{"id":362907,"date":"2025-11-07T20:06:30","date_gmt":"2025-11-07T20:06:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/362907\/"},"modified":"2025-11-07T20:06:30","modified_gmt":"2025-11-07T20:06:30","slug":"eulogizing-the-church-that-anchored-my-northwest-dallas-neighborhood-since-1953","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/362907\/","title":{"rendered":"Eulogizing the church that anchored my northwest Dallas neighborhood since 1953"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio:150 \/ 160\"   class=\"dmnc_images-modern-image-module__QFaG- max-w-full h-auto text-white dmnc_images-modern-image-module__9Zlll bg-gray-light object-contain\" width=\"150\" height=\"160\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/WESRFNJONZCZDPYZZAHCM6H2U4.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">A neighbor I\u2019d never met reached out this week to let me know of a looming loss in our part of town: Walnut Hill United Methodist Church, a fixture along Marsh Lane since President Dwight Eisenhower\u2019s first year in office. I\u2019d only been there twice \u2014 once, long ago, for a wedding; once, longer ago, for a funeral. But the news that it would not survive through the year\u2019s end hit hard.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Not just because I\u2019ve driven past it nearly every day for most of my 57 years; not just because it\u2019s there and always has been. But because Walnut Hill UMC has been a good neighbor to the countless parents who\u2019ve sent their children to <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.google.com\/llumc.org\/the-creative-school\/home\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Creative School<\/a> since the pre-school\u2019s founding 70 years ago; and to the kids at the nearby public schools mentored and clothed by its congregants; and to the residents a mile away for whom they helped build their own house of worship. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Walnut Hill UMC was nearly destroyed the night of Oct. 20, 2019, when the tornado that tore through our stretch of northwest Dallas <a href=\"https:\/\/maps.app.goo.gl\/jLj6VV5ZsTdxpwkp6\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">snapped off its steeple and shattered its stained glass and tore holes in its roof<\/a>. We watched, every day, as they rebuilt that single-aisle, wood-paneled sanctuary anchored by a nearly century-old organ, only to discover this week that its resurrection was little more than a temporary reprieve.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">\u201cWe are so heartbroken,\u201d said Marilynn Darter, a congregant since 2003. \u201cI was in tears Sunday. It was horrible. It was just\u201d \u2014 a pause \u2014 \u201cawful. Just very, very emotional. Everyone was hugging each other, asking each other, \u2018Is this real?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3784 \/ 2659\"   class=\"dmnc_images-modern-image-module__QFaG- max-w-full h-auto text-white dmnc_images-modern-image-module__9Zlll bg-gray-light object-contain\" width=\"3784\" height=\"2659\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/A3GSXG52X5FOPHKIQK7RBWE6GM.JPG\" alt=\"The steeple at Walnut Hill United Methodist Church was shorn off by the tornado that...\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The steeple at Walnut Hill United Methodist Church was shorn off by the tornado that devastated much of northwest Dallas on Oct. 20, 2019. It was eventually replaced, its reconstruction overseen by longtime church member Don Moulton.<\/p>\n<p>Robert Wilonsky<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Congregants were informed of the church\u2019s closure on Oct. 30, in a long email and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/WalnutHillChurchDallas\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook post<\/a> that began with the ending: \u201cWorship and other church ministries will conclude at the Walnut Hill campus by the end of the year.\u201d The closure was initially set for Nov. 30, until congregants talked church leaders into keeping it open for one more \u2014 one final \u2014 Christmas Eve. Perhaps there\u2019s some poetry to be found in celebrating a birth with a funeral.<\/p>\n<p>Opinion<\/p>\n<p class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__3beff secondaryRoman secondaryRoman-20 text-center text-gray-dark\">Get smart opinions on the topics North Texans care about.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__8MgJa flex flex-wrap text-gray-dark secondaryRoman secondaryRoman-10 text-center justify-center\">By signing up, you agree to our\u00a0<a class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__lU9-l border-b border-gray-dark hover_border-0 focus_border-0 active_border-0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/help\/terms-of-service\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Terms of Service<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__lU9-l border-b border-gray-dark hover_border-0 focus_border-0 active_border-0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/help\/privacy-policy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Privacy Policy.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">There are plenty of studies and stories about &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/commongoodmag.com\/the-potentially-tragic-end-of-neighborhood-churches\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Potentially Tragic End of Neighborhood Churches<\/a>&#8221; to suggest this was inevitable. Houses of worship constructed during the suburban boom of the 1950s and \u201960s are expensive to maintain, more so as their congregants flee to the faraway megachurches serving salvation with spectacle. Eric Folkerth, the senior pastor of Kessler Park UMC, said he\u2019s seen it all over town, the punishing reality of trying to maintain older buildings with depleting congregants and coffers. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">\u201cEveryone is working hard to stay afloat,\u201d he told me. \u201cI don\u2019t think the public understands how hard it is to sustain a neighborhood church.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Buddy Smith, the longtime head usher at Walnut Hill UMC whose parents were among the nondenominational Creative School\u2019s original benefactors, said hundreds once filled each of the church\u2019s two Sunday morning services that have been trimmed back to one. Now, the 68-year-old drives from Bent Tree every Sunday to greet maybe 60, 70 people entering the sanctuary that has long been a favorite of couples wanting to exchange vows in \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wedding-spot.com\/venue\/12901\/walnut-hill-united-methodist-church\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a beautiful retreat<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3024 \/ 4032\"   class=\"dmnc_images-modern-image-module__QFaG- max-w-full h-auto text-white dmnc_images-modern-image-module__9Zlll bg-gray-light object-contain\" width=\"3024\" height=\"4032\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/N4QO63N34FEHZOBXXNDQ3R46D4.jpeg\" alt=\"Where once hundreds packed services at Walnut Hill United Methodist Church, now dozens come...