{"id":394909,"date":"2025-11-21T15:28:14","date_gmt":"2025-11-21T15:28:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/394909\/"},"modified":"2025-11-21T15:28:14","modified_gmt":"2025-11-21T15:28:14","slug":"on-trans-day-of-remembrance-community-reflects-on-those-lost-were-gonna-be-here-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/394909\/","title":{"rendered":"On Trans Day of Remembrance, community reflects on those lost: &#8216;We&#8217;re gonna be here forever&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ethan Vazquez walked with 20 others down North Halsted Street holding electric candles Thursday night during one of many Transgender Day of Remembrance celebrations held throughout the city.<\/p>\n<p>The day has been observed every Nov. 20 since 1999 as a way to honor members of the community who had died or been killed.<\/p>\n<p>There are \u201ctoo many [people] to choose from,\u201d said Vazquez, a trans man and lifelong Chicagoan.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s important just knowing there is support out there in times of grief \u2014 and that we won\u2019t forget,\u201d Vazquez said on the largely quiet mile walk.<\/p>\n<p>But this year\u2019s Day of Remembrance came amid an increasingly tough times for trans people: <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/health\/2025\/07\/31\/ui-health-suspends-gender-affirming-surgeries-for-patients-under-19\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Major Chicago health institutions dropping<\/a> trans youth care, federal threats to <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2025\/04\/10\/deerfield-school-board-meeting-draws-hundreds-voicing-support-for-trans-student\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">local schools<\/a> and <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/education\/2025\/09\/16\/feds-threaten-cps-magnet-school-grants-over-black-student-success-plan-treatment-of-trans-students\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">school systems<\/a> over support for trans students, and Supreme Court rulings <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2025\/06\/21\/protest-supreme-court-trans-healthcare-bans-minors\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">backing a gender care ban for youth<\/a> in Tennessee and <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/trump-transgender-nonbinary-passport-sex-marker-5040c6412e06a072889af30cfae97462\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">temporarily blocking accurate passports<\/a> for trans people.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis year we\u2019ve seen the real threat of the administration,\u201d Vazquez said. \u201cThe passport stuff is just the beginning, there\u2019s a real present threat where before it was just talk. It feels more urgent.<\/p>\n<p>In response, <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/health\/2025\/07\/29\/chicago-hospitals-are-scaling-back-trans-care-for-youth-a-rapid-response-team-is-stepping-in\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">rapid response health care teams<\/a> have stepped in to connect people to needed care, a <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2025\/08\/22\/pritzker-announces-first-of-its-kind-legal-help-line-for-lgbtq-illinoisans\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">state legal hotline was established<\/a> and <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2025\/06\/21\/protest-supreme-court-trans-healthcare-bans-minors\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">hundreds have taken to the streets to voice support<\/a> for the trans community.<\/p>\n<p>    <a class=\"AnchorLink\" id=\"gallery-b60001\" name=\"gallery-b60001\" data-cms-ai=\"0\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Around two dozen people including members of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence march along North Halsted Street with electric candles to commemorate Transgender Day of Remembrance, Thursday.<\/p>\n<p>                |<br \/>\n                Tyler Pasciak LaRiviere\/Sun-Times<\/p>\n<p>A woman writes names on Sister Auntie Gayme\u2019s Cloak of Remembrance at Centers on Halsted during Transgender Day of Remembrance event Thursday.<\/p>\n<p>                |<br \/>\n                Tyler Pasciak LaRiviere\/Sun-Times<\/p>\n<p>Members of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and others, including Ethan Vazquez (center), march along North Halsted Street with electric candles to commemorate Transgender Day of Remembrance, Thursday.