{"id":78388,"date":"2025-07-20T16:12:13","date_gmt":"2025-07-20T16:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/78388\/"},"modified":"2025-07-20T16:12:13","modified_gmt":"2025-07-20T16:12:13","slug":"will-pope-leo-forge-greater-lgbtq-inclusion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/78388\/","title":{"rendered":"Will Pope Leo forge greater LGBTQ inclusion?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With a mix of curiosity and a little apprehension, the man stepped inside Our Lady of Mount Carmel in East Lakeview to celebrate Mass on a recent Sunday. <\/p>\n<p>It was the first time David Charles of Des Plaines had entered a church in roughly 20 years. <\/p>\n<p>During college he felt called to ministry, until his on-campus Methodist pastor in another state discovered he\u2019d been secretly dating a man. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn no unclear terms he said, \u2018You either stop this now or this is where our road ends,\u201d Charles recalled. \u201cSo I said, \u2018This is where our road ends.\u2019 And that was that. It was devastating \u2026 like a path was taken from me.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Ever since, Charles felt like a nomad without a spiritual home, yearning for the religious community and collective worship he had left behind. <\/p>\n<p>Yet at Our Lady of Mount Carmel, he found an acceptance and inclusion he couldn\u2019t have envisioned two decades prior. <\/p>\n<p>The July 13 Mass was organized by the Catholic Archdiocese of Chicago\u2019s LGBTQ+ outreach ministry, AGLO Chicago, with special prayers dedicated to family members, friends and allies of the queer community. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cAGLO Chicago invites parents, family and friends of the LGBTQ+ community to join them to understand what it means to be LGBTQ+ and Catholic, and for those who are struggling to reconcile and unify these sometimes-competing identities,\u201d an invitation to the service stated. \u201cParents and family members may quietly grapple with questions of faith, identity and belonging when a loved one comes out as LGBTQ+.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>The mood at the church was an odd blend of optimism and worry, emanating from the state of Catholicism as well as national politics: Many worshippers conveyed hope that newly elected <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/05\/18\/pope-leo-xiv-inaugural-mass-vatican\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pope Leo XIV<\/a> \u2014 a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/05\/08\/robert-prevost-chicago-pope-xiv\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Chicago native<\/a> who preaches bridge-building and social justice \u2014 will forge greater LGBTQ+ inclusion in the worldwide church. <\/p>\n<p>At the same time, some described a growing fear for the queer community as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/06\/30\/pride-under-attack\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Trump administration<\/a> attempts to rescind various LGBTQ+ rights and protections, often using <a href=\"https:\/\/digitaledition.chicagotribune.com\/tribune\/article_popover.aspx?guid=ad6fb98d-2803-48f4-a8ce-1784c0055a54\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Christian or biblical rhetoric<\/a> to support these policies. <\/p>\n<p>The recent liturgical service at Our Lady of Mount Carmel focused on family and friends of LGBTQ+ Catholics because so many parents and relatives have relayed trepidation at the increasing hostility of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/06\/21\/lgbtq-community-protests-skrmetti-ban\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">national climate<\/a>, said Rick Guasco, co-director of AGLO Chicago. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey want them to feel safe and feel accepted by the church,\u201d he said. \u201cThey want them to still feel connected to the faith they grew up in. What better way to send that message than to have a Mass that recognizes our families?\u201d <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" lazyautosizes lazyload\" alt=\"Matt Peterson, from left, Inigo Curran and Carlos Gonzalez attend an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)\" width=\"5690\" data- src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/ctc-l-lgbtq-outreach-mass-15_231365882-e1752871983182.jpg\" data-attachment-id=\"25283279\" \/>Matt Peterson, from left, Inigo Curran and Carlos Gonzalez attend an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)<\/p>\n<p>As worshippers bowed their heads, the Rev. Andy Matijevic offered a special prayer for the LGBTQ+ community and their loved ones. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cShower your blessings on these families gathered here in your name,\u201d he said. \u201cEnable those who are joined by one love to support one another by their fervor of spirit and devotion to prayer.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>The words made Charles tear up. <\/p>\n<p>In the wood pew, he sat next to his fiance Philip Odango, who was raised Catholic. