{"id":268474,"date":"2025-10-01T06:22:16","date_gmt":"2025-10-01T06:22:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/268474\/"},"modified":"2025-10-01T06:22:16","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T06:22:16","slug":"family-grieves-after-daughter-fatally-shot-by-ex-boyfriend-in-oak-cliff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/268474\/","title":{"rendered":"Family grieves after daughter fatally shot by ex-boyfriend in Oak Cliff"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2A9CCE82FB99FF22F7015EDFCC5BE10A.jpg\" alt=\"Family grieves after mom fatally shot by ex-boyfriend\" class=\"sr-only\" data-v-7a5d4fdb=\"\"\/>    <\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\"><strong>DALLAS<\/strong> &#8211; An Oak Cliff family is grieving the loss of their youngest sister after she was allegedly shot and killed on her porch by her ex-boyfriend.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">An arrest has been made.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p original-article-post=\"\" origination_station=\"KDFW\" data-v-ec26887a=\"\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">What we know:<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;I forgive you.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Those are the words Destinee Police\u2019s older sister has to share with the man accused of killing her baby sister and leaving her nephew without a mom.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">An empty seat remains at the domino table on Wilhurt Avenue. The porch where Kendra Police and her daughters have laughed and played for decades is now peppered with bullet holes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Destinee, the youngest police daughter, was shot and killed on the front porch of their home a week ago at 5:30 in the evening.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">According to the police report, a man was arguing with Destinee, while an unidentified woman stood nearby. The man shot Destinee.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">The shooter and the other woman took off in separate cars.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Police arrested 23-year-old Jalance Lane. Destinee\u2019s family says he\u2019s her ex-boyfriend.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/p-vania-dallas-wilhurt-ave-fatal-shooting-9p_00.01.21.52.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-v-0dea8073=\"\"\/>  <\/p>\n<p original-article-post=\"\" origination_station=\"KDFW\" data-v-ec26887a=\"\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">What they&#8217;re saying:<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;It&#8217;s something we all never forget, a devastating moment they probably will forever taunt us to know my sister did not deserve that,&#8221; said Destinee\u2019s sister, Kashaya Andrews.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;Why did they just leave her laying here on the ground without trying to render aid? I don&#8217;t care how it happened or what you decide to do. You could have tried to save her,&#8221; said Destinee\u2019s mother, Kendra Police.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Kendra Police provided surveillance footage to officers, showing Lane at Destinee\u2019s front door with a gun in his waistband moments before the shooting.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;I just want some answers. I want some answers. I want to know that everybody who was involved has some form of punishment,&#8221; said Kendra.<\/p>\n<p> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/p-vania-dallas-wilhurt-ave-fatal-shooting-9p_00.00.30.06.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-v-0dea8073=\"\"\/> <\/p>\n<p data-v-0dea8073=\"\">Kashaya Andrews (left) &amp; Kendra Police (right) <\/p>\n<p original-article-post=\"\" origination_station=\"KDFW\" data-v-ec26887a=\"\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Dig deeper:<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">Kendra Police told officers that Lane and his girlfriend had been pressuring her daughter to take him off of her four-year-old son\u2019s birth certificate, claiming he wasn\u2019t the child\u2019s biological father.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;He knows that his mom is not here. He does not know the exact reason, but he knows that someone else is doing the things that my mother should be doing,&#8221; said Andrews.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">There are reminders of what happened every time Kendra Police walks through her door.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;You know, I don&#8217;t want to wake up and be in here by myself,&#8221; said Kendra.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">But this family is choosing to carry on the way Destinee would have. By living life in grace<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;Her favorite words, \u2018pull up\u2019. Come see me. Pull up. Let&#8217;s kick it,&#8221; said Andrews.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">&#8220;I forgive you because that&#8217;s what God wants us to do. So, I do forgive you, but I want you to know that you have hurt us tremendously.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p original-article-post=\"\" origination_station=\"KDFW\" data-v-ec26887a=\"\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">What&#8217;s next:<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">The family affectionately says they are going to continue to party on.<\/p>\n<p data-v-6fc2855c=\"\">They are also trying to raise money to cover expenses as well as take care of Desiree\u2019s 4-year-old son.<\/p>\n<p> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/p-vania-dallas-wilhurt-ave-fatal-shooting-9p_00.01.40.42.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-v-0dea8073=\"\"\/>  <\/p>\n<p class=\"group-source-paragraph\" data-v-4fbf7207=\"\"><b data-v-4fbf7207=\"\">The Source:<\/b> Information in this article was provided from interviews conducted by FOX 4&#8217;s Vania Castillo.<\/p>\n<p>    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fox4news.com\/tag\/crime-publicsafety\" class=\"tags-tag\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Crime and Public Safety<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fox4news.com\/tag\/us\/tx\/dallas-county\/dallas\/oak-cliff\" class=\"tags-tag\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Oak Cliff<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fox4news.com\/tag\/us\/tx\/dallas-county\" class=\"tags-tag\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dallas County<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fox4news.com\/tag\/us\/tx\/dallas-county\/dallas\" class=\"tags-tag\" data-v-6fc2855c=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dallas<\/a> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"DALLAS &#8211; An Oak Cliff family is grieving the loss of their youngest sister after she was allegedly&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":268475,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5135],"tags":[5229,6082,1596,7290,50,10429,358,3187,67,586,132,5230,68,2969],"class_list":{"0":"post-268474","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-dallas","8":"tag-america","9":"tag-crime-publicsafety","10":"tag-dallas","11":"tag-dallas-county","12":"tag-news","13":"tag-oak-cliff","14":"tag-texas","15":"tag-tx","16":"tag-united-states","17":"tag-united-states-of-america","18":"tag-unitedstates","19":"tag-unitedstatesofamerica","20":"tag-us","21":"tag-usa"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/115297475327132758","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/268474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=268474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/268474\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/268475"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=268474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=268474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=268474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}