{"id":35389,"date":"2025-07-03T13:27:09","date_gmt":"2025-07-03T13:27:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/35389\/"},"modified":"2025-07-03T13:27:09","modified_gmt":"2025-07-03T13:27:09","slug":"the-new-york-city-pride-shooting-and-our-fear-of-the-unknown","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/35389\/","title":{"rendered":"The New York City Pride shooting and our fear of the unknown"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;right:0;bottom:0;width:100%;height:100%;z-index:2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/84415074007-20250629-t-010341-z-198630721-rc-2-ybfafqwco-rtrmadp-3-usalgbtpridenewyork.JPG\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vidplayicon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/appservices\/universal-web\/universal\/icons\/icon-play-alt-white.svg\" alt=\"play\" style=\"height:40px;margin:auto 18px auto 27px;width:40px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Two teens shot near NYC&#8217;s Stonewall Inn after Pride celebrations<\/p>\n<p>Two teens were shot near New York City&#8217;s iconic Stonewall Inn after Pride celebrations.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/nation\/2025\/06\/30\/shooting-near-nyc-historic-stonewall-inn\/84416106007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Two teenagers were injured in a shooting<\/a> near New York City&#8217;s historic <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nps.gov\/ston\/index.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Stonewall Inn<\/a> as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/nation\/2025\/06\/29\/new-york-city-pride-parade-2025\/84368531007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">New York City\u2019s Pride celebrations<\/a> came to a close on June 29.<\/p>\n<p>A 16-year-old girl was shot in the head and taken to the hospital in critical condition, while a 17-year-old girl was shot in the leg and taken to the hospital in stable condition, the New York Police Department said.<\/p>\n<p>No arrests have been made so far, and the investigation &#8220;remains active and ongoing,&#8221; police said. News outlets has reported that the motive is \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/US\/shooting-historic-stonewall-inn-after-nycs-pride-march\/story?id=123329468&amp;cid=social_twitter_abcn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">unclear<\/a>,\u201d but the shooting drew reactions from the LGBTQ+ community. On July 1, the Stonewall Inn made a statement via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DLlu5ARs28I\/?igsh=ZWRkdHF3ZnppNzd0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Instagram<\/a> that the shooting happened &#8220;several blocks away and was not connected&#8221; to the bar.<\/p>\n<p>New York City&#8217;s Pride march is the largest of its kind in the U.S., featuring 75,000 participants and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/06\/29\/nyregion\/nyc-pride-parade-march.html#:~:text=The%20New%20York%20march%20is,much%20public%20support%20for%20L.G.B.T.Q.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">approximately two million spectators<\/a>, according to organizers. Pride Month commemorates the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/politics\/2025\/06\/01\/stonewall-trump-trans-lgbtq-monument\/82636933007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Stonewall uprising<\/a>, which began on June 28, 1969, when the NYPD raided the Stonewall Inn, a prominent gay bar on Christopher Street in NYC\u2019s West Village. In 2016, the Stonewall Inn was designated a <a href=\"https:\/\/obamawhitehouse.archives.gov\/blog\/2016\/06\/24\/president-obama-designates-stonewall-national-monument\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">national monument<\/a> under former President Barack Obama, making it the first national park site dedicated to LGBTQ+ history in the country.<\/p>\n<p>Attacks like these raise valid concerns about safety for all, including LGBTQ+ people, and can deter people from taking part in celebrations like Pride or outwardly expressing their identities out of fear. However, mental health experts caution against letting that fear control your life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s understandable to fear the unknown, no one walks around with their hands over their eyes for a reason,&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.raquelmartinphd.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Raquel Martin<\/a>, licensed clinical psychologist, previously told USA TODAY. &#8220;But when that fear stops you from engaging with the world, then there is an issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"related-link\"><strong style=\"margin-right:3px\">More details: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/nation\/2025\/06\/30\/shooting-near-nyc-historic-stonewall-inn\/84416106007\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Teenage girl critical after shooting occurs near New York City&#8217;s historic Stonewall Inn<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Anti-LGBTQ+ attacks affect the entire community<\/p>\n<p>In 2023, Southern California store owner Lauri Carleton was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/nation\/2023\/08\/21\/california-shop-owner-killed-pride-flag\/70640009007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">shot and killed over a Pride flag display<\/a>. O&#8217;Shae Sibley, a gay man dancing outside a gas station in Brooklyn voguing to Beyonc\u00e9, was stabbed to death by a 17-year-old in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brooklynda.org\/2023\/08\/11\/teenager-indicted-for-murder-as-a-hate-crime-for-allegedly-stabbing-oshae-sibley-in-anti-gay-attack-at-midwood-gas-station\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">hate crime<\/a>. Experts warned that hate indeed emboldens violence.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Everyone will react to the consequences of hate differently, as with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2023\/04\/10\/succession-death-real-trauma-grief\/11634078002\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">any grief<\/a>. &#8220;It&#8217;s normal for us to feel a combination of intense fear, shock, (confusion), feeling numb, feeling super overwhelmed, sometimes feeling all of these things at once, because it&#8217;s really hard to make sense of it,&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mosleyandassociatesconsulting.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">T.M. Robinson-Mosley<\/a>, a counseling psychologist, previously told USA TODAY.