{"id":308655,"date":"2025-10-16T18:03:13","date_gmt":"2025-10-16T18:03:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/308655\/"},"modified":"2025-10-16T18:03:13","modified_gmt":"2025-10-16T18:03:13","slug":"he-spent-his-life-giving-skid-rows-homeless-access-to-music-his-family-wants-to-carry-on-his-legacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/308655\/","title":{"rendered":"He spent his life giving Skid Row&#8217;s homeless access to music. His family wants to carry on his legacy."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It started with a pair of headphones.<\/p>\n<p>In 2013, Paul Avila spotted a blind man on Skid Row wearing headphones and bobbing his head to the music with a big smile on his face, and it reminded Avila of his son, who was born blind with nonverbal autism. <\/p>\n<p>Avila\u2019s son, Pauly, also loved music. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMusic is a universal language,\u201d Avila reasoned, according to his family. \u201cIt really calms you down and puts you into a different state.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When Avila got home, the man on Skid Row was still on his mind. He became determined to unlock the soothing power of music for others, and took the first steps to building Pauly\u2019s Project \u2014 a nonprofit that distributes headphones and radios in Skid Row.<\/p>\n<p>After more than a decade of work, Avila died July 1 at the age of 48. In the months since, those closest to him have been working to continue his legacy.<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Photos and accolades from Paul Avila's life decorate the Pauly's Project office.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760637791_9_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Photos and accolades from Paul Avila\u2019s life decorate the Pauly\u2019s Project office.<\/p>\n<p>(Juliana Yamada \/ Los Angeles Times)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPaul worked so hard and we\u2019re just going to continue and keep it going,\u201d said his older sister, Linda Sideri, who serves as the organization\u2019s treasurer and is on its board.<\/p>\n<p>When Avila first started Pauly\u2019s Project, his son would occasionally help him distribute headphones and radios, a few dozen at a time, to Skid Row\u2019s homeless. But according to his other older sister, Catherine Butler, the organization now serves around 20,000 people annually on Skid Row, providing food, outreach services and workplace mentoring and development along with their regular music accessories.<\/p>\n<p>Butler, who has worked as executive director of Pauly\u2019s Project since Avila started the nonprofit, said that it felt worse telling Skid Row residents about Avila\u2019s passing than members of his own family.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe was their family,\u201d Butler said. \u201cRemember that for these people, no one looks at them, no one acknowledges their existence &#8230; Every time we went out for outreach, he would say, \u2018OK guys, we\u2019re in their neighborhood. Acknowledge them, say hello, touch them, just talk to them like a person.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, Pauly\u2019s Project has become an integral part of the network of organizations serving Los Angeles\u2019 homeless population. During the wildfires earlier this year, Pauly\u2019s Project helped collect donations for displaced people and families in L.A. whose homes had burned down.<\/p>\n<p>In the winter, Avila himself would <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/california\/story\/2023-02-25\/for-the-lucky-ones-an-inadequate-shelter-system-offers-warmth-and-maybe-hope\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">go out into the pouring rain<\/a> to hand out clothing, gloves and other warm weather supplies to Skid Row\u2019s residents. News of his death was met with grief online.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am heartbroken to hear my good friend &#8230; Paul Avila has passed away,\u201d actor Danny Trejo <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DLn-TwRsXN0\/?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wrote on Instagram<\/a> on July 2. \u201cMay you rest in peace. God bless the Avila family.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Paul Avila's niece Isabella Sideri, and his sisters Linda Sideri, Laura Garcia, and Catherine Butler \"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760637792_450_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Paul Avila\u2019s niece Isabella Sideri and his sisters Linda Sideri, Laura Garcia, and Catherine Butler stand for a portrait at the Pauly\u2019s Project office on Sept. 23 in Covina.<\/p>\n<p>(Juliana Yamada \/ Los Angeles Times)<\/p>\n<p>Avila knew the name of every person he helped on Skid Row and what supplies they needed. He would ask how they were doing and shook their hands. During the <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/california\/story\/2023-02-25\/for-the-lucky-ones-an-inadequate-shelter-system-offers-warmth-and-maybe-hope\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">winter storms in 2023<\/a>, Avila remembered to hand out raw meat to Reynaldo Roman, a man living on Skid Row, so he could cook food for the entire block, The Times reported. <\/p>\n<p>Avila was raised as the youngest of five children, in a large Latino family in Covina, according to Butler. They had an uncle who was in prison most of his life and lived on Skid Row after being released. Growing up during the 1970s and \u201880s, Avila\u2019s family would visit his uncle to give him packs of cigarettes and food. Seeing his uncle inspired Avila to try to live a better life, his sister said. Although Avila was never homeless himself, he was drawn to those who lived on the streets.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe knew they were broken people, just like himself,\u201d Butler said. \u201cWe all are and we\u2019re all human. And we all need somebody like Paul to bring us up, to not judge us, to give us a hug and that\u2019s what he did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sideri, Avila\u2019s oldest sister, last saw her brother a few days before he died. Avila had stopped by Sideri\u2019s house on June 29 to wish her a happy birthday.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was just our usual family gathering, with fun and laughter,\u201d the 62-year-old said. \u201cWe have a large family so when we\u2019re together, it\u2019s all about love and laughter and teasing each other.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>At the time, Avila was preparing for a pancake breakfast event and was busy collecting donations at their warehouse and fielding phone calls. <\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Avila hands out jackets tarps, beanies, gloves, ponchos, socks, and underwear\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760637793_805_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Avila hands out jackets tarps, beanies, gloves, ponchos, socks, and underwear to people living on the street near downtown Los Angeles on Feb. 24, 2023. <\/p>\n<p>(Francine Orr \/ Los Angeles Times)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe just was really busy, but he always made time for the family,\u201d Sideri added.<\/p>\n<p>Along with running Pauly\u2019s Project, Avila was also caretaker for his son, Pauly, who is now 28. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe never felt like he had enough hours in the day,\u201d Sideri said. \u201cHe just always wanted to be helping somebody, whether it was doing food outreach or collaborating with a new organization. He had a lot on his plate, but Pauly was his love. He was his first love, his son.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Sideri\u2019s daughter Isabella is the organization\u2019s social media manager. She remembered going out with her uncle to Skid Row when she was as young as 12.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe made sure I was always thinking about other people,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Linda Sideri  has been working for the nonprofit since its creation. <\/p>\n<p>Since her brother\u2019s death, Sideri said family members have taken a step back from other organizations they work for in order to put all of their focus on Pauly\u2019s Project. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe had to because that was Paul\u2019s,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p> <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It started with a pair of headphones. 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