{"id":21617,"date":"2025-06-28T11:01:09","date_gmt":"2025-06-28T11:01:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/21617\/"},"modified":"2025-06-28T11:01:09","modified_gmt":"2025-06-28T11:01:09","slug":"column-the-spirit-of-pride-is-diversity-and-progress-not-respectability-politics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/21617\/","title":{"rendered":"Column: The spirit of Pride is diversity and progress, not respectability politics"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The latest installment of \u201cJurassic Park\u201d is hitting theaters July 4th weekend, and while normally I detest silly summer sequels, for some reason I do enjoy watching dinosaurs eat people on the big screen.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour scientists were so preoccupied with whether they could, they didn\u2019t stop to think if they should,\u201d Jeff Goldblum famously said in the 1993 original. After his character perfectly framed the ethical question nestled in the heart of the Jurassic Park story, I was more than happy to see Newman from \u201cSeinfeld\u201d get what he deserved. A brilliant line or movie monologue \u2014 like Goldblum\u2019s gem \u2014 can not only advance a fictional plot, but  also foster conversations about real life. Consider how Michael B. Jordan\u2019s character Killmonger challenged the idea of isolationism and Jack Nicholson\u2019s line \u201cYou can\u2019t handle the truth\u201d explored what it takes to defend this country, morally.<\/p>\n<p>One of my all-time favorite  movie monologues was delivered by the late Philip Seymour Hoffman in the 1999 cult classic \u201cFlawless.\u201d In the scene, Hoffman \u2014 portraying a no-nonsense drag queen \u2014 confronts a group of conservative gay men who seek to mute the more flamboyant members of the LGBTQ+ during a  Pride march in an attempt to gain broader acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re ashamed of us, but we\u2019re not ashamed of you,\u201d the speech begins. \u201cAs long as you go down on your Banana Republic knees \u2026 you\u2019re my sisters and I love you. I do. And f\u2014 off!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I wonder whether Richard Grenell, the former ambassador to Germany who currently serves as an envoy for special missions in the Trump administration, has seen it. I ask because Grenell, who during President Trump\u2019s first term became the country\u2019s first openly gay Cabinet-level official, spent part of this Pride month trying to drive a wedge within the community in a fashion very similar to what was portrayed in the 25-year-old film.<\/p>\n<p>In a Truth Social post back in December, Trump said that in the envoy role, Grenell would \u201cwork in some of the hottest spots around the World, including Venezuela and North Korea.\u201d It seems one of Grenell\u2019s special missions was to sell America on the idea that gender identity and transgender healthcare are outside the realm of what \u201cnormal gays\u201d are concerned with.<\/p>\n<p>He also suggested the LGBTQ+ community needs to police itself, echoes of the same respectability politics framework that is often employed to gaslight those who have been systematically disenfranchised. Of course Grenell is not the first conservative gay man who has used his station in life to enrich himself at the expense of the collective.<\/p>\n<p>Not long after Hoffman\u2019s character went off in \u201cFlawless\u201d in 1999, Ken Mehlman was appointed President George W. Bush\u2019s director of political affairs and spent years working against legalizing same-sex marriage \u2014 as we now know, from the closet. In 2010, Mehlman, a former chairman of the Republican Party, <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/richard-adams-blog\/2010\/aug\/26\/ken-mehlman-gay-marriage-republican\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">came out as gay<\/a>. Biographers have documented J. Edgar Hoover\u2019s relationships with men even as he was driving the Lavender Scare. His accomplice, Roy Cohn, has a similar story.<\/p>\n<p>As the various letters suggest, the LGBTQ+ community is far from a monolith. However, if there is one thing most of us have in common, it is our tendency not to vote against our own interest. In 2020, Trump won 27% of the vote. In 2024, it was <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/nbc-out\/out-politics-and-policy\/lgbt-voters-away-from-trump-2024-election-record-change-rcna178939\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">down to 12%<\/a>. In between the two elections, we saw a relentless Republican-led attack on LGBTQ+ rights of which Trump has often been the instigator.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know what Grenell considers \u201cnormal gay\u201d behavior, but he does not represent normal gay voting. The idea that he could speak for the community\u2019s core values is not only laughable but also woefully disingenuous. It was the drag queens and gender-nonconforming members of the community who began the Stonewall Riots in 1969. Before Grenell was even born, <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nps.gov\/people\/jose-sarria.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">the first out gay person to run for public office<\/a> wasn\u2019t a \u201cnormal gay\u201d but an extraordinary drag queen by the name of Jose Sarria in 1961. The groups who won progress for queer people have never been monolithically made up of white, Anglo, heteronormative men. That\u2019s what makes the gay rights movement so beautiful, so American, so worthy of pride and celebration.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s also why it\u2019s so weird, given the obvious concern rippling through the LGBTQ+ community because of Trump\u2019s words and actions, that Grenell chooses to use his station to fight for the members of his community who need his help the least, and to do so at the expense of the LGBTQ+ people who really need a champion.