<\/p>\n<p>And in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2022\/10\/07\/parents-including-kim-kardashian-stop-filtering-photos\/8167286001\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">information age<\/a>, people have access to incessant information and on-the-scene footage, making these attacks feel personal and inescapable.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor many, the negative holds our attention more than the positive,\u201d Martin says. \u201cI think it&#8217;s also a mirror of the current times because there is so much negative information out there in the first place it is hard not to get sucked in.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It makes sense why queer people would be on high alert, regardless of the motive behind the shooting. The LGBTQ+ community has suffered a series of political losses under the Trump administration, increasing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2025\/06\/30\/lgbtq-youth-black-trans-homeless-crisis\/84358279007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">LGBTQ+ advocates&#8217; safety concerns for the community<\/a>. On <a href=\"https:\/\/www.samhsa.gov\/about\/news-announcements\/statements\/2025\/samhsa-statement-988-press-3-option\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">June 17<\/a>, the administration issued a stop-work order to the 988 Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline\u2019s extended services for the queer community.<\/p>\n<p>The Supreme Court also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/politics\/2025\/06\/18\/supreme-court-transgender-minors-gender-affirming-care\/77693917007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">upheld Tennessee\u2019s ban on gender-affirming care for minors.<\/a> In her dissent, Justice Sonia Sotomayor said the court \u201cabandons transgender children and their families to political whims.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe fact that we&#8217;re taking away services that could be protective means that, for sure, more young people will suffer harm and death,\u201d Dr. Colette Auerswald, a professor of public health at the University of California, Berkeley, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2025\/06\/30\/lgbtq-youth-black-trans-homeless-crisis\/84358279007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">said<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/survey-2024\/#anti-lgbtq-victimization\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">2024 survey<\/a> of more than 18,000 LGBTQ+ young people conducted by The Trevor Project found that experiences of anti-LGBTQ+ victimization, which included physical harm, discrimination, negative experiences at school, bullying and conversation therapy, were associated with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/news\/nation\/2022\/05\/02\/lgbtq-youth-more-prone-suicidality-during-pandemic-cdc-finds\/9542573002\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">higher suicide risk<\/a>. And 90% of LGBTQ+ youth surveyed said their well-being was negatively impacted due to recent politics.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen we cannot control something, it makes us feel more vulnerable and at-risk,\u201d psychologist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theproblemsolver.co\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Rene\u00e9 Carr<\/a> previously told USA TODAY.<\/p>\n<p class=\"related-link\"><strong style=\"margin-right:3px\">In case you missed: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2025\/06\/30\/lgbtq-youth-black-trans-homeless-crisis\/84358279007\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">LGBTQ+ youth are twice as likely to be homeless. We need to talk about it.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2018Fear doesn\u2019t need to halt you\u2019\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Remember: You may not be able to fully <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2023\/08\/07\/penis-men-afraid-talk-average-size\/70468460007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">overcome your fear<\/a>. But &#8220;it&#8217;s important to remember that fear doesn&#8217;t need to halt you,&#8221;\u00a0Martin says. &#8220;You can operate with a healthy level of fear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to discuss distressing events with trusted friends, family or a mental health professional, and engage in healthy coping mechanisms to process the emotions that arise.<\/p>\n<p>After you take care of yourself, if you feel up to it, speak out whether you&#8217;re a part of the affected community or an ally. This also includes holding leaders and elected officials accountable, either by contacting them directly or speaking out on social media. Otherwise, silence allows hate to flourish.<\/p>\n<p>This story has been updated with new information.<\/p>\n<p>Contributing: Saman Shafiq, David Oliver, Rachel Hale<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Two teens shot near NYC&#8217;s Stonewall Inn after Pride celebrations Two teens were shot near New York City&#8217;s&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":35390,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5122],"tags":[567,5229,29171,11744,4446,6006,16956,27387,446,69,18769,5376,5603,21706,635,405,403,50,5226,5225,5228,5227,12357,3546,19818,27384,1194,6003,277,646,67,586,132,5230,68,2969,8572,8576,636],"class_list":{"0":"post-35389","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-new-york","8":"tag-abuse","9":"tag-america","10":"tag-barack","11":"tag-barack-obama","12":"tag-death","13":"tag-death-u0026-tragedy","14":"tag-discrimination","15":"tag-discrimination-u0026-identity-relations","16":"tag-donald","17":"tag-donald-trump","18":"tag-identity","19":"tag-issues","20":"tag-lgbtq","21":"tag-lgbtq-issues","22":"tag-new","23":"tag-new-york","24":"tag-new-york-city","25":"tag-news","26":"tag-newyork","27":"tag-newyorkcity","28":"tag-ny","29":"tag-nyc","30":"tag-obama","31":"tag-people","32":"tag-people-u0026-society","33":"tag-relations","34":"tag-society","35":"tag-tragedy","36":"tag-trump","37":"tag-u0026","38":"tag-united-states","39":"tag-united-states-of-america","40":"tag-unitedstates","41":"tag-unitedstatesofamerica","42":"tag-us","43":"tag-usa","44":"tag-violence","45":"tag-violence-u0026-abuse","46":"tag-york"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":"Validation failed: Text character limit of 500 exceeded"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35389","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35389"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35389\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35390"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}