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have been, I feel like, building up to this moment,\u201d Odango said. \u201cBecause we have very deep conversations about faith and spirituality.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Even as the United Methodist Church made great strides toward LGBTQ+ inclusivity and reconciliation \u2014 lifting the denomination\u2019s longtime bans on gay marriage and clergy in 2024 \u2014 Charles said his wounds have remained. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot only was I ousted but I was trying in my own way, however I could, just to provide counsel to other queer people who were being told similar things,\u201d he recalled. <\/p>\n<p>Three days before Mass, the couple searched the terms \u201cgay\u201d and \u201cCatholic Church\u201d online, which led them to AGLO Chicago and the service at Our Lady of Mount Carmel. AGLO Chicago, which was founded in 1988, celebrates Mass weekly at Our Lady of Mount Carmel. <\/p>\n<p>The simple act of walking side-by-side down the aisle of the English Gothic-style church and facing a Carrara marble altar proved empowering for the couple. <\/p>\n<p>Stained glass images of archangels, known as protectors of humanity and messengers from God, loomed overhead in the apse. A pipe organ accompanied the liturgical service\u2019s hymns. <\/p>\n<p>Odango was encouraged earlier this month when a Vatican official indicated Pope Leo will continue to allow blessings for same-sex couples, which were first approved through a landmark and controversial <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2023\/12\/18\/pope-approves-blessings-for-same-sex-couples-if-they-dont-resemble-marriage\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">declaration<\/a> of his predecessor Pope Francis in 2023. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne of the things I think everyone loved about Pope Francis was leading with humility,\u201d Odango said. \u201cWe\u2019re hoping Pope Leo will continue that journey of leading with humility. \u2026 I\u2019m hopeful Pope Leo will continue to be inclusive.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Same-sex blessings were an important first step, Odango said. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t foresee it quite yet where we\u2019re getting a marriage certificate through the church,\u201d he said. <\/p>\n<p>But one can dream, Charles added. <\/p>\n<p>\u2018Hear our prayer\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Through a series of petitions, worshippers at Our Lady of Mount Carmel prayed that the church serves as an instrument of healing rather than hurt; of reconciliation rather than division. <\/p>\n<p>That fear, judgment, apathy and walls to this healing will be replaced with attentiveness and care. <\/p>\n<p>And that all who are in need of God\u2019s healing touch \u2014 especially those in the LGBTQ+ community \u2014 will find welcome in the living body of Christ and the church. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cLord, hear our prayer,\u201d they responded in unison after each supplication. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" lazyautosizes lazyload\" alt=\"Rick Guasco speaks to attendees during an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)\" width=\"5400\" data- src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/ctc-l-lgbtq-outreach-mass-05_231365724-e1752872371724.jpg\" data-attachment-id=\"25288700\" \/>Rick Guasco, co-director of AGLO Chicago, speaks to attendees during an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)<\/p>\n<p>In the group\u2019s May newsletter, AGLO Chicago co-director Angelina Rossi welcomed Pope Leo XIV\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/05\/09\/pope-leo-robert-prevost-blase-cupich\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">May 8 election,<\/a> noting that his first message to the world from the loggia of St. Peter\u2019s Basilica began with the words \u201cpeace be with you all.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe asked that we be a church with open arms for everyone and that he believes in dialogue, love, and charity, especially to those who are suffering,\u201d she wrote in the article. \u201cWe hope he is including the LGBTQ+ Catholic community in there as well.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>So far, his stance on LGBTQ+ inclusion has been complicated. <\/p>\n<p>In 2012, as the Augustinian prior general in Chicago, he made <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/05\/09\/robert-prevost-lgbtq\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">critical statements<\/a> of what he referred to as the \u201chomosexual lifestyle\u201d as well as the media\u2019s promotion of acceptance of same-sex marriage, which is in conflict with Catholic doctrine. <\/p>\n<p>A little over a week into his papacy, he upheld that family is \u201cfounded upon the stable union between a man and a woman\u201d during his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2025\/05\/16\/pope-leo-lgbtq\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">first