{"id":511468,"date":"2026-01-12T19:06:09","date_gmt":"2026-01-12T19:06:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/511468\/"},"modified":"2026-01-12T19:06:09","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T19:06:09","slug":"chinas-are-you-dead-app-checks-in-on-growing-cohort-of-people-living-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/511468\/","title":{"rendered":"China\u2019s \u2018Are You Dead?\u2019 app checks in on growing cohort of people living alone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Unlock the Editor\u2019s Digest for free<\/p>\n<p class=\"article__content-sign-up-topic-description o3-type-body-base\">Roula Khalaf, Editor of the FT, selects her favourite stories in this weekly newsletter.<\/p>\n<p>An app called \u201cAre You Dead?\u201d that checks up on people living alone has become the most popular paid Apple Store download in China, a sign of concerns created by the country\u2019s rapidly changing demographics.<\/p>\n<p>The app, called Sile Me in Chinese, requires users to \u201ccheck in\u201d by pressing a button. If they fail to do so over two consecutive days, the app sends a message to an emergency contact nominated by the user. <\/p>\n<p>Are You Dead? has gone viral as an increasing cohort of Chinese young people are choosing to live alone rather than get married and have a family. Meanwhile, a growing number of elderly people are being left isolated in their homes without relatives nearby to care for them.<\/p>\n<p>Wei-Jun Jean Yeung, an expert in social demography at the National University of Singapore, said there was a genuine need for apps that assist people living alone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs fertility drops, life expectancy gets longer, marriages decline and divorce rates keep going up\u2009.\u2009.\u2009.\u2009all of these are creating the trend of one-person households,\u201d Yeung said. \u201cThe concern is real.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>China recorded its <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/516f9c37-b9a8-44b1-8e64-10e582f7d5ae\" title=\"\" data-trackable=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">third consecutive year<\/a> of population decline in 2024. In 2023, it ceded the title of the world\u2019s largest country to India.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/https:\/\/d1e00ek4ebabms.cloudfront.net\/production\/c8caec2b-1f0a-4b12-9f87-4645118acc4d.jpg\" alt=\"A hand holding a smartphone displaying an app screen with a large green button labelled \u2018Check in today\u2019.\" data-image-type=\"image\" width=\"2288\" height=\"1526\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>The app requires users to \u2018check in\u2019 by pressing a button and notifies an emergency contact if they fail to do so for two days \u00a9 FT montage\/Farknotp\/Dreamstime<\/p>\n<p>More elderly people are living alone while there are fewer younger people to take care of them, particularly in rural areas that have seen many working-age people migrate to the cities. <\/p>\n<p>An increasing number of young people, meanwhile, are choosing to stay single and live alone or are getting married later and having fewer children. <\/p>\n<p>The percentage of single-person households in China rose to 19.5 per cent in 2024 compared with 7.8 per cent two decades earlier, according to the National Bureau of Statistics. <\/p>\n<p>One of the three young co-creators of the app, who identified himself only as Lyu, told local media its target users were young people living alone in the biggest cities, especially young women around the age of 25. <\/p>\n<p>These people were likely to \u201cexperience a strong sense of loneliness due to the lack of people to communicate with\u2009.\u2009.\u2009.\u2009accompanied by\u2009.\u2009.\u2009.\u2009worries about unforeseen events occurring without anyone knowing\u201d, Lyu said.<\/p>\n<p>Biao Xiang of the Max Planck Institute for Social Anthropology said young Chinese were brought up to believe that if they single-mindedly pursued their goals, they would achieve success. But this vision has been dashed by a slowing economy and dwindling job opportunities. <\/p>\n<p>Signing up to the app was a way of expressing quiet pessimism, similar to other trends that have swept through the younger generation such as tang ping, or <a href=\"https:\/\/big5.ftchinese.com\/story\/001101771\/en?ccode=LanguageSwitch&amp;archive\" title=\"\" data-trackable=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201clying flat\u201d<\/a>, and bailan, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/cc3e25c3-a8a4-4b4c-9f0c-77cf0777fd4b\" title=\"\" data-trackable=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201clet it rot\u201d<\/a> that signal a ceasing to strive in the face of a hopeless situation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen they download this app, I would read that as a kind of collective installation art. Actually they are expressing a certain confusion and a certain anxiety,\u201d Xiang said.<\/p>\n<p>Many commentators, however, said the app might have greater practical relevance for elderly people, though the very old living in remote rural areas might struggle to use it. <\/p>\n<p>Yeung at NUS said this and similar apps, such as monitors on fridges and televisions that can sense if they were not being used regularly and then send an alarm to relatives, would become more important as the populations of China and other countries aged. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cLiving alone does not mean people need to be lonely but there is certainly that risk of becoming isolated from other parts of society. So there is a need to encourage people to connect and be socially engaged in a community,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"n-content-recommended__title o3-type-body-highlight\">Recommended<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/84d0a12c-6ba3-40fe-b7ce-c5cf1bad14ca\" data-trackable=\"image-link\" data-trackable-context-story-link=\"image-link\" tabindex=\"-1\" aria-hidden=\"true\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"o-teaser__image\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/__origami\/service\/image\/v2\/images\/raw\/https%3A%2F%2Fimages.ft.com%2Fv3%2Fimage%2Fraw%2Fhttps%253A%252F%252Fd1e00ek4ebabms.cloudfront.net%252Fproduction%252F31714b6d-7994-45fc-9a22-ceaeec187ed0.jpg%3Fsource%3Dnext-article%26fit%3Dscale-down%26quality%3Dhighest%26width%3D700%26dpr%3D1?source=next&amp;fit=scale-down&amp;dpr=2&amp;width=240\" alt=\"Paper figures dressed in patterned outfits, made as offerings for a Taoist funeral, displayed among colourful paper goods\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Local commentators praised the app but questioned the use of the word for death in its Chinese name. On Apple\u2019s international store it is listed under the name Demumu.<\/p>\n<p>Hu Xijin, a nationalist columnist, said: \u201cI suggest changing its name to \u2018Are You Alive?\u2019 as it would provide more psychological comfort for the elderly using it.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>But app creator Lyu said the present name was not intended to be \u201cbad\u201d. \u201cIt serves as a reminder for us to cherish the present,\u201d Lyu added.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Unlock the Editor\u2019s Digest for free Roula Khalaf, Editor of the FT, selects her favourite stories in this&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":511469,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[64,67,132,68],"class_list":{"0":"post-511468","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-business","8":"tag-business","9":"tag-united-states","10":"tag-unitedstates","11":"tag-us"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/115883696936412805","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/511468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=511468"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/511468\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/511469"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=511468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=511468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=511468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}