The reality star first announced that he’d broken up with her on March, 6, putting a lot of the blame on his estranged wife, Lindsay Shiver — who is also\u00a0accused of plotting his murder<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n Five months later, it would appear that they’ve gone their separate ways, though she really doesn’t know who to blame this time. That’s because, according to Chrisley, this time around, he just “ghosted” her.<\/p>\n “Once mom and dad got out, my ex and I thought, \u2018Maybe, let\u2019s give this another go,” Chrisley explained on her podcast, referring to the releases of Todd<\/strong><\/a> and Julie Chrisley<\/strong><\/a> from prison on May 28, 2025 after an unexpected Trump pardon.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Julie and Todd Chrisley Admit Real Life is ‘Rougher Than Prison Life’ After Trump Pardon<\/p>\n View Story\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n The Chrisley Knows Best alum said that she and Shiver “hung out some, we went on a trip and had the absolute best time, because we truly were best friends.”<\/p>\n “Both of our lives were settling down and we were gonna end up together,” she imagined. But then it didn’t go that way at all. They also kept things “super quiet” this time around, but it didn’t seem to matter.<\/p>\n Out of nowhere after a few weeks, she said that she suddenly “got ghosted.” Reps for Shiver did not immediately respond to E! News’<\/strong><\/a> request for comment about it.<\/p>\n The reality star admitted that it left her kind of lost and confused, before she decided to regain control of the situation. “I don\u2019t think that\u2019s actually ever happened to me before, so I really didn\u2019t know how to act,” she explained. “After 24 hours of not hearing from him, I was like, \u2018Chrisley, you deserve better behavior than this.\u2019 So, I blocked him.”<\/p>\n Chrisley admitted that despite taking control in the moment, she was still sad about what had happened. “I think I was sad because I had gotten my hopes up that this was going to be my second chance,” she admitted. “He had come and spent time with my family, my parents, and then a week later I get ghosted. So, I don\u2019t know.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Savannah Chrisley Reveals She Underwent Liposuction … and Why She Did It!<\/p>\n View Story\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n What she realized, though, was that she deserved someone who could “appreciate me and how I show up” after back-to-back endings with Shiver. “I\u2019ve lived a lot of my life not respecting myself and allowing certain behaviors, or I exhibited certain behaviors because I didn\u2019t respect myself enough,” Chrisley explained. “, for me, this is kind of part of this new era, part of this new life is finding my self-respect, respecting myself enough to walk away.”<\/p>\n She added that while she still thinks of him as a “phenomenal human being,” she is still standing her ground when it comes to her decision to decisively close that door of communication.<\/p>\n “Basically, I am dead to him, and he just needs to have my funeral,” she said. “It sucks. It is what it is.”<\/p>\n Chrisley had previously mourned her relationship with Shiver after their first breakup on March 6. She also opened up about that on her podcast in April<\/strong><\/a>, which she titled, “I Was Dumped.”<\/p>\n In it, she also talked about how she thought that relationship was going to be the one she’d spend the rest of her life in. She then went on to talk about his ex-wife, who she says “caused a lot of destruction and she absolutely destroyed a great man, when it comes to his heart and his life, just all of it.”<\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/da4c2b04a58445cfb14c97f41e5facbd_xs.jpg\")
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