{"id":184079,"date":"2025-08-29T07:10:13","date_gmt":"2025-08-29T07:10:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/184079\/"},"modified":"2025-08-29T07:10:13","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T07:10:13","slug":"tips-from-counselors-how-to-talk-to-kids-about-mass-shootings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/184079\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips from counselors: How to talk to kids about mass shootings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao MvWXB TjIXL aGjvy ebVHC \">PHILADELPHIA (WPVI) &#8212; The headlines, stories and heartbreak in the aftermath of the <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/6abc.com\/post\/shooting-reported-catholic-school-minneapolis-governor-says\/17662514\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">mass shooting in Minneapolis <\/a>are reverberating across the nation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Millions of children went to school on Thursday as usual. Parents had to let them go.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">What do you say to your kids about such a violent act?<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \"><strong class=\"vtkaO \">RELATED | <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/6abc.com\/post\/annunciation-catholic-school-shooting-victims-father-children-killed-minneapolis-speaks\/17676550\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Parents of children killed in Minneapolis school shooting speak out<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Licensed professional counselor Mark O&#8217;Dwyer of Merakey offered advice for parents navigating these conversations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;Check yourself to make sure that you&#8217;re not overly anxious and listen well. What&#8217;s their understanding of the story?&#8221; said O&#8217;Dwyer. &#8220;Then third, remind them of all the things that are in place for them to be safe.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Then there&#8217;s a harrowing image of a parent running toward the crime scene. It&#8217;s something that all parents can resonate with, but would never want to experience.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;It&#8217;s OK to share that you&#8217;re a little scared, and it&#8217;s hard for you too to see these images,&#8221; said Darcy Krause, a social worker, child grief expert, and CEO of Grieve to Thrive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \"><strong class=\"vtkaO \">SEE ALSO | <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/6abc.com\/post\/minneapolis-catholic-school-shooting-multiple-victims-released-hospital-police-chief-says\/17671285\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Minneapolis Catholic school shooter &#8216;wanted to watch children suffer&#8217;<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">She says it&#8217;s important to open the conversation in an age-appropriate way, head-on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;Years ago, I would say help them avoid the news. But in our digital age, kids are seeing it everywhere,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">The three big takeaways from the experts:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"sfxjZ dAmzA UoVV WtEci dSKvB seFhp wtgAa XoCUF \" data-testid=\"prism-list\">\n<li class=\"mmrhV WeAzC lZur foTEL SpgmX cnYss qArv hxIMs isuUo hCkek nYZyJ xXFZR luHJ DuCgd Veett \" data-testid=\"prism-list-item\">Open the conversation without stress and anxiety.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul class=\"sfxjZ dAmzA UoVV WtEci dSKvB seFhp wtgAa XoCUF \" data-testid=\"prism-list\">\n<li class=\"mmrhV WeAzC lZur foTEL SpgmX cnYss qArv hxIMs isuUo hCkek nYZyJ xXFZR luHJ DuCgd Veett \" data-testid=\"prism-list-item\">Truly listen to your children.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul class=\"sfxjZ dAmzA UoVV WtEci dSKvB seFhp wtgAa XoCUF \" data-testid=\"prism-list\">\n<li class=\"mmrhV WeAzC lZur foTEL SpgmX cnYss qArv hxIMs isuUo hCkek nYZyJ xXFZR luHJ DuCgd Veett \" data-testid=\"prism-list-item\">Reassure your children of the safety protocols already in place.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul class=\"sfxjZ dAmzA UoVV WtEci dSKvB seFhp wtgAa XoCUF \" data-testid=\"prism-list\">\n<li class=\"mmrhV WeAzC lZur foTEL SpgmX cnYss qArv hxIMs isuUo hCkek nYZyJ xXFZR luHJ DuCgd Veett \" data-testid=\"prism-list-item\">Remind them that incidents like these are rare.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2025 WPVI-TV. 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