{"id":324644,"date":"2025-10-22T19:53:14","date_gmt":"2025-10-22T19:53:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/324644\/"},"modified":"2025-10-22T19:53:14","modified_gmt":"2025-10-22T19:53:14","slug":"dave-ramsey-caller-says-she-was-trying-to-help-her-husband-retire-early-by-borrowing-from-his-401k-to-buy-and-flip-houses-but-they-didnt-sell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/324644\/","title":{"rendered":"Dave Ramsey Caller Says She Was Trying To &#8216;Help&#8217; Her Husband Retire Early By Borrowing From His 401(k) To Buy And Flip Houses&#8230;But They Didn&#8217;t Sell"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Benzinga and Yahoo Finance LLC may earn commission or revenue on some items through the links below.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">She had good intentions\u2014just a bad plan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;I was just trying to help my husband retire early,&#8221; a Boston woman <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=wqKm3lOsuXc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:told &quot;The Ramsey Show,&quot;;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">told &#8220;The Ramsey Show,&#8221; <\/a>where <strong>Dave Ramsey<\/strong>&#8216;s team took her through the wreckage of a failed real estate experiment.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">She took money out of her husband&#8217;s 401(k), invested in two homes and now she&#8217;s stuck with hard money loans, rising interest, and no way out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;I asked if I could borrow from his 401(k), so that I could, you know, invest in flips and flip them and then help pay down the mortgage,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Don&#8217;t Miss:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The first flip failed. The house didn&#8217;t sell, the hard money loan came due, and she had to refinance. &#8220;Now we&#8217;re stuck with that house,&#8221; she said. &#8220;But the renter is paying for that\u2014it&#8217;s covering the expenses.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Then she did it again. Flip number two is now a second burden. &#8220;I&#8217;m stuck with a house that is nearing its maturity for the hard money loan to be paid,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Host <strong>George Kamel<\/strong> couldn&#8217;t believe what he was hearing. &#8220;You touched the hot stove, and then you did it again,&#8221; he said. &#8220;You need to get out of the real estate game entirely.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He pressed her for numbers. The loss? &#8220;At least $12,000,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The couple has about $9,000 in emergency savings and around $4,000 or $5,000 in a business account. Her husband&#8217;s 401(k) still has $49,000\u2014what&#8217;s left after she pulled out $40,000. &#8220;That was a straight-up withdrawal?&#8221; Kamel asked. It was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;You paid upwards of what, 35% in taxes and penalties,&#8221; he said. &#8220;You robbed yourself of all the compound growth that could have happened.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Trending: <a href=\"https:\/\/arrivedhomes.go2cloud.org\/aff_c?offer_id=8&amp;aff_id=1006&amp;aff_sub=yahoo\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Arrived Home&#039;s Private Credit Fund\u2019s has historically paid an annualized dividend yield of 8.1%*;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Arrived Home&#8217;s Private Credit Fund\u2019s has historically paid an annualized dividend yield of 8.1%*<\/strong><\/a><\/strong>,<strong> which provides access to a pool of short-term loans backed by residential real estate with just a $100 minimum.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/go\/arrived-private-credit-yf?utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=real_estate&amp;nid=48362334\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u00a0;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He added, &#8220;Let&#8217;s stop robbing the 401(k).&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">She told them her husband tried to put some money back into the account, but the provider said he was too old.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Kamel asked what part of Boston the property was in, assuming it was local. That&#8217;s when the caller clarified\u2014she lived in Boston, but the properties were in Birmingham, Alabama.<\/p>\n<p> Story Continues  <\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;What made you go, \u2018We&#8217;re going to purchase property thousands of miles away and hope for the best?'&#8221; Kamel asked.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;Someone on YouTube,&#8221; she said. &#8220;The properties were just cheaper.