DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a 42-year-old woman who has been working hard to get healthier for myself and for my son. We have gone to the gym together multiple times a week, and are modifying our diet.\t<\/p>\n
I am happy to say the work has paid off: I have dropped clothing sizes, and people have started noticing. I have had quite a few \u201cWow, you have lost weight\u201d comments from co-workers, and have started to get comments, questions and even assumptions that I must be using weight loss drugs.\t<\/p>\n
I am finding it hard to respond without being disrespectful to those who maybe are on such drugs. So far, I have just said I have never tried any meds, but I keep getting asked, so I don\u2019t think I am believed. What would be a better response?\t<\/p>\n
GENTLE READER: You do not have to justify something that should not be commented upon in the first place. That your answer is not believed by these nosy, impertinent people is insulting. <\/p>\n
Miss Manners suggests you continue to acknowledge what they believe to be a compliment and stop answering when they get intrusive (or even before). Eventually the novelty of you looking fit will wear off, and they can pry into the details of someone else\u2019s health and beauty regiment. <\/p>\n
(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com<\/a>; to her email, dearmissmanners@gmail.com<\/a>; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)<\/p>\n COPYRIGHT 2025 JUDITH MARTIN<\/p>\n DISTRIBUTED BY ANDREWS MCMEEL SYNDICATION<\/p>\n 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106; 816-581-7500<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a 42-year-old woman who has been working hard to get healthier for myself…\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":460809,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[210355,210356,2385,1728,190566,116471,1198,31275,210,1005,210357,72604,12038,1060,112657,10943,54075,210358,2824,11260,210359,1241,31278,1236,1926,67,132,68,17070,11459,18386],"class_list":{"0":"post-460808","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-medication","8":"tag-20-24-years","9":"tag-20s","10":"tag-day","11":"tag-exercise","12":"tag-exercising","13":"tag-female","14":"tag-fitness","15":"tag-full-length","16":"tag-health","17":"tag-horizontal","18":"tag-horizontal-image","19":"tag-jogging","20":"tag-leisure","21":"tag-medication","22":"tag-obese","23":"tag-obesity","24":"tag-one-person","25":"tag-one-young-woman-only","26":"tag-outdoors","27":"tag-outside","28":"tag-overweight","29":"tag-path","30":"tag-rear-view","31":"tag-running","32":"tag-sport","33":"tag-united-states","34":"tag-unitedstates","35":"tag-us","36":"tag-wellbeing","37":"tag-woman","38":"tag-young-woman"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/115753967243568853","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=460808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460808\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/460809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=460808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=460808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=460808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}