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\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\tColumnist Ady Lotivio tells international students that leaving their homes for Penn to enjoy it while it lasts. After graduation \u2014 when the fanfare dies down and the posts slip out of the algorithm \u2014 what\u2019s left for the Class of 2029 is only a countdown. I\u2019m sure that for many, what lies within said countdown is a future of possibilities, of learning, and undeniable growth. But for those who live absurdly far from Penn, the countdown is also a stark reminder that we\u2019ll be leaving so many, for who knows how long, and returning who knows when.\n<\/p>\n For Penn\u2019s international students, this reminder is both prophecy and reality. As part of this unique demographic, we know so much about our own countries and cultures, but we can apply only so little of it in college. For the first few weeks, or months or even years at Penn, we are quite possibly doomed to this constant sense of discomfort: language barriers, an entirely foreign environment, distance to loved ones marked by a day\u2019s worth of flights, all the more with the quintessential college transition experience as the cherry on top.\n\t\t<\/p>\n I was fortunate enough to have experienced the past few years far from home. I anticipated this discomfort and tried to be one step ahead. I didn\u2019t make an effort to say sappy goodbyes to friends or mentally prepare for \u201cthe big day\u201d when I finally arrive at Penn, a place I\u2019ve only ever seen through computer screens or through the pictures my upperclassmen tried their best to form in my head. I simply thought, I\u2019ll see them again, anyways, in a year or two. But as the days pass by and there are only a few weeks left before the fall semester starts, that \u201cyear or two\u201d becomes dizzyingly bleak, and we scramble to tie up everything before we leave and regret every goodbye we did not give.\n<\/p>\n While trying to think of what exactly I wanted to say in this column, I weirdly recalled the great wildebeest migrations across the Serengeti, Tanzania, and the Maasai Mara, Kenya. The animals move in a constant cycle, led only by the survival instinct to find grasslands replenished by the rains. Because of them, I can say that yes, leaving is hard; it\u2019s undoubtedly excruciating to be ripped out of our comfort zones and the people we\u2019ve spent our whole lives with. But staying is worse.\u00a0<\/p>\n This is not to say that we will die by staying and being steadfast, but just like East Africa\u2019s wildebeests, to remain motionless is to wither by not going where the rains fall and the grasses are lush. What we deem to be an extension of comfort instead is in fact, complacency, something that, with the ambition characteristic of Penn\u2019s students, must surely be equal to death.\u00a0\n<\/p>\n Simply put, we will have a rough journey. We will leave behind many things and miss out on much more. We will feel all of them, and no amount of preparation or contingency plans can truly erase that. But moving forward will eventually do. In fact, what is discomfort if not the precursor to change?\n\t<\/p>\n As international students, what we can sometimes forget is that we carry with us the dreams of so many, and to honor these dreams means we need to grow and do good. And this notion isn\u2019t just limited to those from abroad; in fact, everyone at Penn is subordinate to this. We owe it to all of them \u2014 to the families who\u2019ve helped us pack years into little suitcases, to the ride-or-dies we tear up to at the thought of leaving, and to the ones who were just there with us in the moments we needed them to be \u2014 to make the hard choices and to grow.\n<\/p>\n What can be consolation to my fellow members of the Class of 2029 is that we make these choices not to substitute the experiences we\u2019ve had with \u201cbetter\u201d ones, but to supplement the growth we\u2019ve experienced in our homes with those that are uniquely our own.\u00a0\n<\/p>\n So may this serve as an affirming letter to the students who risk it all to grow for themselves and for others. The road is long and winding, and the best way to prepare for all of it is to kiss your loved ones goodbye, hope for the best, and prepare for growth unlike any before.\n<\/p>\n ADY LOTIVIO <\/strong>is a first-year studying economics and earth & environmental science from Bicol, Philippines. His email is jlotivio@sas.upenn.edu<\/a>.<\/p>\n The Daily Pennsylvanian is an independent, student-run newspaper. Please consider making a donation<\/a> to support the coverage that shapes the University. Your generosity ensures a future of strong journalism at Penn.<\/p>\n
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