meeting<\/a> with the Vatican diplomatic corps. <\/p>\n<p>Yet many LGBTQ+ advocates were heartened earlier this month when the head of the Vatican\u2019s doctrine office told Italian media that the blessing of same-sex couples <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncronline.org\/vatican\/vatican-news\/gay-blessings-will-remain-under-pope-leo-vatican-doctrine-chief-says\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cwill remain\u201d<\/a> under Pope Leo. <\/p>\n<p>Under Pope Francis, the groundbreaking <a href=\"https:\/\/digitaledition.chicagotribune.com\/tribune\/article_popover.aspx?guid=aa1c48fe-c3c3-40b2-8a28-69200e77873f#:~:text=\" i=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">document<\/a> entitled \u201cFiducia Supplicans\u201d permitted blessings of people in same-sex relationships, so long as they\u2019re not confused or conflated with the ritual of marriage, while still maintaining the church\u2019s strict ban on gay marriage. <\/p>\n<p>The declaration, a hallmark of Pope Francis\u2019 decade-long outreach to LGBTQ+ Catholics, also faced <a href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/vatican-pope-samesex-blessings-e77a1a7c7e86ee330b97c5bd49e8b9c9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">great opposition<\/a> around the globe. Many Catholic leaders <a href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/vatican-pope-francis-samesex-blessings-baabeaf96ad180aa20e1df9fb4b4657e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rejected<\/a> the pope\u2019s stance, with bishops in Africa, Poland and other parts of the world refusing to implement the policy or barring their clergy from offering these blessings. <\/p>\n<p>Locally, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/2024\/06\/30\/chicago-same-sex-couple-blessed-catholic-church-vitriol\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">same-sex blessing<\/a> last year at St. Vincent de Paul Church in Lincoln Park drew much rebuke online. <\/p>\n<p>The religious order of the priest who performed the blessing later issued an apology for the way it took place, stating that same-sex blessings \u201cdo not equate to a wedding and should not employ the clothing and gestures that accompany a wedding.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am deeply sorry for any confusion and\/or anger that this has caused, particularly for the People of God,\u201d the priest said in the statement. <\/p>\n<p>The couple \u2014 two wives who were married in the Methodist church \u2014 said the apology didn\u2019t diminish the sacred nature of the blessing for them. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe want the Catholic Church to continue this ministry to the queer community because it is so important and so meaningful to people of faith,\u201d one of the wives, a Methodist pastor, told the Tribune last year. <\/p>\n<p>LGBTQ+ issues are still very controversial in the Catholic Church \u201cand there\u2019s a lot of room for the church to grow,\u201d said Jason Steidl Jack, assistant teaching professor of religious studies at St. Joseph\u2019s University in New York. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe church moves in centuries not in years,\u201d said Steidl Jack, a gay Catholic theologian. \u201cMost LGBTQ+ folks have not had experiences in Roman Catholicism where they are welcome. Where they are included. Where they\u2019re represented in parish life. For a long time, we\u2019ve been sort of shoved down into the basement.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>While Pope Leo has been more reserved and measured than Pope Francis, Steidl Jack predicts the new pope will continue in the trajectory of his predecessor. <\/p>\n<p>The professor believes the papal conclave selected Pope Leo to continue Pope Francis\u2019s \u201cagenda of synodality,\u201d a commitment to consultation and deep dialogue with global Catholics, particularly those who have been marginalized in the past. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe church is making strides at the grassroots level but also at the Vatican level, first under Pope Francis and now, God willing, under Pope Leo,\u201d he added. \u201cPope Francis started us out on a journey. And I believe Pope Leo is going to continue that.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Questions and answers<\/p>\n<p>The gospel reading during Mass told the parable of the good Samaritan who helped a Jewish stranger beaten by robbers and left for dead, even though Jews and Samaritans were enemies at the time.<\/p>\n<p>The story goes that religious leaders passed by without offering aid. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho was the neighbor?\u201d the church program said. \u201cThe one who treated him with mercy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The passage spoke to Guasco. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome people think that LGBTQ+ people can only be helped if they do this or that first. There\u2019s a requirement first in order to get that help and acceptance,\u201d he said, shaking his head. \u201cIf you don\u2019t meet someone where they are, if you don\u2019t help someone in the way they need to be helped, then what are you doing? Is it truly acceptance? Is it truly help?