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Amber Martin <\/strong>\u2191 What brings you to Caf\u00e9 Carlyle today?<\/strong> Can you tell me about your outfit? Emmet McDermott<\/strong><\/p>\n Hospitality entrepreneur, Greenwich Village<\/p>\n Rufus Wainwright<\/strong><\/p>\n Singer-songwriter, Los Angeles, California<\/p>\n What goes on in the downtime between your performances?<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s quite an undertaking to do five shows in a row, so I need to rest my voice. For the first three days, I didn\u2019t leave the hotel, just ordered room service and watched TV and ate jelly beans and M&M\u2019s. But I ventured out today and went to the Frick, which was incredible.<\/p>\n Peter Vaz<\/strong><\/p>\n Environmental consultant, Carroll Gardens<\/p>\n Jim Hedges<\/strong><\/p>\n Curator and collector, Los Angeles, California<\/p>\n Jazeel Syed<\/strong><\/p>\n Management consultant, Woodstock, Georgia<\/p>\n Who are you here with tonight?<\/strong><\/p>\n My wife. We\u2019ve been married almost 39 years. We fell in love, and we pretty much got engaged and married within eight weeks.<\/p>\n Judith Fi\ufeffshman<\/strong><\/p>\n Board chairman, Brooklyn Heights<\/p>\n Jill Pearson<\/strong><\/p>\n Producer, Toronto, Canada<\/p>\n Jeanluc Constant<\/strong><\/p>\n Private-wealth adviser, Upper East Side<\/p>\n How\u2019s life on the Upper East Side?<\/strong><\/p>\n We moved here from Michigan mainly for work. My wife was a captain for the Detroit Lions cheer team, and she finished out her career. Then we had kids, and I genuinely believe raising kids in the city is awesome. They\u2019re exposed to different elements and the highest of highs to the lowest of lows.<\/p>\n Bradley\ufeff Patchett<\/strong><\/p>\n Broadway actor, Bushwick<\/p>\n Tina Vaz<\/strong><\/p>\n Director of arts and design, Carroll Gardens<\/p>\n Madeline Brock<\/strong><\/p>\n Stay-at-home mom, Upper East Side<\/p>\n Have you been here before?<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes! I had my daughter in May, and my mom was staying at the Carlyle for a month. I\u2019d been cooped up for two weeks, and at week three we were like, \u201cLet\u2019s go to Caf\u00e9 Carlyle to see a show.\u201d Now that I\u2019m looking back at it, that\u2019s actually insane. My daughter slept the entire show and woke up so bright-eyed and bushy while we were two martinis deep.<\/p>\n leonita Gashi<\/strong><\/p>\n Event planner and actress, Chinatown<\/p>\n Noah J. Ricketts<\/strong><\/p>\n Broadway and television actor, Lower East Side<\/p>\n Margot Hauer-King<\/strong><\/p>\n Hospitality entrepreneur, Chelsea<\/p>\n As a bar owner, where do you like to go out?<\/strong><\/p>\n I love a dinner at Raf\u2019s, and I have a real soft spot for the Boom Boom Room. It\u2019s having a bit of a comeback.<\/p>\n Sam Golub<\/strong><\/p>\n Business owner, Sunnyside<\/p>\n Mary Elizabeth Hahnfeld<\/strong><\/p>\n Real-estate investor, Houston, Texas<\/p>\n Anne Tait<\/strong><\/p>\n Retiree, Sag Harbor<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n How do you spend your time?<\/strong><\/p>\n In the summer, it\u2019s all about my garden. There\u2019s no grass; it\u2019s all pebbles. It\u2019s low maintenance. I have a little pool. It\u2019s very charming.<\/p>\n David Bator<\/strong><\/p>\n Managing director, Toronto, Canada<\/p>\n \n Photographs by Frankie Alduino\n <\/p>\n Thank you for subscribing and supporting our journalism. Want more stories like this one? Subscribe now<\/a>
Singer, Hell\u2019s Kitchen<\/p>\n
I\u2019m here to see my friend Rufus! We\u2019ve been friends for about 18 years. He\u2019s on my album, and we sing a duet on a song he wrote for my record, which I brought tonight on vinyl to give to him. But he doesn\u2019t know it yet.<\/p>\n
<\/strong>I don\u2019t mean to be a name-dropper, but I\u2019m friends with Parker Posey. I was at her house upstate visiting and she goes, \u201cI got something for you. Come upstairs.\u201d And so I ran upstairs. We\u2019re both southern girls and we\u2019re both just a couple years apart and we\u2019re both Scorpios, so she\u2019s like my sis. She throws this caftan at me and goes, \u201cThis is for you. It\u2019s a red-carpet look.\u201d And I\u2019m like, \u201cWell, thank you, Ms. Pose, I\u2019ll take it.\u201d And so I put it on and then she goes, \u201cNo, no, no. It needs something.\u201d And she\u2019s giving me accessories and I\u2019m like, Golly! So now what am I going to give her? My love and affection? But she\u2019s a very generous friend.<\/p>\n
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