{"id":398114,"date":"2025-11-23T01:37:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-23T01:37:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/398114\/"},"modified":"2025-11-23T01:37:12","modified_gmt":"2025-11-23T01:37:12","slug":"theres-no-dignity-in-the-way-hes-behaving-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/398114\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;There&#8217;s No Dignity In The Way He&#8217;s Behaving Now&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A caller named Angela from New Mexico asked &#8220;The Ramsey Show&#8221; for help managing her husband&#8217;s unpaid child-support debt.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=LCnmJ88ohpY\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:said;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">said <\/a>he has three children with three women, owes $58,000 in back support, and does not earn enough to address it. Personal finance host <strong>Dave Ramsey<\/strong> heard the details and said during the broadcast, &#8220;There&#8217;s no dignity in the way he&#8217;s behaving now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Income Gap Deepens Household Pressure<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Angela told Ramsey she earns $17 an hour working full-time, bringing in about $35,000 a year. She said they have an additional $5,000 in debt, including a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/management\/25\/10\/47980976\/wife-shocked-7-5k-saved-for-car-was-loaned-to-mother-in-law-i-dont-understand-why-were-not-seriously-inquiring-about-cars-and-buying-one?nid=49021341&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:car loan;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">car loan<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Don&#8217;t Miss:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Her husband tried launching a landscaping business in April, but she said it brings in only $500 to $1,000 a month and slows down as the weather changes. She said the income is not steady and does not cover the obligations piling up around them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ramsey responded that the math does not support their current approach. He said her husband &#8220;needs to get his income up 10x&#8221; to meet the responsibilities already in place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Angela said he stays home with their two children, but during school hours, &#8220;he&#8217;s not really doing much,&#8221; outside of trying to market the business. Ramsey said the effort does not match the size of the debt and told her the issue has grown far beyond a budgeting strategy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Trending: 7 Million Gamers Already Trust Gameflip With Their Digital Assets \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/gameflip-v2?nid=49021341&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Now You Can Own a Stake in the Platform;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Now You Can Own a Stake in the Platform<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Back Support Debt Raises Legal Risks<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Angela said she worries about choosing one child over another if they tried using a debt-snowball method to pay the arrears.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ramsey said the real problem is the lack of income behind the obligations. He told her the unpaid support involves &#8220;a guy that owes $58,000 for three children that he&#8217;s not taking care of,&#8221; and said the situation requires immediate action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She said authorities have already shown up at their home, and her husband&#8217;s driver&#8217;s license has been revoked. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/management\/25\/11\/48897743\/hes-the-problem-shes-the-symptom-dave-ramsey-says-after-25-year-old-husband-let-his-mom-write-their-budget-and-called-his-wife-childish?nid=49021341&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Ramsey;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Ramsey<\/a> said many states step in when parents fall behind and warned that ignoring the issue increases the chance of legal trouble.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He told her the pattern she described reflects &#8220;a series of behaviors&#8221; that prevent him from supporting his children, contributing financially, or stabilizing their household. He added that her concern for the children &#8220;in a moral good way&#8221; stands out compared to her husband&#8217;s current direction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>See Also: Wall Street&#8217;s $12B Real Estate Manager Is Opening Its Doors to Individual Investors \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/lightstone?nid=49021341&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Without the Crowdfunding Middlemen;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Without the Crowdfunding Middlemen<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ramsey Calls For Community Support And New Habits<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ramsey said the arrears are a symptom of deeper problems, including stalled routines and a lack of direction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He said her husband needs to rebuild his habits with support from strong community voices and suggested finding a local church with a pastor who can guide him. 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