DEAR ABBY: My husband was let go from his job due to restructuring. He\u2019s understandably upset, and I see him sink further into depression with every rejection letter he receives for the positions he has applied for. How can I help him? — SUPPORTIVE WIFE IN OHIO\t<\/p>\n
DEAR WIFE: Help your husband by not pressuring him during this difficult time. If he hasn\u2019t yet applied for unemployment benefits, remind him he is entitled to them. Suggest that if there are no openings in his field, he should consider using his skills to do something different and perhaps contact a temporary employment agency. Let him know you are a willing listener, but do not pump him for information. If no job turns up for him in the next six months (and if you are not already employed), consider finding a job to relieve the financial pressure.<\/p>\n
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DEAR ABBY: I have worked with the same six women and three men for 19 years. Each time one has a birthday, we have a small office party with lunch, cake and ice cream, and a gift in the $50 range, and the birthday person gets the remainder of the day off. This is done for everyone except me. <\/p>\n
Although it hurts my feelings, I\u2019ve never said anything about being excluded, and no one seems to have noticed the omission. I did inquire (twice) if anyone had dined at a restaurant my husband will be taking me to for my birthday, but no one picked up my hint that I\u2019m also a part of the staff. Should I politely continue celebrating other people\u2019s special days or proclaim, \u201cHey! I\u2019m here, too!\u201d — INVISIBLE CO-WORKER\t<\/p>\n
DEAR INVISIBLE: As the saying goes, \u201cThe squeaky wheel gets the grease.\u201d Could you have inadvertently been omitted from a list of employee birthdays? By all means, speak up before it\u2019s time for you to retire.<\/p>\n
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