{"id":367576,"date":"2025-11-09T19:59:13","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T19:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/367576\/"},"modified":"2025-11-09T19:59:13","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T19:59:13","slug":"dave-ramsey-caller-says-i-think-i-did-a-bit-of-a-boo-boo-after-honoring-wifes-dying-wish-now-hes-getting-remarried-wants-400k-back-from-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/367576\/","title":{"rendered":"Dave Ramsey Caller Says &#8216;I Think I Did a Bit of a Boo Boo&#8217; After Honoring Wife&#8217;s Dying Wish\u2014Now He&#8217;s Getting Remarried &#038; Wants $400K Back From Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">On &#8220;The Ramsey Show,&#8221; a caller from Ohio laid out one of the most <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/82dKMiaSdvk?si=38opa1L87ptpyzpJ\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:uncomfortable financial dilemmas;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">uncomfortable financial dilemmas<\/a> you&#8217;ll ever hear: &#8220;I think I did a bit of a boo-boo, Dave.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That &#8220;boo-boo&#8221;? Giving away 50% of his fully paid-off $800,000 home to his kids\u2014$400,000 in equity\u2014based on his late wife&#8217;s dying wish. Now that he&#8217;s getting remarried and planning to sell the house, he wants to know: can I undo it?<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Short answer? Legally, no.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t really in my right mind, and I signed it,&#8221; he admitted. His wife, who died of ovarian cancer, had wanted to leave their teenage daughter and college-aged son a financial legacy. So in the fog of grief, he added them to the deed via a quitclaim, handing over 25% each.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Don&#8217;t Miss:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Now, with the home listed and multiple buyers circling, the kids stand to pocket $200,000 apiece. The dad\u2014who&#8217;s planning a fresh start with a new partner in Atlanta\u2014says he&#8217;s worried the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/management\/25\/10\/48039321\/is-it-lunacy-to-keep-having-kids-while-on-government-assistance-dave-ramsey-says-hes-never-met-anyone-who-prospers-on-government-aid?nid=48742337&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:sudden windfall will teach the wrong lesson;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">sudden windfall will teach the wrong lesson<\/a>. &#8220;It&#8217;s not going to teach them the right things,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I feel like it&#8217;s going to be a problem for them rather than a blessing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He floated the idea of persuading them to sign the equity back.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That&#8217;s when <strong>Dave Ramsey<\/strong> cut to the chase: &#8220;If you can persuade them without them thinking their dad&#8217;s a dog, that&#8217;s the issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Ramsey made it clear\u2014there&#8217;s no legal route to reverse the transfer. &#8220;You can&#8217;t go in before the judge and go, \u2018Your Honor, we want you to reverse this because I really wasn&#8217;t thinking clearly.&#8217; That one won&#8217;t work.&#8221; He added, &#8220;I think they got the money, dude. I think you screwed up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Trending: From Moxy Hotels to $12B in Real Estate \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/lightstone?nid=48742337&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:The Firm Behind NYC&#039;s Trendiest Properties Is Letting Individual Investors In.;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>The Firm Behind NYC&#8217;s Trendiest Properties Is Letting Individual Investors In.<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The caller asked outright, &#8220;Is it wrong for me to persuade them and get counsel to reverse that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That&#8217;s when co-host<strong> Ken Coleman<\/strong> stepped in with the bigger picture: &#8220;Do you want your kids thinking that you&#8217;re greedy? That&#8217;s the risk.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The dad answered quickly: &#8220;No, absolutely not.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Ramsey suggested an alternative approach\u2014spin it. &#8220;If you all don&#8217;t want me to handle this for you, because it was your mother&#8217;s dying wish, I understand that. I really think it&#8217;s unwise for you to get $200,000 as 18 years old. I&#8217;m your dad. I love you. And I think it&#8217;s gonna be a problem for you rather than a blessing. But I&#8217;m not going to go back on my word.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>See Also: This Jeff Bezos-backed startup will allow you to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/bezos-landlord-100-dollars?nid=48742337&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:become a landlord in just 10 minutes, with minimum investments as low as $100;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>become a landlord in just 10 minutes, with minimum investments as low as $100<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">At that point, the emotional tension was clear. &#8220;You&#8217;re fighting with angels,&#8221; Ramsey said, referring to the moral weight of honoring a late mother&#8217;s final wishes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The caller tried to clarify: he wasn&#8217;t trying to take all the money back, just rethink the decision. But with the kids &#8220;pretty bound and determined to get this money,&#8221; and no quitclaim reversal in sight, Ramsey left him with this: &#8220;You are going to step in a relationship hole here\u2014and rightly so.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The advice was sharp but fair: the money&#8217;s theirs. You gave it away. Unless they willingly hand it back, you&#8217;re stuck. 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