\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Where once hundreds packed services at Walnut Hill United Methodist Church, now dozens come on Sunday mornings.<\/p>\n<p>Courtesy Don Moulton<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Months after the tornado and in the midst of the pandemic, when the church held services in its parking lot, Walnut Hill UMC merged with the much larger Lovers Lane United Methodist Church at Northwest Highway and Inwood Road, which is also home to the private Wesley Prep. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.peoplenewspapers.com\/2020\/09\/01\/better-together-lovers-lane-walnut-hill-umc-combine-forces\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">A consultant recommended the move<\/a> in June 2020, as the merger allowed the churches to combine membership \u2014 and bank accounts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">But that lifeline seems to have only delayed the inevitable. Eddie Rester, who in April became lead pastor at Lovers Lane United Methodist, sent that email last week about Walnut Hill UMC\u2019s closing, along with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=zDYxuPIMtOM\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a video in which he lamented the decision<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">\u201cOver the past several months, we have prayed, listened, and sought wisdom from other multi-site congregations,\u201d he wrote. \u201cWhile this is a hard step, we believe it is the right one \u2014 not an ending, but the closing of one chapter and the beginning of another as we come together fully as one church family at Lovers Lane.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Rester said in his email that The Creative School will need to find a new home when classes end next spring; he warned, too, of the \u201ceventual sale\u201d of the buildings and property. Congregants with whom I spoke worry it will go to the developers <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/opinion\/commentary\/2025\/03\/12\/wilonsky-5-years-after-tornado-a-tale-of-2-cities-in-northwest-dallas\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">now constructing new homes on the old Dallas County government building site<\/a> next door and along Betty Jane Lane behind the church, the latter <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/opinion\/commentary\/2025\/08\/22\/wilonsky-is-planting-50-homes-on-4-acres-the-right-way-to-solve-dallas-housing-shortage\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a contentious case<\/a> that goes to the Dallas City Council this Wednesday.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3024 \/ 4032\"   class=\"dmnc_images-modern-image-module__QFaG- max-w-full h-auto text-white dmnc_images-modern-image-module__9Zlll bg-gray-light object-contain\" width=\"3024\" height=\"4032\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/SHQXC6GGUVBDBOTAGMJ4JID35I.JPG\" alt=\"The stained glass windows at Walnut Hill United Methodist were carved in the early 1960s by...\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The stained glass windows at Walnut Hill United Methodist were carved in the early 1960s by a Fort Worth man who used the windows to tell the story of The Bible.<\/p>\n<p>Robert Wilonsky<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">\u201cTo drive by the church one Sunday and find it flattened,\u201d Smith told me, \u201cwould be crushing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Rester declined an interview request; so, too, did Walnut Hill UMC\u2019s new senior pastor Charles Robinson, who in July became the church\u2019s first Black leader. He moved here from Waco just in time to deliver the church\u2019s eulogy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Groundbreaking was held on April 26, 1953, according to this newspaper\u2019s archives. A retired minister, Stanley Hayne, had spent three years surveying the area \u201cto establish the need for a Methodist Church there,\u201d after which the First Methodist Church decided to sponsor the fledgling congregation that first worshiped on the shores of Bachman Lake. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">The church, which cost $67,000 to construct, opened its doors two weeks before Christmas 1953 with a celebration attended by, among others, SMU\u2019s soon-to-be-president Willis Tate and a Methodist minister named Merrimon Cuninggim, then the dean of the university\u2019s Perkins School of Theology and <a href=\"https:\/\/digitalcollections.smu.edu\/digital\/collection\/perkins\/id\/366\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the man largely responsible for desegregation on the Hilltop<\/a>. Within a decade, church leaders built the large sanctuary along Marsh to accommodate the throngs that have thinned in recent years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Don Moulton, a 36-year member of the church and a former board member, reminded me this week that its congregants provide winter coats to students at Leonides Gonzalez Cigarroa, M.D. Elementary School on Webb Chapel Road, just a few blocks from <a href=\"https:\/\/fdcdallas.org\/our-history\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Christ\u2019s Foundry<\/a> \u2014 a Spanish-speaking church that Walnut Hill UMC helped fund and design in 2007. I didn\u2019t know until this week of the church\u2019s deep ties to my alma mater, Thomas Jefferson High School, where congregants have spent years funding teacher-appreciation events and teaching life skills to its homeless students \u2014 Adulting 101, it\u2019s called, said Principal Ben Jones. He didn\u2019t know until I called that the church would be closing at year\u2019s end.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">\u201cThese churches are ways we connect with our neighbors, and now there will be one less anchor that demonstrates to our students that this neighborhood supports them,\u201d said Jones, honored by the church during a Christmas Eve service two years ago. \u201cAny time a community loses a church, you lose a community anchor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A neighbor I\u2019d never met reached out this week to let me know of a looming loss in&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":362908,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5135],"tags":[5229,11890,1596,16213,26392,365,358,3187,67,586,132,5230,68,2969],"class_list":{"0":"post-362907","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-dallas","8":"tag-america","9":"tag-commentary","10":"tag-dallas","11":"tag-dallas-isd","12":"tag-northwest-dallas","13":"tag-religion","14":"tag-texas","15":"tag-tx","16":"tag-united-states","17":"tag-united-states-of-america","18":"tag-unitedstates","19":"tag-unitedstatesofamerica","20":"tag-us","21":"tag-usa"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/115510220560105274","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/362907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=362907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/362907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/362908"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=362907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=362907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=362907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}