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@lzgrandersonshow\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">@LZGrandersonShow<\/a><\/p>\n<p>         Insights    <\/p>\n<p data-element=\"content-insights-description\" class=\"m-0 mb-2 font-cmsFontServiceText font-medium text-base text-cms-color-description-text\"><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/insights\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">L.A. Times Insights<\/a> delivers AI-generated analysis on Voices content to offer all points of view. Insights does not appear on any news articles. <\/p>\n<p>        Viewpoint    This article generally aligns with a <b>Left<\/b> point of view. <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/insights\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Learn more about this AI-generated analysis<\/a>             Perspectives   <\/p>\n<p>The following AI-generated content is powered by Perplexity. The Los Angeles Times editorial staff does not create or edit the content.<\/p>\n<p> Ideas expressed in the piece<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The author asserts that Pride\u2019s essence lies in embracing diversity and progress rather than conforming to respectability politics, criticizing figures like Richard Grenell for attempting to marginalize flamboyant or non-conforming LGBTQ+ members to gain broader acceptance<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.georgiancollege.ca\/blog\/newsroom\/pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[1]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/pridesource.com\/downloads\/2025.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[4]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Granderson emphasizes the historical role of drag queens and gender-nonconforming individuals in pivotal moments like the Stonewall Riots, noting that the first openly gay political candidate (Jose Sarria) was a drag queen, which challenges modern efforts to sanitize LGBTQ+ advocacy<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.georgiancollege.ca\/blog\/newsroom\/pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[1]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/pridesource.com\/downloads\/2025.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[4]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>He highlights that the LGBTQ+ community is not a monolith but shares a common tendency to reject voting against its interests, evidenced by Trump\u2019s declining support (from 27% in 2020 to 12% in 2024) amid Republican-led attacks on LGBTQ+ rights<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.georgiancollege.ca\/blog\/newsroom\/pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[1]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/pridesource.com\/downloads\/2025.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[4]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>The article condemns Grenell for reinforcing respectability politics, arguing that his alignment with policies harmful to vulnerable LGBTQ+ members\u2014particularly transgender individuals\u2014contradicts the community\u2019s legacy of inclusive activism<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.georgiancollege.ca\/blog\/newsroom\/pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[1]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/pridesource.com\/downloads\/2025.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[4]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Different views on the topic<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Conservative policymakers advocate for restricting federal Medicaid funding for gender-affirming care, arguing such measures protect taxpayer dollars from supporting \u201cexperimental\u201d treatments, with the Trump-backed House bill framing this as fiscal responsibility<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.politifact.com\/article\/2025\/jun\/02\/medicaid-bill-trans-gender-affirming-care-Trump\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[2]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Critics of gender-affirming care contend that states should independently regulate these services, suggesting federal funding enables medically unnecessary procedures, though legal challenges cite potential violations of anti-discrimination laws in the Affordable Care Act<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.politifact.com\/article\/2025\/jun\/02\/medicaid-bill-trans-gender-affirming-care-Trump\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[2]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.politifact.com\/article\/2024\/jul\/24\/checking-lgbtq-talking-points-at-the-2024-rnc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[3]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Republican narratives, as observed at the 2024 RNC, position LGBTQ+ rights as infringing on parental rights and religious freedoms, framing gender-affirming care bans as protections for children rather than discrimination<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.politifact.com\/article\/2024\/jul\/24\/checking-lgbtq-talking-points-at-the-2024-rnc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[3]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Some conservative voices within the LGBTQ+ community, like Grenell, argue that prioritizing transgender issues distracts from \u201cmainstream\u201d gay rights goals (e.g., marriage equality), promoting a heteronormative image for broader societal acceptance<a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.georgiancollege.ca\/blog\/newsroom\/pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[1]<\/a><a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.politifact.com\/article\/2024\/jul\/24\/checking-lgbtq-talking-points-at-the-2024-rnc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">[3]<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The latest installment of \u201cJurassic Park\u201d is hitting theaters July 4th weekend, and while normally I detest 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