{"id":685260,"date":"2026-03-27T09:59:14","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T09:59:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/685260\/"},"modified":"2026-03-27T09:59:14","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T09:59:14","slug":"heather-graham-slams-awkward-new-reality-of-hollywood-sex-scenes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/685260\/","title":{"rendered":"Heather Graham slams \u2018awkward\u2019 new reality of Hollywood sex scenes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Heather Graham\u00a0shared mixed feelings about Hollywood\u2019s \u201cawkward\u201d new approach to filming sex scenes.<\/p>\n<p>Graham opened up about working with intimacy coordinators in the wake of the #MeToo Movement.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think the MeToo movement was amazing [and] I think there is a very good intention behind intimacy coordinators. But it is odd when you come up without having them, and suddenly there\u2019s this random person in the room just staring at you when you\u2019re, like, pretending you have sex,\u201d she told\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/heather-graham-says-intimacy-coordinators-can-be-awkward\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Us Weekly<\/a>. \u201cIt\u2019s kind of awkward.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know that they have a beautiful intention, and they really want to help and protect actors,\u201d Graham continued. \u201cBut as the actor, sometimes I\u2019m like, \u2018Can you just get all these people out of the room?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Actress Graham opened up about working with intimacy coordinators in the wake of the #MeToo Movement. Heather Graham \/ Instagram<\/p>\n<p>Graham, who starred in\u00a0\u201cBoogie Nights,\u201d\u00a0slammed the \u201cconfusing\u201d new reality of filming sex scenes. She recalled a moment on set when she felt an intimacy coordinator overstepped.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne time, I had an intimacy coordinator, and they started directing me on, like, how to have sex in a scene,\u201d Graham remembered. \u201cThey were like, \u2018When you do this, you can do this.\u2019 And I was like, \u2018You\u2019re not the director, OK? I\u2019m not asking for notes on how to have sex in the scene.&#8217;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just felt, like, \u2018Shut up,\u2019\u201d she added. \u201cI\u2019m like, \u2018You can just tell this to the director\u2026 because I don\u2019t want to have two different people directing me.\u2019 It\u2019s confusing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Graham\u00a0said she had mixed feelings about Hollywood\u2019s \u201cawkward\u201d new approach to filming sex scenes. Getty Images for SiriusXM<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne time, I had an intimacy coordinator, and they started directing me on, like, how to have sex in a scene,\u201d Graham remembered.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were like, \u2018When you do this, you can do this.\u2019 And I was like, \u2018You\u2019re not the director, OK? I\u2019m not asking for notes on how to have sex in the scene.&#8217;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just felt, like, \u2018Shut up,\u2019\u201d she added. \u201cI\u2019m like, \u2018You can just tell this to the director\u2026 because I don\u2019t want to have two different people directing me.\u2019 It\u2019s confusing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Graham began her career with small roles in commercials and TV before landing teen films such as \u201cLicense to Drive\u201d and \u201cDrugstore Cowboy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Graham, who starred in\u00a0\u201cBoogie Nights,\u201d\u00a0slammed the \u201cconfusing\u201d new reality of filming sex scenes. She recalled a moment on set when she felt an intimacy coordinator overstepped. RLJE Films<\/p>\n<p>She saw her breakthrough with \u201cBoogie Nights,\u201d \u201cAustin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me\u201d and \u201cBowfinger.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Graham landed a role in the blockbuster film \u201cThe Hangover\u201d in 2009. She has since continued acting in films and TV while also expanding into writing and directing projects. Her latest film, \u201cThey Will Kill You,\u201d will be released on March 27.<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cKilling Me Softly\u201d star explained she feels confident enough after a decades-long career to not need the help of an\u00a0intimacy coordinator.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt might be better if you\u2019re younger and don\u2019t know how to stand for yourself and speak up for yourself,\u201d the 56-year-old actress said. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt this point, I feel like I\u2019m strong enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo I just don\u2019t want a lot of extra people in the room.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Heather Graham\u00a0shared mixed feelings about Hollywood\u2019s \u201cawkward\u201d new approach to filming sex scenes. 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