive?

Only if you’re competitive. I always say it’s a game, not a religion. But I am competitive. We all are because we’re all accomplished people.

Barbara Bernard

Retiree, Upper West Side

Jeff Bayone

Bridge-club manager, Astoria

How did you start playing?

The best chess player on the team in college started playing bridge, and when I asked him, “What are you doing playing bridge?” he said, “Well, it’s every bit as complex and intricate and beautifully designed as chess. And there’s girls.”

Yasmine Guenancia

Real-estate broker, Hell’s Kitchen

Barbara Kimmel

Retired teacher, Upper West Side

Lynne Halliday

Playwright and producer, Upper West Side

Melanie Tucker

Retiree, Upper East Side

Barrie Tankel

Retiree, Riverdale

What’s the most memorable game you’ve played?

About six or seven years ago, I played a game here with a new partner who I was told was fairly average. There were about a hundred tables. Not only did we win our section but we got the highest score in the room. That, for me, was amazing.

Joan Kestenbaum

Retired teacher, Gramercy Park

Serge Budzyn

Retiree, Pleasantville

Are people playing for money?

We’re not competing for money today. Maybe in Las Vegas they do, but it’s not legal in New York — well, I don’t know the legality. I have to get back to my game.

Richard Weissman

Retiree, Gramercy Park

Mindy Fine Fleder

Certified public accountant, Upper East Side

Alan Davidson

Software engineer, Harlem

Shlomit Rind

Bridge teacher, Midtown East 

Any rivalries here at the club?

Rivalry? Well, this is a very competitive game; this is life and death. People get divorced over this. In bridge, you have a partner, somebody to blame for your mistakes.

Photographs by Frankie Alduino

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