<\/p>\n<p>                |<br \/>\n                Tyler Pasciak LaRiviere\/Sun-Times<\/p>\n<p>But even in Illinois \u2014 <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2025\/03\/12\/trans-people-facing-gender-affirming-care-bans-flee-to-illinois-shield-law-states\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">where many have fled<\/a> as persecution against them ramps up in other states \u2014 29 trans teens have died by suicide this year, according to a count by Trans Up Front Illinois, a volunteer, statewide trans youth advocacy group. That\u2019s compared to four last year, and six the year before that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis administration is targeting our children, they\u2019re trying to take the next generation,\u201d executive director of Trans Up Front Asher McMaher said. \u201cThese kids can\u2019t see the other side of it, so much has happened in not even a year, they can\u2019t fathom the next three years or beyond that. \u2026 The discrimination, even in our sanctuary state, is awful and people are emboldened by this administration.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The number is likely an undercount, as it only consists of cases reported to them.<\/p>\n<p>The Cook County Medical Examiner\u2019s office doesn\u2019t keep track of when someone dies is transgender. Some trans people are misgendered in death records because they did not change their documents, office officials said. Children being closeted, not having supportive families that would make their identity known to the public and families\u2019 fears of public backlash also can stop some from being reported, McMaher said.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s coincided with a sharp uptick in calls to the state\u2019s suicide hotline specifically geared toward LGBTQ+ youth, 988, which remains standing after the federal government shut down the nationwide version in June. Illinois\u2019 iteration has received more than 150,000 calls this year and is expected to surpass 180,000 by January \u2014 12,000 more than last year.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a pattern that has come with the expanding wave of legislation targeting trans people federally. According to a one study, states that passed anti-trans laws aimed at youth in recent years saw suicide attempts among trans teens increase by <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41562-024-01979-5.epdf?sharing_token=EbX7LsH7-AF5n99850vpnNRgN0jAjWel9jnR3ZoTv0PNveFlXHsicuqelg3jvg1Wcsju1CXHxspC9onbX6frEcU1-J5M25Ml5piLTNjBr959LGK7ejPr20VtTVSb18ArMlJnGNGgZYyU9CJQoJuUjN01H4VVGluDqO_epnWIg_A%3D\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">as much as 72%<\/a> after the bills were signed.<\/p>\n<p>Albie Gutierrez, a bilingual therapist with the Chicago Therapy Collective, said she has seen an increase in recent months for mental health care for trans patients, specifically those who are immigrants. The therapy group plans to expand its number of Spanish-speaking clinicians next year.<\/p>\n<p>Gutierrez was also a friend of <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2024\/03\/29\/trans-activist-elise-malary-street-naming-andersonville\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Elise Malary<\/a>, a Chicago Black trans activist who fought for economic justice for trans people locally, and was <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/news\/2022\/6\/16\/23171009\/elise-malary-evanston-trans-drowning-autopsy\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">found dead nearly three and a half years ago<\/a> in Evanston.<\/p>\n<p>Her manner of death <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/news\/2022\/6\/16\/23171009\/elise-malary-evanston-trans-drowning-autopsy\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">was never determined<\/a>, and Evanston police said there have been no updates in the case. Nearly <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/lgbtq\/2024\/07\/08\/murders-transgender-women-chicago-unsolved\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">86% of CPD cases involving the murder of trans women had not been resolved<\/a>, per a 2024 analysis of police data.<\/p>\n<p>Sitting between a mural of her friend and a crosswalk painted like a Progress Pride flag \u2014 which <a class=\"Link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.chron.com\/culture\/article\/texas-rainbow-crosswalk-removed-21097163.php\" target=\"_blank\" data-cms-ai=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">some states have moved to outlaw in recent months<\/a> \u2014 Gutierrez said what keeps her moving is knowing it\u2019s what Malary would\u2019ve wanted for her and others.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s always on my mind\u2026 as are all the siblings who have passed throughout the years,\u201d Gutierrez said. \u201cI know they would want me to continue living and loving.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>McMaher said their organization\u2019s biggest goal is to be visible in fighting for trans youth to inspire hope for the future, as past generations did before them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe are just trying to let them know we are still fighting for them and they deserve to grow up,\u201d McMaher said. \u201cOur ancestors and elders paved the way for us, and we\u2019re paving the way for the next generation. \u2026 We\u2019re gonna be here forever. 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