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Co-host <strong>Jade Warshaw<\/strong> told her to immediately <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/financial-advisors\/25\/08\/47351556\/dave-ramsey-rips-into-passive-income-real-estate-hype-says-landlords-are-being-sold-tiktok-dreams?utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=real_estate&amp;nid=48362334\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:stop taking advice from strangers online;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">stop taking advice from strangers online<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The financial details were ugly. She bought the first house in Birmingham for $64,500. Renovations cost another $102,500 using a hard money loan. Total: $168,000. She thought it could sell for $229,000. It didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;There were no offers,&#8221; she said. Not in four months. &#8220;Supposedly it was priced right,&#8221; she claimed, but the market said otherwise.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Kamel broke down the numbers. &#8220;If you can sell the first one for $180,000, walk away,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Clear $12,000 and use that to offset the second property.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>See Also: <\/strong><strong>The \u2018ChatGPT of Marketing&#8217; Just Opened a $0.81\/Share Round \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/benzingapartners.go2cloud.org\/aff_c?offer_id=562&amp;aff_id=1&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=real_estate&amp;nid=48362334\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:10,000+ Investors Are Already In;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>10,000+ Investors Are Already In<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">But the second house is even worse. That property is fully funded with a hard money loan\u2014$138,500. It was due three months ago. The lender extended it, but now he&#8217;s charging her $1,385 a month. &#8220;He&#8217;s charging a solid 1% every single month that this thing doesn&#8217;t sell,&#8221; she said. &#8220;And come June, he&#8217;s going to charge me an additional $1,385.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;Sell it at a loss,&#8221; Kamel said. &#8220;I don&#8217;t care if you lose $12,000\u2014you are not meant to be real estate moguls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Then came Kamel&#8217;s knockout.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">\u2018I hope this is a lesson to all of you, America. This is how Dave Ramsey went bankrupt in the \u201880s. Same exact concept. He&#8217;s been telling y&#8217;all for 30 years not to do this crap\u2014and here you are.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Flippers who profit usually buy properties below market value, fund renovations out of pocket, and have local knowledge\u2014or boots on the ground\u2014to manage the project.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">It&#8217;s not passive, and it&#8217;s definitely not quick cash. For everyday investors who want real estate exposure without hard money loans, property rehabs, or cross-country risks, platforms like Arrived offer an alternative\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/arrivedhomes.go2cloud.org\/aff_c?offer_id=15&amp;aff_id=1006&amp;region=Florida&amp;ref=https:\/\/www.google.com\/&amp;cc=US&amp;city=Palm+Bay&amp;device=iOS&amp;event_type=click&amp;aff_sub=primary%20wct251019051743e5i60\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:letting people invest in fractional shares of rental homes with as little as $100;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">letting people invest in fractional shares of rental homes with as little as $100<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The lesson for the caller wasn&#8217;t just about a couple of bad flips\u2014it was about knowing your limits. Investing without experience, local insight, or a solid plan isn&#8217;t a shortcut to wealth. It&#8217;s touching a hot stove.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Read Next: Backed by $300M+ in Assets and Microsoft&#8217;s Climate Fund, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/farmland-lp-y2?utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=real_estate&amp;nid=48362334\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Farmland LP Opens Vital Farmland III to Accredited Investors;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Farmland LP Opens Vital Farmland III to Accredited Investors<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Image: Shutterstock<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">This article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/markets\/25\/10\/48362334\/dave-ramsey-caller-says-she-was-trying-to-help-her-husband-retire-early-by-borrowing-from-his-401-k?utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=real_estate\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Dave Ramsey Caller Says She Was Trying To &#039;Help&#039; Her Husband Retire Early By Borrowing From His 401(k) To Buy And Flip Houses\u2026But They Didn&#039;t Sell;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Dave Ramsey Caller Says She Was Trying To &#8216;Help&#8217; Her Husband Retire Early By Borrowing From His 401(k) To Buy And Flip Houses\u2026But They Didn&#8217;t Sell<\/a> originally appeared on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Benzinga.com;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Benzinga.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Benzinga and Yahoo Finance LLC may earn commission or revenue on some items through the links below. 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