\u201d <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" lazyautosizes lazyload\" alt=\"The Rev. Andy Matijevic, center, and Angelina Rossi, right, answer questions after an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)\" width=\"5674\" data- src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/ctc-l-lgbtq-outreach-mass-21_231365980-e1752872518664.jpg\" data-attachment-id=\"25283274\" \/>The Rev. Andy Matijevic, center, and Angelina Rossi, right, answer questions after an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)<\/p>\n<p>After the service, some of the worshippers lingered for coffee and sweets \u2014 and a question-answer session with Matijevic, the priest, on LGBTQ+ issues and the Catholic Church. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery person is made with God\u2019s imprint,\u201d Matijevic told the room. \u201cNo matter who is made, God had made them. And we have to respect them, love them and care for them. Because all of us are on the same journey of life together. Because we are not meant to be alone.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>The crowd posed some difficult questions on theology, church politics and the future of LGBTQ+ inclusion. <\/p>\n<p>Will the trend of the Holy Father\u2019s openness to the LGBTQ+ community continue?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI would say yes. I hope Pope Leo will continue to be one of inclusion. I can\u2019t speak for the pope, but he is from Chicago, so \u2026\u201d Mtijevic said, shrugging and eliciting laughter from the room. <\/p>\n<p>How can we get Pope Leo to talk to advisers who are positive about LGBTQ+ matters? <\/p>\n<p>Another participant jokingly suggested contacting the pope\u2019s brother, who lives in the south suburbs, in the hopes that he\u2019ll pass along the message to his sibling. <\/p>\n<p>A church secretary from another Catholic parish requested advice on starting an LGBTQ+ ministry there. She noted that other local Christian churches offer LGBTQ+ outreach programs \u201cand do it really well.\u201d <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" lazyautosizes lazyload\" alt=\"The Rev. Andy Matijevic blesses Valentino Zubiri after an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)\" width=\"6000\" data- src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/ctc-l-lgbtq-outreach-mass-17_231365964.jpg\" data-attachment-id=\"25283277\" \/>The Rev. Andy Matijevic blesses Valentino Zubiri after an LGBTQ outreach mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on July 13, 2025, in Chicago. (Armando L. Sanchez\/Chicago Tribune)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want the Catholic church in the area to also say the same thing and have the same loving presence,\u201d she added. <\/p>\n<p>Recent polls show American Catholics tend to be largely accepting of LGBTQ+ people, rights and inclusion. <\/p>\n<p>A Pew Research Center 2023 to 2024 survey found that nearly three-quarters of Catholic adults believed homosexuality should be accepted by society and 70% supported same-sex marriage. <\/p>\n<p>More than three-quarters of Catholics said their fellow Catholics who identify as LGBTQ+ should be allowed to receive Communion and 65% said the church should allow openly gay men to be ordained, according to a 2022 Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research survey. <\/p>\n<p>Toward the end of the discussion at Our Lady of Mount Carmel, Charles asked a question that has plagued him for more than 20 years. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow is it that heterosexual marriage, which can be sanctioned by the church, is a blessing of God?\u201d he said. \u201cYet my love \u2014 which in my eyes is of no ill will or no ill intention, no malice \u2014 is not?\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cGod never left you,\u201d another man responded from across the room. \u201cThe church may have left you. And the church is playing catch-up.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>But God never left you, he repeated. <\/p>\n<p>The Associated Press contributed.<\/p>\n<p>Originally Published: July 20, 2025 at 7:11 AM CDT<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"With a mix of curiosity and a little apprehension, the man stepped inside Our Lady of Mount Carmel&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":78389,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5124],"tags":[54185,960,54184,54183,5386,1818,5603,3417],"class_list":{"0":"post-78388","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-chicago","8":"tag-catholic-archdiocese","9":"tag-chicago","10":"tag-chicago-catholics","11":"tag-chicago-lgbtq","12":"tag-il","13":"tag-illinois","14":"tag-lgbtq","15":"tag-pope-leo-xiv"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/114886446315604434","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78388\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}